Went to a strip club with my guy friends, look what happened!

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aidanjm

Lifer
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Discuss it with your girlfriend. See if she thinks it is cheating. :)

What would happen if you said to gf that you are not happy with the state of your sex lives?
 

lavagirl669

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Originally posted by: sdaccord01
I drank one beer, that's it. I was a little buzzed, but I can see why some guys like to go to strip clubs. I haven't been to one in 3 years since we threw a party for my friend. Basically, I ended up paying for $80 (4 dances, $20/song). It's a relaxing feeling that made me feeling relaxed. I drove 9 hours in hectic traffic from the Bay Area to Irvine by the way, so I was stressed and tired, and deciding that I wanted to go to a strip club to my friends was just a way for me to get rid of stress.

I don't think your gf would understand your method of stress relief...
 

DaFOBulous1

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With me and my GF, sometimes we make out, but other times she gets mad at me for the smallest things. The thing is, is that I have been having a tough time finding a job since I graduated while she has a job. She gets stressed out by work nowadays and sometimes puts her stress onto me. Most of the times she treats me well, but when she gets mad, it makes me want to leave the relationship. If there was a hot girl with me right now, I would have to weigh out everything to see what I want to do, whether I want to break up with my gf and find a new girl or hope that my gf will manage her temper better. I'm not saying that I want to date a stripper or anything, it's just that the incident in the stripper made me feel good, that's it. My GF is pretty much my first one, since the first "GF" broke up with me after 12 days, while I've been with my current one for 2 1/2 years.
With me and my GF, sometimes we make out, but other times she gets mad at me for the smallest things. The thing is, is that I have been having a tough time finding a job since I graduated while she has a job. She gets stressed out by work nowadays and sometimes puts her stress onto me. Most of the times she treats me well, but when she gets mad, it makes me want to leave the relationship. If there was a hot girl with me right now, I would have to weigh out everything to see what I want to do, whether I want to break up with my gf and find a new girl or hope that my gf will manage her temper better. I'm not saying that I want to date a stripper or anything, it's just that the incident in the stripper made me feel good, that's it. My GF is pretty much my first one, since the first "GF" broke up with me after 12 days, while I've been with my current one for 2 1/2 years.

I'm about the same age as you and I feel you as girls ALWAYS get mad at the smallest things. But it seems she is the dominate one of the relationship as it seems you complain abt how she well she treats you. You have to be the man, it's all about how you are treating your woman!! Guys are suppose to be tougher...but eh.
As you being in your one and only true relationship, I think it's natural for after a while, we wonder what's it like to be on the other side or if there is something better. For me, I dated a lot but never got into any true relationship until my current gf so I was able to test the waters yet not get into any deep shit. While there are some fine hunnies at Davis, I don't ever think about cheating on her. IMO, what you did was cheating. Just reverse the roles and see how you would feel. I say keep this sh** you yourself and hope everyhing is cool late.
 

aidanjm

Lifer
Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: Wanescotting
why in the hell would you kiss a stripper?

So what, a stripper is so far beneath you, is such trash, that you would never deign to kiss her?

 

Amused

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I think you should call Jerry Springer, go on his show, and confess all to your girlfriend. Then you both can beat the sh!t out of each other and entertain the country with your stupidity.

"Next, on Springer: Honey, I kissed a stripper!"
 

iamme

Lifer
Jul 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: sdaccord01
Basically, I ended up paying for $80 (4 dances, $20/song).

haha, the stripper played you, man. all the "your so handsome" talk and letting you kiss her neck. she turned a $20 lapdance into an $80 one :D

 

Hammer

Lifer
Oct 19, 2001
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hahaha, you kissed a stripper. that's disgusting. how much cack had she been through that night? think about it. :laugh:
 

Qwest

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favorite line from the story...

"...when the lights turned on, she said that I look handsome even with the lights on..."

in all seriousness, if you're not goin to tell your gf you kissed a stripper, make sure you're twp boys keep their mouth shut and dont tell anyone.

 

isasir

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Aug 8, 2000
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Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: sdaccord01
Basically, I ended up paying for $80 (4 dances, $20/song).

haha, the stripper played you, man. all the "your so handsome" talk and letting you kiss her neck. she turned a $20 lapdance into an $80 one :D


Yup. Girl's got skillz.
 

Papagayo

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Jul 28, 2003
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If you made contact, then you cheated..

Since you kissed.. You have offically cheated on your girlfriend.. Congrats.. cheater.. lol
 

maziwanka

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Jul 4, 2000
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Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
Originally posted by: sdaccord01
I drank one beer, that's it. I was a little buzzed, but I can see why some guys like to go to strip clubs. I haven't been to one in 3 years since we threw a party for my friend. Basically, I ended up paying for $80 (4 dances, $20/song). It's a relaxing feeling that made me feeling relaxed. I drove 9 hours in hectic traffic from the Bay Area to Irvine by the way, so I was stressed and tired, and deciding that I wanted to go to a strip club to my friends was just a way for me to get rid of stress.

Most redundant sentence evAr.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA that is sig worthy material!
 

richardycc

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Apr 29, 2001
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yea, you cheated with a stripper, I guess you are easy, feel sorry for your gf, or soon to be ex-gf. ;)
 

purbeast0

No Lifer
Sep 13, 2001
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hahahahahahahahahhaaa

dude, that stripper played you better than jordan played basketball ...

"Your so handsome" - $20++
"Your so handome even in the lights" - $20++
"Kiss me" - $20++
"Let me kiss you on the neck" - $20++

wow, you got GOT!

ps, yes i would consdier that cheating, because if my GF did that I would be pissed. you are going to have to understand though in a relationship the "lets have sex 5 times a day" will eventually wear off. thats just part of it. but the thing is right now w/my gf and I, we have been together for like 2 years. now on average I say we have sex probably 3 times a week. however, not only does she not have the urge to do it 5 times a day, but neither do I heh.