Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Marshallj
Originally posted by: SnapIT
"No class at all, and they didn't seem to care" Why should they? They are the way they want to be, not putting on an act or anything, why should they care about what you or anyone else thinks?
The only problem is that they behaved in a manner that got them the reputation as being a "slut", but they do not like being labelled a "slut". No one person gave them that label, they earned it in the eyes of the people that knew them.
Just like some dudes in school acted in such a way that people called them a "troublemaker", but of course they don't like being labelled that way.
If you asked anyone at all who had a bad reputation and asked if they deserved it, of course they'll always say "no". It doesn't mean that they don't deserve it, it just means THEY don't think they deserve it.
yes. very good.
you are not how you view yourself, but how others view you. your judgement and condemnment lies in the eyes of your peers, not yourself.
WOW, you sound like a 14 year old insecure girl....
It IS how you view yourself, THAT is what really matters....
If you don't like yourself, nobody else will either... trying to please all others with your behaviour only means that you never get to do what YOU want to do...
Screw others views, it's your own self-image that you have to live with...
and you sound like a dumbarse.
I can give myself no righteousness. i can give myself no significance. i can give myself no power, no leadership, no reason on this earth. that is only given to me by others. the same goes for you, for any of you. my own self image is meaningless. it has no weight, no bearing, it is ephemeral, a smoke in the wind. Only how we are percieved in the eyes of our peers is what determines our worthiness of this life and this earth.
I can give my self righteousness, i can give myself significance, power, reason if i do what *I* think is right... what others think about me... i couldn't care less...
This is my choice, this is how i live, if you don't like it, you don't have to be around me, i probably don't want you around me either...
The ones who are close to me understand this...
But i can understand your insecurity, at your age, how others percieve you is much more important...
i have no insecurity and my age is meaningless. do not mistake me for a 13 year old girl checking herself in the mirror daily waiting for her tits to grow in.
yiou cannot give yourself righteousness. nor can you give yourself power, significance, or anything else. Only through actions are you judged. then you are granted these things based on your worthiness. i severely doubt you are worthy.
and what i think of myself is meaningless. i can say im worthy or not, that matters not. it is only what you and everyone else says that determines my worthiness.
If you care more about what others think about you than what you think about yourself you are insecure, that is the very definition of insecurity....
If age is meaningless, would you say that all your views and thoughts are the same now as when you were 13? I am almost twice your age and i can tell you that your views will change many times before you reach my age...
And trust me, i don't care if you think i am worthy, i do, and that all that matters...