And how am I anything close to being "a person of Faith" anyway? Did you even bothered to read the links I posted? You sure don't sound like you did. And how are my sexual beliefs immoral? Do I go around promoting rape or kidnapping young women to sell into sexually slavery?
Is this what you think of me?
^^^ This, Moonie, this. Climb down off your impossibly high horse; get a shovel, and go clean up all the streaming road apples of prissy cloister virtue you left in your wake.
I like apple pie. I hate to be a lecturing prig but anybody who has never had a really good apple pie should try one. Thanks for YOUR lecture. I'm sorry but I'm really really very comfortable with my position on this even if I am the only one who understands what it is. And the Best of New Years!^^^ This, Moonie, this. Climb down off your impossibly high horse; get a shovel, and go clean up all the streaming road apples of prissy cloister virtue you left in your wake.
I'm no fan of the pornography business, but my (female) friend is a house aid to a guy with ALS who is grateful for the pleasure and release free internet fucky-fuck affords him. Why don't you pay him a visit and lecture him on how he's "missing the real value of sex?"
Our "virtuous" country tried to outlaw alcohol, which has caused many much pain. How did that work out? Our "virtuous" country launched a "war on drugs." It jumped started the private prison industry. Sex for money, in all its forms, is the second oldest profession. Think about why as you climb down off your shining WHITE steed and mix in with the rest of us down here in the mud and spent condoms.
At least viewing pornography doesn't spread venereal disease.
WOMEN sex workers have organized unions for the RIGHT to ply their profession.
To them, the only thing worse than a fatuous lecturing prig is a scab.
And Merry Christmas to 'ya, my high-minded friend.
Then get off your horse and mingle.
The guy with ALS can't . . . get any. Would you let him starve? Would you deny his hot little slices of porno pie?
Right back at 'ya, Mr. Moon!
I doubt he gets it that his "morals" would dictate that women be controlled like animals in order to prevent them from being debased like animals.
Why do you want to pigeon hole me with this notion of 'must'. Are you looking for me to show you in a book? I think what I have said that as far as I am concerned the evolution of one's understanding of love equates to the realization that sex with love is the best sex. This is an experience of a feeling state the value of which is self evident when experienced. You know or you don't. So, who says is me but it is also me who knows it. I have also discovered that if you fall it can hurt. I am really very very sure. And if I'm attributing reality to a dream state, I really don't care. It's satisfies all me needs for certainty. Sex can be for whatever you want it to be. I want it to be for what it is best to be. It's a kind of self respect to go with the best you can. Everyone else, if the feel the same way, can choose to do what they have evolved to see as the best. They can't do otherwise unless they decide they really don't care about self respect. There is no looking down on lesser evolved people, but there is looking back and recognizing where people are on their journey. Of course, there is no looking forward because that experience has yet to be had.
No idea. Never been interested in all the anxiety stuff surrounding food and nutrition. Don't take vitamins and try to eat some of this and some of that. But I do know I would rather have sex with someone I'm in love with, not that I don't love my hand or my rubber ducky, but not in that way.
You mentioned two "isms" Isms are sacred cows, abstractions and formulations one buys into as a matter of faith, faith even in your own reason, which is exactly what I question. I don't believe in the things I am saying. I am telling you what I know from experience. I mentioned several times now, I am pretty sure, that whenever somebody says something that challenges unconscious assumptions people have they get defensive and that, as I have suggested to you numerous times, is because we hate ourselves and any questioning of the ego identifications we make that make us feel better, threaten to kick the stool out from under phony self acclimation and throw us into potential self confrontation. You aren't bad. You are self protective as you had to be to survive your childhood conditioning. I don't know why I destroyed all those comforting ego identifications as I grew up. I blame my Mother who told me to always be honest. Perhaps I had experienced more pain than most so the identifications failed to hold, or I was luck enough not to have so much bad stuff I need to deny and were thus easier for me to cut through. I suspect the former. I don't know but for whatever reason I was forced to confront my inner despair and the death of everything I held dear by way of naive and quieting notions about reality. All of that ended in a single moment of realization, an experience that is hard, impossible, to explain.And how am I anything close to being "a person of Faith" anyway? Did you even bothered to read the links I posted? You sure don't sound like you did. And how are my sexual beliefs immoral? Do I go around promoting rape or kidnapping young women to sell into sexually slavery?
^^^ This, Moonie, this. Climb down off your impossibly high horse; get a shovel, and go clean up all the streaming road apples of prissy cloister virtue you left in your wake.
I'm no fan of the pornography business, but my (female) friend is a house aid to a guy with ALS who is grateful for the pleasure and release free internet fucky-fuck affords him. Why don't you pay him a visit and lecture him on how he's "missing the real value of sex?"
Our "virtuous" country tried to outlaw alcohol, which has caused many much pain. How did that work out? Our "virtuous" country launched a "war on drugs." It jumped started the private prison industry. Sex for money, in all its forms, is the second oldest profession. Think about why as you climb down off your shining WHITE steed and mix in with the rest of us down here in the mud and spent condoms.
At least viewing pornography doesn't spread venereal disease.
WOMEN sex workers have organized unions for the RIGHT to ply their profession.
To them, the only thing worse than a fatuous lecturing prig is a scab.
And Merry Christmas to 'ya, my high-minded friend.
I blame her, too . . . perpetuating that whole "hairy palms" myth!
With the best honesty she taught me to cultivate, I don't believe this is true. And while you may not be ready to concede to my sense of this, I won the argument with you when you said: "Why don't you pay him a visit and lecture him on how he's "missing the real value of sex?" How could you have made that charge to me were it not for the fact that you compare the value of things and projected that onto me?I blame her, too . . . perpetuating that whole "hairy palms" myth!
The point is somewhat subtle. (Refering back to projection) How would you see in me something you are not capable of? My aim was to suggest that we step back and examine our assumptions about sex because, as I see it, sex is one of the first areas of conscious understanding that self hate fucks up. I give little credence here to the notion that the origin of my opinions here are ism morally based. In short, you brought your own moral sense of valuation into the discussion and unconsciously projected it onto me. I don't believe that what I am saying here is coming from that place. I believe that I have left that moral nonsense behind and found in it's place the source from which moral wisdom springs the Alpha and Omega of things. And if there is anything to the notion that one knows what one knows and what one knows in nothing at all, it will be difficult to convince me of things I suffered deeply from abandoning and no longer believe, especially considering what I call Grace. In the absence of thought the beauty of the world is revealed.What about sex for pleasure, my dear Moonie? Both Men and Women do willing engage in coitus for other reasons besides love and procreation. You aware of this, right?
Let me tell you about the two "ISMs" I posted links to for you to read. Again you don't sound like you actually read either one of them. If you had, then you would be aware that both of them are not dogmatic at all and do not in anyway require any form of faith.
As a 30 year old virgin I honestly don't know if I'll ever have sex. I am autistic and I don't think I have that natural 'congeniality' to be intimate with someone and just go the full stretch. I am just going to go on a holiday from my country and sleep with an escort and then pay her to tell me about what she thinks about intimacy, relationships and what women value in their partners. Particularly things like male psychological attributes and the intersection of female sexual liberation, monogamy and escorting as a profession
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