YAGT - she wants to sleep over at some party

[judasmachine]

your first mistake is trusting a high school girl. kids are so screwed up and confused that a real relationship is impossible.

 

[ViviTheMage]

haha, you guys make things so complicated!

 

[Specop 007]

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: notfred
She's not your fvcking wife, it's not like you really get any say in the matter.

Succinct. I like it.

:thumbsup:

I'd like to add, the fact that you even think you have a say means the relationship is doomed.

Who wants subservience in a partner? Op's got issues.

If you DONT have a say, you dont have a relationship either.

 

[eits]

you know what?

pic of girlfriend.... that way, we can all see whether or not you should let her go.

if she's smokin' hot, don't let her go.

if she's meh, let her go, cuz the chances are other dudes at the party won't be interested in messing around with her.

 

[ViviTheMage]

Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Looks like we're gonna get a "YAGT:My gf cheated on me " thread in a few days.

I dont think so. I wouldnt waste my time posting on here if she cheated on me....I woudl be elsewhere .


and I think I will have her read this! It will be fun.

 

[slsmnaz]

At least hit it one more time before she goes to the "party"

 

[ViviTheMage]

Originally posted by: eits
you know what?

pic of girlfriend.... that way, we can all see whether or not you should let her go.

if she's smokin' hot, don't let her go.

if she's meh, let her go, cuz the chances are other dudes at the party won't be interested in messing around with her.

I will have her email me something so you guys can take a looky!

I could allways use some ATOT approval on my girlfriend, haha.

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: some genius
i'd want to see a picture of the guy before i said "ok".... if he looked anything like jlgatsby, i'd tell her to have a great time. however, if he was attractive, i'd tell her that i wasn't comfortable with the idea.

why the hell does brandon live 2 hrs away and why does she want to go so badly? how does she know brandon?

either way, you should be like, "oh, sweet... that works out perfectly. i was afraid you'd say no, so i never asked. but now that you're going to sleep over at brandon's, my friend tiffany's having a party that same weekend and she invited me to sleep over.... some of the guys are gonna be there, too. i dunno why i was so afraid you'd say no.... hehe... stupid me."

qft

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Specop 007

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: notfred
She's not your fvcking wife, it's not like you really get any say in the matter.

Succinct. I like it.

:thumbsup:

I'd like to add, the fact that you even think you have a say means the relationship is doomed.

Who wants subservience in a partner? Op's got issues.

If you DONT have a say, you dont have a relationship either.

Untrue. If your partner fails to consider you in their actions you don't have a say, but the individual is responsible for the individual's actions, not the partner.

Seriously the trust issues evident in the whole damn question from beginning to end would make me flee the relationship like a burning ship.
This is the sort of thing, where if you find yourself asking the question, it's already gotten completely out of hand.

I can tell you that I've had relationships like this one, but the moment I started having relationships where I never had to ask these types of questions, I regretted ever sticking around in the old ones. It's not worth it.

 

[mattpegher]

Originally posted by: eits
you know what?

pic of girlfriend.... that way, we can all see whether or not you should let her go.

if she's smokin' hot, don't let her go.

if she's meh, let her go, cuz the chances are other dudes at the party won't be interested in messing around with her.

Better yet post her phone number too. I'm sure some of these guys would like a crack. Too young for most of us.

 

[meltdown75]

just let her go. if you care, pretend that you don't.

you know her better than anyone (presumably). if something is up, don't you trust your instincts to tell you as much?

btw, what are you going to do when she goes to college and lives in a dorm or in some house of skank? you gonna be worrying about that every single night too, twiddling your thumbs, wondering what she's up to?

just let her do what she wants. she's not your property, regardless of how much you feel that she is. if it works, it works. if it doesn't... well, there's no shortage of high schoolers for you to pick up. good luck.

 

[lokiju]

This is a funny thread.

As everyone has pointed out, if she doesn't want you to go then chances are she'll be up to something, she'd either have to be fine with you going or not go IMO.

But the fact that she's trying to not have you there is enough for me to think that things won't be lasting much longer between the two of you, which at your age isn't a big deal anyways.

 

[randay]

dump her. then invite a bunch of 17 yr old girls over your house for a sleepover.

 

[tfinch2]

Originally posted by: randay
dump her. then invite a bunch of 17 yr old girls over your house for a sleepover.

FTW

Man she's going to get pounded like a ragdoll at that party.

 

[ViviTheMage]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
you know her better than anyone (presumably). if something is up, don't you trust your instincts to tell you as much?

this is what I was looking for.


Exactly, you guys wouldnt be any help, but it was fun to see what you all say.

It does bring up some nice scenarios and conversations if something was to happen, if she went, or not went.

It is still up in the air if she will go or not, I will let her know I have ATOT backing me up!

PS : I told her to send pitures, so give me a second, haha.

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: tfinch2

Originally posted by: randay
dump her. then invite a bunch of 17 yr old girls over your house for a sleepover.

FTW

Man she's going to get pounded like a ragdoll at that party.

LMAO


I feel bad for the OP

 

[ViviTheMage]

Originally posted by: tfinch2

Originally posted by: randay
dump her. then invite a bunch of 17 yr old girls over your house for a sleepover.

FTW

Man she's going to get pounded like a ragdoll at that party.

let me add more stuff...

parents will be there, other girls will be there, supposedly no alcohol/drugs.

 

[BW86]

lol, let her go? Shes not your wife, she can do anything she wants.

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage

Originally posted by: tfinch2

Originally posted by: randay
dump her. then invite a bunch of 17 yr old girls over your house for a sleepover.

FTW

Man she's going to get pounded like a ragdoll at that party.

let me add more stuff...

parents will be there, other girls will be there, supposedly no alcohol/drugs.

Go with your instincts.

 

[spidey07]

You better post back in 1-2 weeks and explain the break-up.

It's very clear she's up to something. She's gonna get rode the entire night and then again in the morning.

 

[ViviTheMage]

Originally posted by: spidey07
You better post back in 1-2 weeks and explain the break-up.

It's very clear she's up to something. She's gonna get rode the entire night and then again in the morning.

funny.


lets just say, there have been 3 rides this week and its only monday, so thats not an issue.

 

[randay]

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage

Originally posted by: tfinch2

Originally posted by: randay
dump her. then invite a bunch of 17 yr old girls over your house for a sleepover.

FTW

Man she's going to get pounded like a ragdoll at that party.

let me add more stuff...

parents will be there, other girls will be there, supposedly no alcohol/drugs.

because she said so? so what? you trust her? make up your fvckin mind.

 

[Blazin Trav]

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage

Originally posted by: spidey07
You better post back in 1-2 weeks and explain the break-up.

It's very clear she's up to something. She's gonna get rode the entire night and then again in the morning.

funny.


lets just say, there have been 3 rides this week and its only monday, so thats not an issue.

From 3 other guys?

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: ViviTheMage

Originally posted by: spidey07
You better post back in 1-2 weeks and explain the break-up.

It's very clear she's up to something. She's gonna get rode the entire night and then again in the morning.

funny.


lets just say, there have been 3 rides this week and its only monday, so thats not an issue.

you are so naive.

 

[Specop 007]

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: Specop 007

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: notfred
She's not your fvcking wife, it's not like you really get any say in the matter.

Succinct. I like it.

:thumbsup:

I'd like to add, the fact that you even think you have a say means the relationship is doomed.

Who wants subservience in a partner? Op's got issues.

If you DONT have a say, you dont have a relationship either.

Untrue. If your partner fails to consider you in their actions you don't have a say, but the individual is responsible for the individual's actions, not the partner.

Seriously the trust issues evident in the whole damn question from beginning to end would make me flee the relationship like a burning ship.
This is the sort of thing, where if you find yourself asking the question, it's already gotten completely out of hand.

I can tell you that I've had relationships like this one, but the moment I started having relationships where I never had to ask these types of questions, I regretted ever sticking around in the old ones. It's not worth it.

What you said proves you do have a say, and you should.
You cant stop her and you cant force her to stay, but you damn well can tell her how you feel about it. And she should take that into consideration. If she doesnt take into consideration how you feel about things, then you really dont have a relationship.