Way to go Sultan. I personally salute you. You are standing by the teachings of your faith as you are understanding them.
Would it be fair to say that you follow the teachings of your faith?
Does this mean that you personally would marry a girl/woman who is at puberty (not before)?
I think intelligence does play some role in the way that you follow the teachings of your faith and use
some form of critical thinking in deciding what is meant by the teachings.
Just because it is stated that males and females can be married at puberty does not mean it is
COMMONPLACE now. I have not said that it is not happening. Not knowing, I would guess that if it does
happen it happens seldomly.
It seems that some of the people involved in this entire thread are about finding wrongs as compared to
their own cultural / religious beliefs. THis thread was started as an attemp to open discussion of Islamic
teachings. Lets not let it denegrate into religious warfare. If you have a problem with the teachings of
a faith, fine! Do not let it become personal!
Do not assume that all teachings are necessarily carried out as written.
"I agree with what Islam says that males and females are eligible to marry at puberty."
An example, just because it says you can be married at puberty does not mean it has to be at puberty.
It could be years afterward, just not before. (Read the word eligible.)
Sultan do you agree?
If you do not, please let me know why.
Thanks for your salute. I follow the teachings as best as I can.
I will marry a girl/woman who I feel compatible with and who is eligible for marriage.
I agree that just because it is stated as such, does not mean it is commonplace now. I never suggested as such.
And lastly, you are absolutely right. Islam says that males and females are eligible to marry at puberty. That does not mean that every Muslim MUST marry at puberty. It means that they cannot marry before puberty.
I agree with your post. I dont know why you seem to believe I differ.