Went to a strip club with my guy friends, look what happened!

[sdaccord01]

Okay, so I have a GF for over 2 1/2 years, and recently things sexually have gotten very boring. Nothing really happens nowadays but she still loves me a lot, just that there's not much excitement in our relationship. So, this weekend I went to southern california with her because she had to finish a research project. She went to UCSD while she dropped me off at my sister's place in Irvine. So, I saw two of my guy friends and one of them wanted to go to a strip club. I said okay to that, since I don't think looking at a topless girls is a form of cheating. Well, anyways, I wasn't interested in a lap dance until near the end of the night when it was about to close when they were saying, "Final call for dances." One of my guy friends got one and so I got one too (from a different stripper). So, a girl asked me if I wanted to dance, and I said yes, and of course, she was feeling me up, and I think things kinda went overboard cuz I ended up kissing her on the neck once and she said, "one more," then I did it again, then she said, "another one." Her face got really close to me and she was making me feel real good and since her lips were right next to mine I kissed her (no tongue). In the beginning she was complementing on how handsome I was in the beginning and then she danced on me till it closed and when the lights turned on, she said that I look handsome even with the lights on. I just complemented her the same way, but man, not that I have feelings for the stripper but it made me wish my girlfriend could make me feel that good sometimes. Did I cheat on my girlfriend by kissing a stripper?

For reading sake, here are cliff notes:
1) Not having much of a sexual relationship with a GF, although she loves me
2) Went to SoCal with her, went to a strip club with the guys
3) Kissed a stripper while having a lap dance

 

[tRaptor]

Nah

 

[Mo0o]

Naw, athough you might wanna get checked out for being dumb enough to kiss a stripper

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Yes.

Let me put it this way: if you tell your g/f something, and it would be grounds for an immediate break-up, its cheating.

 

[nmcglennon]

No... geez.

 

[paulney]

How old are you?

 

[Quasmo]

YOU BASTARD!!! nah... what happens in SoCal stays in SoCal?

 

[BeauJangles]

Well. Would you be cool if your girlfriend kissed a guy and had a guy groping her? Especially if she didn't talk to you beforehand?

 

[MartyMcFly3]

Just dont tell her about it

 

[seanws]

i thought it was common knowledge that strippers dont "count"

 

[Sluggo]

Pretty skanky behavior on your part.

Assume your girlfried kissed a male stripper, how would you feel? I bet you would be mad as hell.

 

[slick230]

Originally posted by: Mo0o
Naw, athough you might wanna get checked out for being dumb enough to kiss a stripper

Plus she didn't really mean it when she said you were handsome. They ALL say that. They're after your $$$, and will say anything to get it.

 

[Aimster]

lol your relationship sounds like mine. What you going to do about it? You didn't cheat on your girlfriend IMO. I had the same talk with my girlfriend tonight about how she is not as sexual as she once was. She just wants to cuddle latley and that's pretty much it. She loves me a lot and nothing is wrong. Women ... so hard to figure out.

Oh yeah. Don't tell her about it.

 

[BigFatCow]

You kissed a stripper :barf:

 

[sdaccord01]

I'm 23. Yeah, I know it was wrong, but I dunno. Sometimes I get weak with girls and for some reason it felt okay at the time. I know it wasn't the smartest thing to do, and I have a feeling this thread might get really because of what I did. I think my problem is that I want to meet more girls, and have more female friends, but since getting out of college @ UCSD last summer, I haven't had any contact with anybody but my GF and my guy friends.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Aimster
lol your relationship sounds like mine. What you going to do about it? You didn't cheat on your girlfriend IMO. I had the same talk with my girlfriend tonight about how she is not as sexual as she once was. She just wants to cuddle latley and that's pretty much it. She loves me a lot and nothing is wrong. Women ... so hard to figure out.

Oh yeah. Don't tell her about it.

She forgave you for discussing your relationship on ATOT?

 

[gabemcg]

were you drinking? if so no*
If not, I'd say yes just because of the length of the relationship


*If the kiss was in persuit of head, then yes

 

[Aimster]

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Aimster
lol your relationship sounds like mine. What you going to do about it? You didn't cheat on your girlfriend IMO. I had the same talk with my girlfriend tonight about how she is not as sexual as she once was. She just wants to cuddle latley and that's pretty much it. She loves me a lot and nothing is wrong. Women ... so hard to figure out.

Oh yeah. Don't tell her about it.

She forgave you for discussing your relationship on ATOT?

Lol I forgave her. I don't need her permission to do anything. Ok that's not true, but I like to believe it is

 

[pallansar]

Going to a strip club is not cheating. Just don't tell her about the kissing part.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

The guys who are saying "no" obviously have never caught a girlfriend making out with another guy.

 

[sdaccord01]

Yeah, Aimster, I feel you. She gets really tired at night too, and she always wants to go to bed early while I like to stay up late which causes conflicts. I don't plan on telling her about this, as I know that she will get extremely jealous and mad. Same thing about the cuddling, that's all she wants to do too. In May, we are going to be with each other for 3 years, and that's a long time for a relationship.

 

[desteffy]

HERPES

ps find a new girlfriend once the flame dies, it will not come back. (unless thats fine with you)

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Aimster
lol your relationship sounds like mine. What you going to do about it? You didn't cheat on your girlfriend IMO. I had the same talk with my girlfriend tonight about how she is not as sexual as she once was. She just wants to cuddle latley and that's pretty much it. She loves me a lot and nothing is wrong. Women ... so hard to figure out.

Oh yeah. Don't tell her about it.

She forgave you for discussing your relationship on ATOT?

Lol I forgave her. I don't need her permission to do anything. Ok that's not true, but I like to believe it is

'atta boy.

 

[RaiderJ]

How could you touch one of those disease-laden quasi-prostitutes? Yuck. But if it makes you feel special, go for it. If you like your g/f and want to stay with her, never mention it again.

If my girlfriend did something along those lines, I'd dump her. No difference to me if it's a male-stripper or some random guy.

EDIT: If you're bored with the girl, find another one. The sooner you do it the happier you'll be. IMO it's a bad sign if the sex goes downhill.

 

[spunkz]

yes very much cheating, U WILL BE CONSUMED BY GUILT BWAHAHA