UPDATE 1:My little brother just caught my sister snorting coke

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SuperFreaky

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I am so upset that would you even consider leaving your 12 year old sister in this situation! You need to do something about this ASAP!

You realize you've given us all the nessesary information to take care of this problem for you?

visits veromi.net
searches for Fred Leiblein, Bay City, TX
finds Lisa M Leiblein address
picks up phone
dials (979) 245-8500 (Bay City TX police department)
...
 

Bryophyte

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Originally posted by: SuperFreaky
I am so upset that would you even consider leaving your 12 year old sister in this situation! You need to do something about this ASAP!

You realize you've given us all the nessesary information to take care of this problem for you?

visits veromi.net
searches for Fred Leiblein, Bay City, TX
finds Lisa M Leiblein address
picks up phone
dials (979) 245-8500 (Bay City TX police department)
...

:Q
 

yowolabi

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Originally posted by: Duddy
Here's the thing though...

My brother and I have the same dad. Who is now divorced from my mom. But my sister is my stepdad's daughter. I can't do anything with her. I don't have any rights and neither does my dad.

And if I call child services, and they take my sister from my mom, my mom will probably kill herself. Seriously. It's pretty F'ed up over there.

Better for your mom, an adult who has control over her actions, to kill herself than for you stand by and watch them kill your little step-sister. Either you're too scared to do what is right, or you really just don't care about this little girl for whatever reason. Either way, i hope you come to your senses and call child services while that girl can still be saved.... which she can.

Besides, you don't know that your mom would kill herself, it's just as likely that this would be the wake up call for her to clean her act and get her kid back. That's a ridiculous reason to let your little sister continue to do crack.
 

DaiShan

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Originally posted by: SaturnX
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: Duddy
She's retarded (not literally) More than likely she is now an addict. And it not hard for her to get weed or crack. All she has to do is sneak into my stepdads room after school and take some. He probably doesn't mind either. Fvxking satanic sh!t over there!

Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John. I told them the truth and, in there faces, asked God to have mercy on their souls for what they were doing.

My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.


You are an assh0le. She is 12 fvcking years old, and lives with drug addicts for parents, she isn't anything she hasn't been made into. 12 is not beyond saving, it's not like she's been doing blow for 20 years, she is 12. If you can't take care of her fine, no one really expects you to, but find a relative, a grandparent, aunt/uncle someone that isn't as completely fvcked as the rest of your family seems to be and ask them to take your sister in. If they won't, call child protective services. Hell at this point you may be an accessory to a crime yourself. Now get off your high horse you POS and do something.

Reading Comprehsion FTL!

His sister is his step-sister, not his blood relative. She's the daughter of his step-dad.

The ONLY thing he can do is call Child Protective Services, THAT'S IT.

:disgust:


WOW your reading skills really suck man. Here I'll bold the relevant parts for you. Like the part where I said no one expects him to take his sister in? Do you think that she has no other relatives besides the OP and her parents? Don't think she has any grandparents etc? Notice how I never said bring the girl to HIS aunt/uncle etc. I also like how you seem to think there is nothing wrong with the OP abandoning a little girl who lives with drug addicts for parents, so take your disgust for me and shove it, as it's obviously misdirected.
 

Unheard

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Originally posted by: SuperFreaky
visits veromi.net
searches for Fred Leiblein, Bay City, TX
finds Lisa M Leiblein address
picks up phone
dials (979) 245-8500 (Bay City TX police department)
...

The truth is out there.....

I'm a bit skeptic after the links to the other threads, but you need to call the cops if it's the truth. If not the truth, maybe SuperFreaky will update us about the police report.
 

Scarpozzi

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Originally posted by: Goosemaster
Originally posted by: Mo0o
Child protective services for teh win

seems like a bad choice at first, but probably your best option if you wnat soemthing done IMMEDIATELY and don't want to go and see a lawyer.
Yeah...call the authorities...anonymously...
 

jman19

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On a side note, I like how RCN disappeared from his flame fest when he got called out as QuitBanningMe :laugh:
 

BoomerD

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Dude, this is your step-sister? Then she's not really related to you. Hell, if she wants to maintain a coke habit, you need to start pimpin her out QUICK before someone else does, that way, you can both make some cash on the business....12 is a bit young for me personally, but there are LOTS of fat-cats out there who would like a taste of that...<eeew>


(NO, I'm NOT serious, but once the truth of the thread was brought up, I figure why not have fun with it...) (IF the OP is actually telling the truth, then by all means, CPS needs to be brought in, and the parents hauled off to jail posthaste...)
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: Duddy
Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John.
What exactally is "Blunt"?

Just because John has a polydrug collection does not mean that he sells. Chances are that unless you saw huge amounts of anything, he just has a large habit. People usually sell one or two drugs, nobody sells "everything".
 

SuperFreaky

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Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: Duddy
Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John.
What exactally is "Blunt"?

Just because John has a polydrug collection does not mean that he sells. Chances are that unless you saw huge amounts of anything, he just has a large habit. People usually sell one or two drugs, nobody sells "everything".


"once you get locked into a serious drug collection, the tendency is to push it as far as you can"
 

gwrober

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Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Indolent
So you don't care what happens to your sister?

She's 12 and already snorting coke.
She's already fvcked in the head.



Sorry, but that's a poor attitude to take about a kid and drugs - I have an 11 yr old, and I'll be damned if any of that crap makes it into my house, or my kids' lives! And if it did, am I supposed to just abandon her because she made some bad choices?!? :confused:
 

Topweasel

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Originally posted by: jman19
On a side note, I like how RCN disappeared from his flame fest when he got called out as QuitBanningMe :laugh:

No his Link was screwed up. for some reason when entered into the adressbar it takes you to a buetiful girl in minimal but SFW clothing. The problem was the link when used as a hot link took him directly to the homepage which was a soft porn page. Because it was unintentional it looked like he got a vacation.

Taking in a rebelious female is dangerous long story short my parents brought in my cousin whos father pretends she doesn't exist (because gf wants him to only care for her kids) and mother is a welfare rat with nothing to give society. She was nice and friendly prior to moving in but went all psycho crazy when they enforced any common sense rule. Eventually after finding out she was bringing some older (16-17 yr old vs. her 14) into their house to sleep with him, they confronted her. My dad just stood in the doorway in her room and wouldn't let her leave till they talked about. She went all feral on him and ended up breaking my dads nose just for standing in her way. Shortly after she moved back into her moms, then accused her of abuse and jumped out of a moving car. I know of three other friends of the families kids who were raised better then her but still rebelled in the same crazy ass manor. This one hit a little closer to home.
 

ValkyrieofHouston

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Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: Duddy
My little brother wants out of my moms house and wants to live with me. Everyone over there: my mom, stepdad, cousin and sister are all pot heads in public. It is giving my brother a bad name at school because nobody believes that he lives there and doesn't do any of that.

I feel bad for my mom, but tomorrow I'm going over there to take my brother from her. This HAS to end. My brother wants a normal life like the one I have and doesn't want to be raised by dumba$$e$.

Might want to start legal action regarding this so you can become his legal guardian or it'll start getting uglier.


Agreed....
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: SuperFreaky
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: Duddy
Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John.
What exactally is "Blunt"?

Just because John has a polydrug collection does not mean that he sells. Chances are that unless you saw huge amounts of anything, he just has a large habit. People usually sell one or two drugs, nobody sells "everything".


"once you get locked into a serious drug collection, the tendency is to push it as far as you can"
:laugh::thumbsup:

:cool:
 

ValkyrieofHouston

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Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Indolent
So you don't care what happens to your sister?

She's 12 and already snorting coke.
She's already fvcked in the head.


That is a really stupid thing to say... it sounds to me like she is coping in the wrong way with a bad situation. She needs someone to intervene and help her. She is a child who obviously is in a bad houshold situation with no real parental guidance.
 

Chiropteran

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Originally posted by: Duddy
She's retarded (not literally) More than likely she is now an addict. And it not hard for her to get weed or crack. All she has to do is sneak into my stepdads room after school and take some. He probably doesn't mind either. Fvxking satanic sh!t over there!

Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John. I told them the truth and, in there faces, asked God to have mercy on their souls for what they were doing.

My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.

Why do you bring religion into it? I don't see where it has ANYTHING to do with their drug problem.
 

BigJ

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Originally posted by: Chiropteran
Originally posted by: Duddy
She's retarded (not literally) More than likely she is now an addict. And it not hard for her to get weed or crack. All she has to do is sneak into my stepdads room after school and take some. He probably doesn't mind either. Fvxking satanic sh!t over there!

Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John. I told them the truth and, in there faces, asked God to have mercy on their souls for what they were doing.

My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.

Why do you bring religion into it? I don't see where it has ANYTHING to do with their drug problem.

UH-OH! Watch out for Mr. PC over here! We're not allowed to call anything "satanic" now. On top of that, God forbid a religious person asks God to have mercy on peoples' souls.

Or posts on a message board and tells us what he actually said instead of just generalizing.
 

jman19

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Originally posted by: Topweasel
Originally posted by: jman19
On a side note, I like how RCN disappeared from his flame fest when he got called out as QuitBanningMe :laugh:

No his Link was screwed up. for some reason when entered into the adressbar it takes you to a buetiful girl in minimal but SFW clothing. The problem was the link when used as a hot link took him directly to the homepage which was a soft porn page. Because it was unintentional it looked like he got a vacation.

Wrong. If you read the thread in question, RCN removes the link before he could get banned. A mod left a comment in the post in question.
 

Duddy

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Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: Goosemaster
Writing your sister off is not something you should take lightly, as it appears you are doing. Excuse me if I misunderstood, but crackhead or not, she is still a child in danger, and your perogative, at least if yo ure following societies generic code of conduct, should be to do everything in your power to get her out of there.

She might me a little crackhead bitch, but she's family, and it should be your perogative to look out for her.

Simply playing the part of the opertunistic person or the fortune teller earns you no points, and could have dire repurcusions in the future.
Exactly!!! She's 12, not 22, she's just a kid in a horrible situation. Have you tried talking to her OP?


I just learned about this last night. She gets out of school at 3, so I'm gonna go talk with them.
 

Duddy

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Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: Duddy
She's retarded (not literally) More than likely she is now an addict. And it not hard for her to get weed or crack. All she has to do is sneak into my stepdads room after school and take some. He probably doesn't mind either. Fvxking satanic sh!t over there!

Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John. I told them the truth and, in there faces, asked God to have mercy on their souls for what they were doing.

My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.


You are an assh0le. She is 12 fvcking years old, and lives with drug addicts for parents, she isn't anything she hasn't been made into. 12 is not beyond saving, it's not like she's been doing blow for 20 years, she is 12. If you can't take care of her fine, no one really expects you to, but find a relative, a grandparent, aunt/uncle someone that isn't as completely fvcked as the rest of your family seems to be and ask them to take your sister in. If they won't, call child protective services. Hell at this point you may be an accessory to a crime yourself. Now get off your high horse you POS and do something.



You don't understand! I cant take my sister. And there is no other family around us. Besides, she talks like a 19 year old girl. She thinks she's right about every freakin' thing.

 

Duddy

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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: Duddy
Originally posted by: Goosemaster
Originally posted by: Duddy
My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.

You job, as their older sibling, is to never accept their faults. Oush them repeatedly to better themselves. If they are doing crak, push them or force them to get clean. then force them to go to school..then a job..then college.

While your acts of heroism or jsut downright brotherly respinsibility are admirable, they seemed rather muted by your indifference to your sister based on her personality.


I hate many people in my family, but I was sure as hell take a bullt or push them out of the way of an incoming vehicle without thinking.....

I would that for every wretched one....




Here's the thing though...

My brother and I have the same dad. Who is now divorced from my mom. But my sister is my stepdad's daughter. I can't do anything with her. I don't have any rights and neither does my dad.

And if I call child services, and they take my sister from my mom, my mom will probably kill herself. Seriously. It's pretty F'ed up over there.


The worst thing I have ever done in my life was getting a $300 speeding ticket from doing 95 in a 60. I forgot to plug my radar detector in. -_-;

so you think getting CAUGHT is what's the doing a bad thing part, not the endangering peoples lives by traveling at excessive speeds? :roll:



It was on a country road in the middle of nowhere. The road is used for speeding and races, but I guess I was lucky that day.