At home salon business forced to close because owner wouldn't wax a trans "woman's" balls. (Canada)

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SlowSpyder

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I cannot believe I read one of the articles.

Let me quote one of them

Da Silva said she was not comfortable carrying out a Brazilian wax on a person with male genitalia, and lacked training on how to do so safely.


Why is this even being discussed


Wtf is wrong with the OP


So she had to close down her business because she thought it was her body, her choice, and she didn't have to touch testicles if she didn't want to. Some here are arguing that she does have to touch those balls, her body her choice doesn't matter here for some reason. This is a case of feelings being put in front of truth, a problem with the left today in general.
 
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zzyzxroad

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So she had to close down her business because she thought it was her body, her choice, and she didn't have to touch testicles if she didn't want to. Some here are arguing that she does have to touch those balls, her body her choice doesn't matter here for some reason. This is a case of feelings being put in front of truth, a problem with the left today in general.

I'm with you and am pro-choice as well!
 

JEDIYoda

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So let me get this right -- Slow took a trip to Canada and while he/she was there decided to have the hair removed from his/her genetial regions. But they Spa he/she went to refused...…….umm Ok!! Got it!!
 

child of wonder

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Damn some of you on the left are pretty far gone.

Jessica Yaniv is a child predator that actively desires to talk to preteen girls about menstruation and to be in locker rooms with them. He (I won't give him the respect of using female pronouns because it's quite obvious this is a sick man pretending to be a woman) uses his status as transgender for personal and financial gain.

I didn't click on any of the links posted, but am already familiar with this story. Jessica reached out to 19 different home salons that exclusively work on women for a Brazilian wax and identified as a woman each time. He then informed them he had male genitalia but identified as a women to which 17 of the 19 home salons declined to provide service for reasons varying from a lack of training working on males to a discomfort with handling male genitalia. In all 17 cases, Jessica proceeded to threaten litigation through Canada's recent Human Rights code protecting discrimination for transgenders or he would go away for a mere $2,500.

This dude is sick and is harming real transgender people by assuming their identity to harass children, small business owners, and capitalize on protections afforded transgender people through the law.
 

jmagg

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Damn some of you on the left are pretty far gone.

Jessica Yaniv is a child predator that actively desires to talk to preteen girls about menstruation and to be in locker rooms with them. He (I won't give him the respect of using female pronouns because it's quite obvious this is a sick man pretending to be a woman) uses his status as transgender for personal and financial gain.

I didn't click on any of the links posted, but am already familiar with this story. Jessica reached out to 19 different home salons that exclusively work on women for a Brazilian wax and identified as a woman each time. He then informed them he had male genitalia but identified as a women to which 17 of the 19 home salons declined to provide service for reasons varying from a lack of training working on males to a discomfort with handling male genitalia. In all 17 cases, Jessica proceeded to threaten litigation through Canada's recent Human Rights code protecting discrimination for transgenders or he would go away for a mere $2,500.

This dude is sick and is harming real transgender people by assuming their identity to harass children, small business owners, and capitalize on protections afforded transgender people through the law.

And this sample, is the best argument against multi space anyone bathrooms.
 

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So she had to close down her business because she thought it was her body, her choice, and she didn't have to touch testicles if she didn't want to. Some here are arguing that she does have to touch those balls, her body her choice doesn't matter here for some reason. This is a case of feelings being put in front of truth, a problem with the left today in general.

But that is not what she said in the article..

There was a safety issue.
 

Commodus

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Damn some of you on the left are pretty far gone.

Jessica Yaniv is a child predator that actively desires to talk to preteen girls about menstruation and to be in locker rooms with them. He (I won't give him the respect of using female pronouns because it's quite obvious this is a sick man pretending to be a woman) uses his status as transgender for personal and financial gain.

I didn't click on any of the links posted, but am already familiar with this story. Jessica reached out to 19 different home salons that exclusively work on women for a Brazilian wax and identified as a woman each time. He then informed them he had male genitalia but identified as a women to which 17 of the 19 home salons declined to provide service for reasons varying from a lack of training working on males to a discomfort with handling male genitalia. In all 17 cases, Jessica proceeded to threaten litigation through Canada's recent Human Rights code protecting discrimination for transgenders or he would go away for a mere $2,500.

This dude is sick and is harming real transgender people by assuming their identity to harass children, small business owners, and capitalize on protections afforded transgender people through the law.

My issue isn't what you described, it's that people like Slow use this as a passive-aggressive attack on the 'dangers' of an inclusive culture. Hey, support conservative anti-LGBT discrimination policies or you'll end up with legions of Jessica Yanivs corrupting society!
 

child of wonder

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My issue isn't what you described, it's that people like Slow use this as a passive-aggressive attack on the 'dangers' of an inclusive culture. Hey, support conservative anti-LGBT discrimination policies or you'll end up with legions of Jessica Yanivs corrupting society!

Yes, he does post some crazy shit.

But nowhere is he saying what you just did.

Crazy world we live in. This is in Canada, so I'm not sure how different their civil rights laws may be, but... what is your opinion? Should a salon worker be forced to handle a biological male's balls even if she doesn't want to because of this trans person's rights? Gotta bake a cake, right?

It's worth discussing. How do we balance protecting transgender people and the rights of private businesses to perform genital waxing on biological women only?
 

Luna1968

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I'll wax her no problem. Not homophobic like you neo Nazi's who want the final solution to every non white Christian question

you fucking moron. whats homophobic about a woman NOT wanting to fondle a mans junk? It is totally fucked up a government is forcing a woman to do this or close shop. dont you understand how fucked up that is?

your hatred for white people is showing.
 
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you fucking moron. whats homophobic about a woman NOT wanting to fondle a mans junk? It is totally fucked up a government is forcing a woman to do this or close shop. dont you understand how fucked up that is?

your hatred for white people is showing.

She does waxing and if she works at a place that services both sexes it doesn’t matter.
If the trans is being a creep to get off on the procedure the business can kick them out.
We’ve covered the skill/training is different for waxing beaver vs balls.
 

Luna1968

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She does waxing and if she works at a place that services both sexes it doesn’t matter.
If the trans is being a creep to get off on the procedure the business can kick them out.
We’ve covered the skill/training is different for waxing beaver vs balls.
Da Silva said she was not comfortable carrying out a Brazilian wax on a person with male genitalia, and lacked training on how to do so safely.

also the bat shit crazy guy who wanted his nuts waxed is a pedophile. even the trans community hates this fucker for all the negative attention he is bringing. he didnt show up at a pool party he was throwing because he forgot his tampons. this guy needs a whole lot of mental health help.
 
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also the bat shit crazy guy who wanted his nuts waxed is a pedophile. even the trans community hates this fucker for all the negative attention he is bringing. he didnt show up at a pool party he was throwing because he forgot his tampons. this guy needs a whole lot of mental health help.

Again been covered it’s up to Canada to figure this out.
This is such a niche problem it’s hardly worth talking about.

I’ll give you the same opportunity as slow.
You & I are in charge of everything anything we agree upon is permanent

I’ll give you all waxers may opt out of waxing services to any trans provided they issue a refund or disclose they don’t do work on trans people.

What will you give me regarding gun control?
 

cytg111

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#youhavenothing

The funny slash sad thing here is that you think you are representing slash promoting a certain political ideology... while in fact 99.9% of people who will ever ever read your threads only sees parody... They'll have a laugh(thats the funny part) then theyll realize you are not joking and cry a little (the sad part).
You are promoting the opposite of what you are trying to, Slow. Keep it up I guess. Also see a doctor.
 

zzyzxroad

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you fucking moron. whats homophobic about a woman NOT wanting to fondle a mans junk? It is totally fucked up a government is forcing a woman to do this or close shop. dont you understand how fucked up that is?

your hatred for white people is showing.


I'm with you. No one should be able to tell a woman what to do with her body. If she doesn't want to wax balls or have a baby no one should be able to force her.
 

Luna1968

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Again been covered it’s up to Canada to figure this out.
This is such a niche problem it’s hardly worth talking about.

I’ll give you the same opportunity as slow.
You & I are in charge of everything anything we agree upon is permanent

I’ll give you all waxers may opt out of waxing services to any trans provided they issue a refund or disclose they don’t do work on trans people.

What will you give me regarding gun control?

trans people is not the issue. the issue is a woman is being told she HAS fondle a mans balls. stop trying to dilute the issue with other issues.
 
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rommelrommel

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I agree it’s not a trans rights issue. It’s a racist piece of shit (they just went off again last night about Sikh people again) manipulating the system.
 
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trans people is not the issue. the issue is a woman is being told she HAS to was a mans balls. stop trying to dilute the issue with other issues.

Fine.

Same question as before any waxer may turn away any client for ANY reason.

Now what will you give me regarding gun control?

Let’s make a deal
 

1prophet

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My issue isn't what you described, it's that people like Slow use this as a passive-aggressive attack on the 'dangers' of an inclusive culture. Hey, support conservative anti-LGBT discrimination policies or you'll end up with legions of Jessica Yanivs corrupting society!

He wouldn't be able to use it if these laws were better thought out and written combined with the absolutist zero tolerance mentality, that many of our social justice warriors today espouse, being pushed on society, just like in female sports where biological females are getting destroyed by transgenders that identify as females yet society and women are just supposed to accept that.
 

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From what I have read he and his mother sound really screwed up. He did this to 12+ salons. Too bad none of the salons ripped the hair off his balls.


https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/transgender-woman-human-rights-waxing-1.5227434
The public hearing attracted attention Friday with about 30 individuals attending the proceedings and gathering outside. Some were there to support Yaniv while others demonstrated in support of the estheticians, many of whom are women of colour.

In a May 2019 decision, the tribunal member adjudicating the hearing said she was "troubled that some of JY's comments, made within this process and online, suggest that she holds stereotypical and negative views about immigrants to Canada."

Yaniv is seeking financial remedies of $25,000 from at least one corporate salon and $7,500 from an independent esthetician.

She also wants the B.C. Human Rights tribunal to issue a statement declaring the refusal of waxing services to be discriminatory and prohibited.

"It's not about the service at all," said Yaniv after the hearing concluded on Friday. "When you start discriminating against certain service elements and certain protected classes that's when we really have an issue."

The tribunal says it will have a decision on the case within three months.
 

JEDIYoda

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Yes, he does post some crazy shit.

But nowhere is he saying what you just did.



It's worth discussing. How do we balance protecting transgender people and the rights of private businesses to perform genital waxing on biological women only?
You are nieve! You have been on these forums how long? Lurking or otherwise and you don`t know Slow`s SOP???
 

Indus

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you fucking moron. whats homophobic about a woman NOT wanting to fondle a mans junk? It is totally fucked up a government is forcing a woman to do this or close shop. dont you understand how fucked up that is?

your hatred for white people is showing.

Your post doesn't make sense unless you are assuming all white people hate trans people which makes you an idiot.

Why another fake outrage?????
 
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Commodus

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Yes, he does post some crazy shit.

But nowhere is he saying what you just did.

Oh, come on. The subtext is practically screaming out for attention. It’s a classic bigot maneuver: avoid displaying obvious bigotry, but conveniently fixate on extreme cases in hopes of tarnishing the entire group. I’ve seen that happen on more than one forum.

Heck, we’ve seen that here before... remember Incorruptible, who lied that he wasn’t islamophobic but conveniently only ever posted stories from sources trying to demonize Muslims? Look at the pattern of behavior.
 

SlowSpyder

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My issue isn't what you described, it's that people like Slow use this as a passive-aggressive attack on the 'dangers' of an inclusive culture. Hey, support conservative anti-LGBT discrimination policies or you'll end up with legions of Jessica Yanivs corrupting society!


No you dolt, my issue isn't inclusion. I accept that anyone has the right to live how they'd like, if they're not harming others' rights then have at it. That is equality. My problem is this, that the left fights for privilege and not equality today. You cannot read this story and say this is about equality. This is about forcing people, at the threat of government action, to play his game of make believe. That is fascism. And today, I think the leftists honestly think they are fighting for freedom and some kind of just moral crusade when the reality is that they are the oppressors today.
 
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