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Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
im almost the opposite and it still not good (grass is always greener....... but it still needs mowing)
i get plenty of attention off the girls, which explains why ive been in many relationships with lots of girls...but the girl im with now is the one no more playin
but not only that...... i get plenty of attention off the boys too! im definately not gay, but i thought gay people had a kinda 6th sense about another bloke, like they could tell if he was gay or not. i've got one guy, who is a friend, who still trys to chat me up now! though im sure he now does it to take the piss, but there was once a time when tried it on for real
the latter is very annoying indeed. nearly every gay person ive met has shown a strong liking to me!!! makes me think im doing something wrong! or im acting camp or something
This man speaks the truth. I've heard the advice many times before, but it took me 26 years to figure it out for myself recently. You can (and should) try to improve yourself, but the basic you - your appearance, your natural character traits, intellect, etc. are things you should never have to apologize for. If the girls you meet aren't attracted to them, there will be one that will.Originally posted by: oCxTiTaN
Honestly man, think this out. It's a common misconception to think turning gay will ultimately solve this problem...that gay guys and lesbians are wild sexual creatures who only live to screw other gays and lesbians. Not true. Now, I'm not gay, nor have I ever thought of being so, but it's crazy to think that if you were to turn gay, men would be all over you. The problems you are encountering with women will only follow you so what you need, it seems, is counselling or a serious talk with someone you really trust to figure out what exactly is going wrong.
Sit back and think to yourself:
What makes me me?
What are the best qualities about me?
What are things I really need to work on?
What have been the problems with my past relationships?
Are my standards too high?
What exactly am I looking for in a women?
Things to help get chicks would include:
Be yourself. Don't try to impress, but don't be a prick. Girls like nice guys who aren't faking anything, including being nice.
Make them laugh. Women absolutely love a funny guy, but don't force it and watch what you joke about. Racial/blonde/dead baby jokes just may not be her thing.
Treat them better than you would yourself, and truly fall in love with her, not her looks or ass, which will both inevitably go south with age.
See them for who they really are and don't force the relationship. You can love someone and they still might not be "the one."
There are plenty of girls/women out there. If one, two, or even ten don't work out, they simply weren't meant to be. Nothing more, nothing less.
Originally posted by: ultimatebob
The few gay men that I know are even more mentally unstable than most women that I know. No thanks. Besides... They don't have boobies, and I like boobies
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you can't "turn gay"
Originally posted by: oCxTiTaN
Honestly man, think this out. It's a common misconception to think turning gay will ultimately solve this problem...that gay guys and lesbians are wild sexual creatures who only live to screw other gays and lesbians. Not true. Now, I'm not gay, nor have I ever thought of being so, but it's crazy to think that if you were to turn gay, men would be all over you. The problems you are encountering with women will only follow you so what you need, it seems, is counselling or a serious talk with someone you really trust to figure out what exactly is going wrong.
Sit back and think to yourself:
What makes me me?
What are the best qualities about me?
What are things I really need to work on?
What have been the problems with my past relationships?
Are my standards too high?
What exactly am I looking for in a women?
Things to help get chicks would include:
Be yourself. Don't try to impress, but don't be a prick. Girls like nice guys who aren't faking anything, including being nice.
Make them laugh. Women absolutely love a funny guy, but don't force it and watch what you joke about. Racial/blonde/dead baby jokes just may not be her thing.
Treat them better than you would yourself, and truly fall in love with her, not her looks or ass, which will both inevitably go south with age.
See them for who they really are and don't force the relationship. You can love someone and they still might not be "the one."
There are plenty of girls/women out there. If one, two, or even ten don't work out, they simply weren't meant to be. Nothing more, nothing less.
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
girls hate me, and you can only take so many rejections in stride before you realize you weren't meant to have hapiness in a certain direction. I guess I have to look somewhere else. I'm just not to have a happy life, or the hapiness that I want with a girl. I'm 25 and my longest relationship was with a girl 5 years ago, it lasted 7 weeks. I haven't had a gf in 4 years. I haven't gotten to a 2nd date with a girl in about 3 years. I can't find hapiness with girls, the hapiness I desire. I guess I have to look in a guy's butthole for hapiness now
HAhahaha:
I had one girlfriend for 3 motnhs when I was 20. Then when i was 26 mabe, I dated a girl for about 2 months.
Then later at around 26, I met my wife. Now I'm 30 and have a baby with a second on the way.
In my case, I think I just wasn't mighting the right girls. I spent alot of time at bars, etc. Well, I have a brain and bar chicks just wern't for me I guess. I met a teacher via match.com and it worked out great.
So .... what exactly is your story?
Oh, and no ... I never thought about it once. I love chicks!
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
I guess I have to look in a guy's butthole for hapiness now
Originally posted by: MrLee
Seriously guys, I'm glad it has come to this. Now we can really analyze just wtf ATOT is made of. I hope this opens some eyes.
Oh and by all means, YAGT is really FTL. You guys have apparently been asking for girl advice from individuals with very little resource to back their replies. I think all "omg my gf hates me becuase I can't make decisions on my own what should I do?.." threads and the like should be autobanned.
Stop getting advice from a forum and start talking to real life people. Parents are a good start, then move down the ladder from there. Hopefully ATOT will be at the bottom of your list and not so high as some of you keep it.
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Accipiter22
I guess I have to look in a guy's butthole for hapiness now
you were looking in a girl's vagina or butthole for happiness? somehow I don't think happiness is located there.