Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: lMlHuxley
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: lMlHuxley
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Oh, crime happens everywhere all the time. Violent crime is a different story though. Especially violent crime that involves the need for weapons. If you bring fists to a fight, you probably are going to walk away. If you bring a knife or gun to a fight, who knows. I would rather risk getting beat up or getting my wallet stolen than risk getting killed. I would be very interested in some statics that show how situations without weapons involved and with weapons involved end up.
right violent crime that actually happens is rare. But why take the chance of getting murdered, raped or such?
In the city i live Muggings don't happen very often. But there has been a few murders and a bunch of rapes. My wife and i would rather have her attempt to fight etc and escape then get raped. Considering she works nights i think her carrying pepper spray, etc is a smart move even thought the chances of anything happening is really low.
Pity that you think protecting yourself is stupid or wrong. I just hope your family never know the trauma of being raped.
Don't mock me. There is a HUGE difference between just being in the suburbs and working the 9-5 than being a woman who works nights and has to walk through a dark parking lot every night. Pity you can't keep your story straight. You go from "safe neighborhood" to "working graveyard shifts and dark parking lots".
hate to tell you but while i do live in the suburbs while it is safe during the day. AT night it is dark and not safe. NOT to mention if you read the back post i mentioned the closest neighbor is 1/2 mile away.
I have no worries about her walking around during the day. At night again it is a different story. IF you do NOT understand that its not my problem.
I have NOT heard of a city that does not have rapes. WE do not want to take the chance of her getting raped. no matter how "SAFE" you think the area is it still happens.
As stated this area is pretty safe (heck of a lot safer then the larger cities) but is safe enough to not worry about getting raped? HELL NO!
I have kept my story straight. I said she carries pepper spray. I carry a pocket knife (also mentioned it would be useless in a fight) but i also have a club in the car and trunk. Regardless where you live you should do your best to be safe.
I also stated i want a handgun for the house. again as i have stated our house is secluded. There is no neighbors near us.
IF pointing out that we want to be safe is mocking you then i bet you feel everyone mocks you. I'm glad you are OK with just being UN-armed and willing to take whatever someone does to you. While if anyone bothers me they just want my money (considering i carry maybe $5 at a time I'm not out much) But if someone bothers my wife odds are they want more then that. We are not willing to take that chance.
Get out and see the world. It is not as pretty as TV makes it out to be.