YAGT - she wants to sleep over at some party

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Vich

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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.

rofl she will hump some guys brain out .
 

TheCrackedJack

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Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.

I look forward to next weeks post about how she cheated on you.

For me? Hell fvcking no she wouldnt go stay at another guys house.

yep, I'm awaiting this post as well.
 

CraigRT

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That's far enough away it might be more practical for her to just stay over. Clearly that is what most ppl would think.

I honestly dont' care, I've let it happen before... Meh.
 

Ika

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Vich
Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.

rofl she will hump some guys brain out .

Wouldn't it be the other way around...? :confused:
 

Specop 007

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Originally posted by: Aflac
Originally posted by: Vich
Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.

rofl she will hump some guys brain out .

Wouldn't it be the other way around...? :confused:

Never been with an aggressive girl have you........
 

pclstyle

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she's 17, there's no reasoning with her anyway.


you can threaten and berate, but she'll end up doing what she wants regardless. or you can trick her into the basement and lock her there for the duration of the weekend, feeding her liquids through a tube under the door - but there's a good chance she'll hate you by the end of it.


it's likely that she truly has no intention of doing anything questionable. however, when alcohol, other boys, and a sleepover are thrown in the mix -- anything is possible. judgement can be impaired, girls are easily won over with a few choice words and a little attention (it's unbelievable how easy it is to cater to any girl's desires), and without a ring on her finger or a baby in the womb -- there's not a damn thing you or anyone can do to stop her from doing exactly what she wants to do.

they're old friends of hers, yeah. but they sure as hell don't give a sh!t about you, and that's more than enough incentive for some slightly-intoxicated idiot to make it his mission to get her bent over by the end of the night. to be completely honest, i have more than a few 'old friends' that i wouldn't have a problem hooking up with, boyfriend or not, if we saw each other one night and the vibe was right. am i an ass? maybe. but sorry, unless you're engaged, or vows have been made - your girlfriend, let alone me, owes you anything at all. not a phone call to check in during the party, not an apology afterwards, NOTHING. you can flood the world with your tears all you like, after the fact, but you'll drown in misery alone.


OP: girls don't know how to compromise. if she insists, you lose. best you can hope for is a way to occupy yourself while you're waiting out those hellish hours. Oh, and try not to call her at 3 am in some last-ditch pride-out-the-window effort to check up on her. you'll piss off her and brandon.



 

IceBergSLiM

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seriously........seriously.....if you want to make sure she doesnt get drunk and bang some dude. Do the reasonable thing. Call th epolice around 10:30 pm and complain about a loud party. The party will be broken up before it gets started.
 

IceBergSLiM

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Originally posted by: Specop 007
Originally posted by: Aflac
Originally posted by: Vich
Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.

rofl she will hump some guys brain out .

Wouldn't it be the other way around...? :confused:

Never been with an aggressive girl have you........

yes definitely and they can hump your brains out.
 

Feneant2

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I say let her go or it might end up badly between you. If you find out later she cheated, then she isn't worth it.

I said too many no's like this and I'm now posting for stuff to do for a bored single guy so if you do say no, think long and hard about the repercussions.
 

mattpegher

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The point is she doesn't want you along, so like it our not she plans on engaging is something she doesn't want you to know about. Since there seems to be no ligitamate reason for you not to be there, she is showing you that she cannot be trusted. There is no way you will know if she tells you the truth when she get back. Just cut your losses and tell her to go. When she returns, end the relationship. You and this relationship cannot win.
 

Modular

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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.

*Red Flag raises high into the air*


^^If you ignore it and let her go, dump her right when she comes back^^

She is obviously hiding something, no matter what she says.
 

ViviTheMage

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if I say no, she will not go...I know that, she would stay if I said no.

I would find out when she got back if she cheated on me, she would confess in a shamble of tears
 

Specop 007

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Originally posted by: mattpegher
The point is she doesn't want you along, so like it our not she plans on engaging is something she doesn't want you to know about. Since there seems to be no ligitamate reason for you not to be there, she is showing you that she cannot be trusted. There is no way you will know if she tells you the truth when she get back. Just cut your losses and tell her to go. When she returns, end the relationship. You and this relationship cannot win.

FINALLY some sense. I'll be damned.


Jesus, no wonder ATOT is full of sap ass YAGThreads. Everyone sits back and plays stupid "I trust her, thats why I date her" and sends their girls off to get the bottom knocked out of it.
 

IceBergSLiM

Lifer
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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
if I say no, she will not go...I know that, she would stay if I said no.

I would find out when she got back if she cheated on me, she would confess in a shamble of tears

I know your in high school and you still have this image of women who are angels and can do no wrong......dont be so naive. She will bang a guy and then call you to tell you how much she misses you and wishes you were there while she is still naked in bed with him. I've seen it done.
 

ArJuN

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Um...yea I'm on the OP sides. You can trust your gf, but you can't trust 17yo guys, like me. Stick a camera on her :p
 

Baked

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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
if I say no, she will not go...I know that, she would stay if I said no.

I would find out when she got back if she cheated on me, she would confess in a shamble of tears

Bwhaahhahahahaha, so naive.