UPDATE 1:My little brother just caught my sister snorting coke

Duddy

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My little brother wants out of my moms house and wants to live with me. Everyone over there: my mom, stepdad, cousin and sister are all pot heads in public. It is giving my brother a bad name at school because nobody believes that he lives there and doesn't do any of that.

I feel bad for my mom, but tomorrow I'm going over there to take my brother from her. This HAS to end. My brother wants a normal life like the one I have and doesn't want to be raised by dumba$$e$.




EDIT:
My brother is 16 Pic of Him
Me and my dad live together.

Here is a pic of my sis, my mom, and my bro. Pic


UPDATE: I just got off the phone with my brother and he says my sister wasn't caught snorting coke last night. He said it never happened.

Appearently, he called my girlfriends sister (who he used to date) and told her what happened last week. Last week my brother said he wanted to move out and my mom totally flipped saying weed is fine and sh!t.

I guess she thought it all happened last night and then she told my girlfriend. But me and my brother can't figure out who made up the story about my sister snorting coke.



So here is the situation soo far:

- My sister still smokes weed.
- He told me that she gets drunk about once every week.
- Everything in this post still applies. He still wants to move out and my sister has problems.

 

Kelvrick

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Originally posted by: Duddy
My little brother wants out of my moms house and wants to live with me. Everyone over there: my mom, stepdad, cousin and sister are all pot heads in public. It is giving my brother a bad name at school because nobody believes that he lives there and doesn't do any of that.

I feel bad for my mom, but tomorrow I'm going over there to take my brother from her. This HAS to end. My brother wants a normal life like the one I have and doesn't want to be raised by dumba$$e$.

Might want to start legal action regarding this so you can become his legal guardian or it'll start getting uglier.
 

ThePresence

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Good 4 u. Normally I would say that a kid needs his/her parents. But if they're potheads, what kind of example is that? Kid would probably do alot better with you. Just realize that it's a big responsibility, and you will be setting an example for him whether you want to or not. He'll be looking up to you.

Good luck. :thumbsup:
 

kirkaptain

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I wish you luck.

How old is your brother? Are you in a position to support him? Anyone know the legal ramifications?
 

Duddy

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Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: Duddy
My little brother wants out of my moms house and wants to live with me. Everyone over there: my mom, stepdad, cousin and sister are all pot heads in public. It is giving my brother a bad name at school because nobody believes that he lives there and doesn't do any of that.

I feel bad for my mom, but tomorrow I'm going over there to take my brother from her. This HAS to end. My brother wants a normal life like the one I have and doesn't want to be raised by dumba$$e$.

Might want to start legal action regarding this so you can become his legal guardian or it'll start getting uglier.



I know I know. This is gonna suck.

Actually, I'll go over there with a Teddy Roosevelt attitude; tread softly and carry a big stick. Besides, I go to college and me and my dad live together. But it would be better for me to handle the situation.
 
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Originally posted by: essasin
Originally posted by: Indolent
So you don't care what happens to your sister?

can not help anyone that does not want to be helped

yea, b/c his sister knows what she wants at the age of 12 growing up with 2 fvckheads to guide her in the game of life. :roll:
 

Indolent

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Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Indolent
So you don't care what happens to your sister?

She's 12 and already snorting coke.
She's already fvcked in the head.



The sooner he gets her out, the better chance she has. I'm sure social services would be there in a minute if they found out what was going on.
 

Duddy

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She's retarded (not literally) More than likely she is now an addict. And it not hard for her to get weed or crack. All she has to do is sneak into my stepdads room after school and take some. He probably doesn't mind either. Fvxking satanic sh!t over there!

Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John. I told them the truth and, in there faces, asked God to have mercy on their souls for what they were doing.

My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.
 

UncleWai

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May be your family shouldn't reproduce anymore, sounds like a complete failure, just like your billionaire "invention".
 

RCN

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Originally posted by: UncleWai
May be your family shouldn't reproduce anymore, sounds like a complete failure, just like your billionaire "invention".

ouch.......................
 

Goosemaster

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Writing your sister off is not something you should take lightly, as it appears you are doing. Excuse me if I misunderstood, but crackhead or not, she is still a child in danger, and your perogative, at least if yo ure following societies generic code of conduct, should be to do everything in your power to get her out of there.

She might me a little crackhead bitch, but she's family, and it should be your perogative to look out for her.

Simply playing the part of the opertunistic person or the fortune teller earns you no points, and could have dire repurcusions in the future.
 

Duddy

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She's retarded (not literally) More than likely she is now an addict. And it not hard for her to get weed or crack. All she has to do is sneak into my stepdads room after school and take some. He probably doesn't mind either. Fvxking satanic sh!t over there!

Plus, I have a suspiscion that my stepdad (for now on I'll call him John) is a pusher. One time, when I lived over there, I found a black bag full of almost every drug on the market. From Blunt to X. I moved out when I was 16. I finally workied up the nerve to go off on my mom and John. I told them the truth and, in there faces, asked God to have mercy on their souls for what they were doing.

My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.
 

Goosemaster

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Originally posted by: RCN
Originally posted by: UncleWai
May be your family shouldn't reproduce anymore, sounds like a complete failure, just like your billionaire "invention".

ouch.......................

seriosuly. some people have no concept of posting for kicks and posting the day to day turmoils of like.


 

Duddy

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Originally posted by: UncleWai
May be your family shouldn't reproduce anymore, sounds like a complete failure, just like your billionaire "invention".

Which one? The caffiene mouthpiece or the Trucking All-in-One?


I was going to send some PayPal to that bunny in your sig, but I have since changed my mind.




Seriously though, this is kinda a big thing and sensitivity would be greatly appreciated.
 

batmanuel

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Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Indolent
So you don't care what happens to your sister?

She's 12 and already snorting coke.
She's already fvcked in the head.

One-way ticket to crack whore town, probably. Or maybe she'll clean up later, write a best-selling memoir about her stupidity and get on Oprah.

 

Goosemaster

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Originally posted by: Duddy
My sister seemed strong willed whenI left. She was an avid cheerleader, the biggest prep ever and a Disney Channel watching blonde.

Now she is what she is.

You job, as their older sibling, is to never accept their faults. Push them repeatedly to better themselves. If they are doing crack, push them or force them to get clean. then force them to go to school...then a job...then college.

While your acts of heroism, or just downright brotherly respinsibility, are admirable, they seemed rather muted by your indifference to your sister based on her personality and/or her present situation.

I hate many people in my family, but I was sure as hell would take a bullet or push them out of the way of an incoming vehicle without thinking.....I would that for every wretched one of them....