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SnapIT

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Marshallj
Originally posted by: SnapIT
"No class at all, and they didn't seem to care" Why should they? They are the way they want to be, not putting on an act or anything, why should they care about what you or anyone else thinks?

The only problem is that they behaved in a manner that got them the reputation as being a "slut", but they do not like being labelled a "slut". No one person gave them that label, they earned it in the eyes of the people that knew them.

Just like some dudes in school acted in such a way that people called them a "troublemaker", but of course they don't like being labelled that way.

If you asked anyone at all who had a bad reputation and asked if they deserved it, of course they'll always say "no". It doesn't mean that they don't deserve it, it just means THEY don't think they deserve it.

yes. very good.

you are not how you view yourself, but how others view you. your judgement and condemnment lies in the eyes of your peers, not yourself.

WOW, you sound like a 14 year old insecure girl....

It IS how you view yourself, THAT is what really matters....

If you don't like yourself, nobody else will either... trying to please all others with your behaviour only means that you never get to do what YOU want to do...

Screw others views, it's your own self-image that you have to live with...

and you sound like a dumbarse.

I can give myself no righteousness. i can give myself no significance. i can give myself no power, no leadership, no reason on this earth. that is only given to me by others. the same goes for you, for any of you. my own self image is meaningless. it has no weight, no bearing, it is ephemeral, a smoke in the wind. Only how we are percieved in the eyes of our peers is what determines our worthiness of this life and this earth.

I can give my self righteousness, i can give myself significance, power, reason if i do what *I* think is right... what others think about me... i couldn't care less...

This is my choice, this is how i live, if you don't like it, you don't have to be around me, i probably don't want you around me either...

The ones who are close to me understand this...

But i can understand your insecurity, at your age, how others percieve you is much more important...

i have no insecurity and my age is meaningless. do not mistake me for a 13 year old girl checking herself in the mirror daily waiting for her tits to grow in.


yiou cannot give yourself righteousness. nor can you give yourself power, significance, or anything else. Only through actions are you judged. then you are granted these things based on your worthiness. i severely doubt you are worthy.


and what i think of myself is meaningless. i can say im worthy or not, that matters not. it is only what you and everyone else says that determines my worthiness.

If you care more about what others think about you than what you think about yourself you are insecure, that is the very definition of insecurity....

If age is meaningless, would you say that all your views and thoughts are the same now as when you were 13? I am almost twice your age and i can tell you that your views will change many times before you reach my age...

And trust me, i don't care if you think i am worthy, i do, and that all that matters...
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
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i wont have sex in an unnatural position with a girl i really like out of respect for her. it's just that simple.


and i wont have sex with any girl i dont respect and love... it's just that simple.


i'd also say i am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am 17 years old... and no, im not gay.

EDIT: and no, i dont masturbate, either.


Respect? sexual desire and experiementation within a loving relationship is not only normal,it's part of what makes up a satisfying life.Showing yourself,communicating what you want to your lover only makes the love you share richer!

anal and oral sex imo, are disgusting, filthy, and not at all necessary to a happy and healthy relationship.

damnit, now im gonna have to write a service pack to my my beleifs thread :p



I'm not about to get into a discussion of which sexual practices float my boat around here, I'm crazy,not stupid :)

I will say though, that imho as a love deepens,the desire to share yourself more fully with your lover usually does too,including the willingness to try things you might not have considered before.


nor do i have any intention of reading what sexual practices float your boat.

you may be right. we shall see. i have every intention of not taking part in unnatural and disgusting sex at any part of my life.


What's "unnatural and disgusting" about being erotic within a committed relationship? I might not like Thai food but I don't consider it or people who do disgusting.. it's just something I don't enjoy,why apply shame based labels that can have the negative effect of stifling otherwise enjoyable forms of erotic expression from your lover? Seems like cutting off your nose to spite you face to me.

if they partake in those forms of sex, they are deemed unfit to be my lover. and yes, i completely aggree with my statement, and every statement i've made on this board.


Whoa!!! :Q

My point is this, if your lover risk takes by suggesting that you two do something that isn't to your taste and you respond with how "unnatural and disgusting" their idea is, well you might as well punch them in the face!
You can say "no" to certain acts without shaming your lover and discouraging them from ever opening up to you again.Shame a person and you might miss out on many things you do like . and do it once too often you might lose a lover who's wonderful to you and crazy about you.
 

Lenine

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Dude, where do you live?


When i was 17 (5 years ago) the teachers were all teaching us to masturbate and be happy and do what you want just use birth controll. Saying its natural and healthy.

wtf?
 

Walleye

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Dec 1, 2002
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Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Marshallj
Originally posted by: SnapIT
"No class at all, and they didn't seem to care" Why should they? They are the way they want to be, not putting on an act or anything, why should they care about what you or anyone else thinks?

The only problem is that they behaved in a manner that got them the reputation as being a "slut", but they do not like being labelled a "slut". No one person gave them that label, they earned it in the eyes of the people that knew them.

Just like some dudes in school acted in such a way that people called them a "troublemaker", but of course they don't like being labelled that way.

If you asked anyone at all who had a bad reputation and asked if they deserved it, of course they'll always say "no". It doesn't mean that they don't deserve it, it just means THEY don't think they deserve it.

yes. very good.

you are not how you view yourself, but how others view you. your judgement and condemnment lies in the eyes of your peers, not yourself.

WOW, you sound like a 14 year old insecure girl....

It IS how you view yourself, THAT is what really matters....

If you don't like yourself, nobody else will either... trying to please all others with your behaviour only means that you never get to do what YOU want to do...

Screw others views, it's your own self-image that you have to live with...

and you sound like a dumbarse.

I can give myself no righteousness. i can give myself no significance. i can give myself no power, no leadership, no reason on this earth. that is only given to me by others. the same goes for you, for any of you. my own self image is meaningless. it has no weight, no bearing, it is ephemeral, a smoke in the wind. Only how we are percieved in the eyes of our peers is what determines our worthiness of this life and this earth.

I can give my self righteousness, i can give myself significance, power, reason if i do what *I* think is right... what others think about me... i couldn't care less...

This is my choice, this is how i live, if you don't like it, you don't have to be around me, i probably don't want you around me either...

The ones who are close to me understand this...

But i can understand your insecurity, at your age, how others percieve you is much more important...

i have no insecurity and my age is meaningless. do not mistake me for a 13 year old girl checking herself in the mirror daily waiting for her tits to grow in.


yiou cannot give yourself righteousness. nor can you give yourself power, significance, or anything else. Only through actions are you judged. then you are granted these things based on your worthiness. i severely doubt you are worthy.


and what i think of myself is meaningless. i can say im worthy or not, that matters not. it is only what you and everyone else says that determines my worthiness.

If you care more about what others think about you than what you think about yourself you are insecure, that is the very definition of insecurity....

If age is meaningless, would you say that all your views and thoughts are the same now as when you were 13? I am almost twice your age and i can tell you that your views will change many times before you reach my age...

And trust me, i don't care if you think i am worthy, i do, and that all that matters...

my views have changed little since when i was 12. it was then i abandoned the catholic church.

you can tell me that, it doesnt mean it's true.

and that may be all that matters to you. whatever. your choice.

 

Walleye

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Dec 1, 2002
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
...


i wont have sex in an unnatural position with a girl i really like out of respect for her. it's just that simple.


and i wont have sex with any girl i dont respect and love... it's just that simple.


i'd also say i am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am 17 years old... and no, im not gay.

EDIT: and no, i dont masturbate, either.


Respect? sexual desire and experiementation within a loving relationship is not only normal,it's part of what makes up a satisfying life.Showing yourself,communicating what you want to your lover only makes the love you share richer!

anal and oral sex imo, are disgusting, filthy, and not at all necessary to a happy and healthy relationship.

damnit, now im gonna have to write a service pack to my my beleifs thread :p



I'm not about to get into a discussion of which sexual practices float my boat around here, I'm crazy,not stupid :)

I will say though, that imho as a love deepens,the desire to share yourself more fully with your lover usually does too,including the willingness to try things you might not have considered before.


nor do i have any intention of reading what sexual practices float your boat.

you may be right. we shall see. i have every intention of not taking part in unnatural and disgusting sex at any part of my life.


What's "unnatural and disgusting" about being erotic within a committed relationship? I might not like Thai food but I don't consider it or people who do disgusting.. it's just something I don't enjoy,why apply shame based labels that can have the negative effect of stifling otherwise enjoyable forms of erotic expression from your lover? Seems like cutting off your nose to spite you face to me.

if they partake in those forms of sex, they are deemed unfit to be my lover. and yes, i completely aggree with my statement, and every statement i've made on this board.


Whoa!!! :Q

My point is this, if your lover risk takes by suggesting that you two do something that isn't to your taste and you respond with how "unnatural and disgusting" their idea is, well you might as well punch them in the face!
You can say "no" to certain acts without shaming your lover and discouraging them from ever opening up to you again.Shame a person and you might miss out on many things you do like . and do it once too often you might lose a lover who's wonderful to you and crazy about you.


like i said, a curse i have to bear.
 

AmerDoux

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Originally posted by: Walleye



there is no such thing as sexual repression in my view. emotion matters not.


!?! ... anybody else have a DessertCart flashback on that one?:Q
 

Walleye

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Dec 1, 2002
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Originally posted by: Lenine
Dude, where do you live?


When i was 17 (5 years ago) the teachers were all teaching us to masturbate and be happy and do what you want just use birth controll. Saying its natural and healthy.

wtf?

i stopped listening to my teachers when they suspended me for getting punched in the face.

day my suspension was up, i knocked the kid out.

that was 3rd grade.
 

Walleye

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Dec 1, 2002
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Originally posted by: AmerDoux
Originally posted by: Walleye



there is no such thing as sexual repression in my view. emotion matters not.


!?! ... anybody else have a DessertCart flashback on that one?:Q

never heard of it... what are you talking about?
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
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i wont have sex in an unnatural position with a girl i really like out of respect for her. it's just that simple.


and i wont have sex with any girl i dont respect and love... it's just that simple.


i'd also say i am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am 17 years old... and no, im not gay.

EDIT: and no, i dont masturbate, either.


Respect? sexual desire and experiementation within a loving relationship is not only normal,it's part of what makes up a satisfying life.Showing yourself,communicating what you want to your lover only makes the love you share richer!

anal and oral sex imo, are disgusting, filthy, and not at all necessary to a happy and healthy relationship.

damnit, now im gonna have to write a service pack to my my beleifs thread :p



I'm not about to get into a discussion of which sexual practices float my boat around here, I'm crazy,not stupid :)

I will say though, that imho as a love deepens,the desire to share yourself more fully with your lover usually does too,including the willingness to try things you might not have considered before.


nor do i have any intention of reading what sexual practices float your boat.

you may be right. we shall see. i have every intention of not taking part in unnatural and disgusting sex at any part of my life.


What's "unnatural and disgusting" about being erotic within a committed relationship? I might not like Thai food but I don't consider it or people who do disgusting.. it's just something I don't enjoy,why apply shame based labels that can have the negative effect of stifling otherwise enjoyable forms of erotic expression from your lover? Seems like cutting off your nose to spite you face to me.

if they partake in those forms of sex, they are deemed unfit to be my lover. and yes, i completely aggree with my statement, and every statement i've made on this board.


Whoa!!! :Q

My point is this, if your lover risk takes by suggesting that you two do something that isn't to your taste and you respond with how "unnatural and disgusting" their idea is, well you might as well punch them in the face!
You can say "no" to certain acts without shaming your lover and discouraging them from ever opening up to you again.Shame a person and you might miss out on many things you do like . and do it once too often you might lose a lover who's wonderful to you and crazy about you.


like i said, a curse i have to bear.

only a curse born of your own fear and the repression taught to you early on!

Sometimes our own minds are far worse prisons than any brick and mortar jail cell could ever ne!:(

 

SnapIT

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
...


i wont have sex in an unnatural position with a girl i really like out of respect for her. it's just that simple.


and i wont have sex with any girl i dont respect and love... it's just that simple.


i'd also say i am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am 17 years old... and no, im not gay.

EDIT: and no, i dont masturbate, either.


Respect? sexual desire and experiementation within a loving relationship is not only normal,it's part of what makes up a satisfying life.Showing yourself,communicating what you want to your lover only makes the love you share richer!

anal and oral sex imo, are disgusting, filthy, and not at all necessary to a happy and healthy relationship.

damnit, now im gonna have to write a service pack to my my beleifs thread :p



I'm not about to get into a discussion of which sexual practices float my boat around here, I'm crazy,not stupid :)

I will say though, that imho as a love deepens,the desire to share yourself more fully with your lover usually does too,including the willingness to try things you might not have considered before.


nor do i have any intention of reading what sexual practices float your boat.

you may be right. we shall see. i have every intention of not taking part in unnatural and disgusting sex at any part of my life.


What's "unnatural and disgusting" about being erotic within a committed relationship? I might not like Thai food but I don't consider it or people who do disgusting.. it's just something I don't enjoy,why apply shame based labels that can have the negative effect of stifling otherwise enjoyable forms of erotic expression from your lover? Seems like cutting off your nose to spite you face to me.

if they partake in those forms of sex, they are deemed unfit to be my lover. and yes, i completely aggree with my statement, and every statement i've made on this board.


Whoa!!! :Q

My point is this, if your lover risk takes by suggesting that you two do something that isn't to your taste and you respond with how "unnatural and disgusting" their idea is, well you might as well punch them in the face!
You can say "no" to certain acts without shaming your lover and discouraging them from ever opening up to you again.Shame a person and you might miss out on many things you do like . and do it once too often you might lose a lover who's wonderful to you and crazy about you.


like i said, a curse i have to bear.

I'm starting to think that you're just joking... or maybe i just hope so...
 

Walleye

Banned
Dec 1, 2002
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
...


i wont have sex in an unnatural position with a girl i really like out of respect for her. it's just that simple.


and i wont have sex with any girl i dont respect and love... it's just that simple.


i'd also say i am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am 17 years old... and no, im not gay.

EDIT: and no, i dont masturbate, either.


Respect? sexual desire and experiementation within a loving relationship is not only normal,it's part of what makes up a satisfying life.Showing yourself,communicating what you want to your lover only makes the love you share richer!

anal and oral sex imo, are disgusting, filthy, and not at all necessary to a happy and healthy relationship.

damnit, now im gonna have to write a service pack to my my beleifs thread :p



I'm not about to get into a discussion of which sexual practices float my boat around here, I'm crazy,not stupid :)

I will say though, that imho as a love deepens,the desire to share yourself more fully with your lover usually does too,including the willingness to try things you might not have considered before.


nor do i have any intention of reading what sexual practices float your boat.

you may be right. we shall see. i have every intention of not taking part in unnatural and disgusting sex at any part of my life.


What's "unnatural and disgusting" about being erotic within a committed relationship? I might not like Thai food but I don't consider it or people who do disgusting.. it's just something I don't enjoy,why apply shame based labels that can have the negative effect of stifling otherwise enjoyable forms of erotic expression from your lover? Seems like cutting off your nose to spite you face to me.

if they partake in those forms of sex, they are deemed unfit to be my lover. and yes, i completely aggree with my statement, and every statement i've made on this board.


Whoa!!! :Q

My point is this, if your lover risk takes by suggesting that you two do something that isn't to your taste and you respond with how "unnatural and disgusting" their idea is, well you might as well punch them in the face!
You can say "no" to certain acts without shaming your lover and discouraging them from ever opening up to you again.Shame a person and you might miss out on many things you do like . and do it once too often you might lose a lover who's wonderful to you and crazy about you.


like i said, a curse i have to bear.

only a curse born of your own fear and the repression taught to you early on!

Sometimes our own minds are far worse prisons than any brick and mortar jail cell could ever ne!:(


repression was not taught to me.

yes, it is a rationale born of fear. that does not make it any less valid.
 

Isla

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Walleye, what do you think of sexually suggestive pictures of Anna Kournikova?

Lots of guys masturbate to her. And she knows it... she poses like that because it makes her more popular. You know... braless, legs spread so you can almost see her undies, scratching her butt on the court so everyone can see her ass, making "take me baby' faces at the camera... (do 'good' girls do that?)...

Your website makes it clear you... find her desirable.

But yet... you have these really impossible standards...

Whore/Madonna complex?
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Lenine
Dude, where do you live?


When i was 17 (5 years ago) the teachers were all teaching us to masturbate and be happy and do what you want just use birth controll. Saying its natural and healthy.

wtf?

i stopped listening to my teachers when they suspended me for getting punched in the face.

day my suspension was up, i knocked the kid out.

that was 3rd grade.

So let's summarize:

You stopped listening to your teachers in third grade.
You are 17.
You have never had sex nor kissed a girl nor been in a relationship.
Your (moral/religious?) views have not changed since you left the Catholic church when you were 12.

Please explain to us why you are qualified in ANY WAY to comment on relationships and sexuality...
 

Walleye

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Dec 1, 2002
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Originally posted by: Isla
Walleye, what do you think of sexually suggestive pictures of Anna Kournikova?

Lots of guys masturbate to her. And she knows it... she poses like that because it makes her more popular. You know... braless, legs spread so you can almost see her undies, scratching her butt on the court so everyone can see her ass, making "take me baby' faces at the camera... (do 'good' girls do that?)...

Your website makes it clear you... find her desirable.

But yet... you have these really impossible standards...

Whore/Madonna complex?


i dont do so.

actually, i find her a LOT less desireable once i learned more about her. i havent updated my site.

and sexually suggestive pics are not in my view immoral. i see far more arse crack at school. girls bend over, pant backs drop...
 

Walleye

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Originally posted by: Lenine
heh it looks like you are just trying to get attention with your replies.

no, im not, and im kinda suprised noone else aggrees with me on at least some counts.
 

Walleye

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Lenine
Dude, where do you live?


When i was 17 (5 years ago) the teachers were all teaching us to masturbate and be happy and do what you want just use birth controll. Saying its natural and healthy.

wtf?

i stopped listening to my teachers when they suspended me for getting punched in the face.

day my suspension was up, i knocked the kid out.

that was 3rd grade.

So let's summarize:

You stopped listening to your teachers in third grade.
You are 17.
You have never had sex nor kissed a girl nor been in a relationship.
Your (moral/religious?) views have not changed since you left the Catholic church when you were 12.

Please explain to us why you are qualified in ANY WAY to comment on relationships and sexuality...

lets summarize again.

i have an IQ of 135.
i am 17.
i got a 1270 on my SAT with 1/2 hour of sleep, and no studying.
and i never said they havent changed, they have changed very little.


and you dont have to listen to me. this is my view, you can judge it as you like, i can judge you as i like, you can judge me as you like. you have the power. i have the power.

EDIT for damn 0's in IQ...
 

SnapIT

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT

I'm starting to think that you're just joking... or maybe i just hope so...

no, im not.

I believe you, but i think you really should talk to someone about it...

Your cynisism will eventually make you severely depressed if you aren't already...
 

FuZoR

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so............................... back to the original topic.

No I dont suffer from it :p
 

Geekbabe

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Oct 16, 1999
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www.theshoppinqueen.com
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Walleye
...


i wont have sex in an unnatural position with a girl i really like out of respect for her. it's just that simple.


and i wont have sex with any girl i dont respect and love... it's just that simple.


i'd also say i am still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and am 17 years old... and no, im not gay.

EDIT: and no, i dont masturbate, either.


Respect? sexual desire and experiementation within a loving relationship is not only normal,it's part of what makes up a satisfying life.Showing yourself,communicating what you want to your lover only makes the love you share richer!

anal and oral sex imo, are disgusting, filthy, and not at all necessary to a happy and healthy relationship.

damnit, now im gonna have to write a service pack to my my beleifs thread :p



I'm not about to get into a discussion of which sexual practices float my boat around here, I'm crazy,not stupid :)

I will say though, that imho as a love deepens,the desire to share yourself more fully with your lover usually does too,including the willingness to try things you might not have considered before.


nor do i have any intention of reading what sexual practices float your boat.

you may be right. we shall see. i have every intention of not taking part in unnatural and disgusting sex at any part of my life.


What's "unnatural and disgusting" about being erotic within a committed relationship? I might not like Thai food but I don't consider it or people who do disgusting.. it's just something I don't enjoy,why apply shame based labels that can have the negative effect of stifling otherwise enjoyable forms of erotic expression from your lover? Seems like cutting off your nose to spite you face to me.

if they partake in those forms of sex, they are deemed unfit to be my lover. and yes, i completely aggree with my statement, and every statement i've made on this board.


Whoa!!! :Q

My point is this, if your lover risk takes by suggesting that you two do something that isn't to your taste and you respond with how "unnatural and disgusting" their idea is, well you might as well punch them in the face!
You can say "no" to certain acts without shaming your lover and discouraging them from ever opening up to you again.Shame a person and you might miss out on many things you do like . and do it once too often you might lose a lover who's wonderful to you and crazy about you.


like i said, a curse i have to bear.

only a curse born of your own fear and the repression taught to you early on!

Sometimes our own minds are far worse prisons than any brick and mortar jail cell could ever ne!:(


repression was not taught to me.

yes, it is a rationale born of fear. that does not make it any less valid.


Feeling just are.. my point is that of of the best parts of this life come from showing the deeper parts of yourself to the person you love.Great sex within a relationship isn't just about bumping body parts,it's about trusting and loving another so much that you are willing to reveal your desires and in turn encourage them to disclose themselves to you.Some things ypu'll discover you don't like,some things she won't like and you don't have to do those things.. but to slam the door on erotic expression within your relationships is to depreive yourself of much joy.Life is short and too often miserable,why do that to yourself?
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Lenine
Dude, where do you live?


When i was 17 (5 years ago) the teachers were all teaching us to masturbate and be happy and do what you want just use birth controll. Saying its natural and healthy.

wtf?

i stopped listening to my teachers when they suspended me for getting punched in the face.

day my suspension was up, i knocked the kid out.

that was 3rd grade.

So let's summarize:

You stopped listening to your teachers in third grade.
You are 17.
You have never had sex nor kissed a girl nor been in a relationship.
Your (moral/religious?) views have not changed since you left the Catholic church when you were 12.

Please explain to us why you are qualified in ANY WAY to comment on relationships and sexuality...

lets summarize again.

i have an IQ of 1350.
i am 17.
i got a 1270 on my SAT with 1/2 hour of sleep, and no studying.
and i never said they havent changed, they have changed very little.


and you dont have to listen to me. this is my view, you can judge it as you like, i can judge you as i like, you can judge me as you like. you have the power. i have the power.

The qualifications that you list have nothing to do with emotional maturity or life experience. So you have an IQ of 1350 (?) and you got a 1270 on your SAT. That is relevent to this thread how?

Edit: You may "have the power", but you certainly don't have the wisdom or the credibility.
 

SnapIT

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Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: Lenine
Dude, where do you live?


When i was 17 (5 years ago) the teachers were all teaching us to masturbate and be happy and do what you want just use birth controll. Saying its natural and healthy.

wtf?

i stopped listening to my teachers when they suspended me for getting punched in the face.

day my suspension was up, i knocked the kid out.

that was 3rd grade.

So let's summarize:

You stopped listening to your teachers in third grade.
You are 17.
You have never had sex nor kissed a girl nor been in a relationship.
Your (moral/religious?) views have not changed since you left the Catholic church when you were 12.

Please explain to us why you are qualified in ANY WAY to comment on relationships and sexuality...

lets summarize again.

i have an IQ of 1350.
i am 17.
i got a 1270 on my SAT with 1/2 hour of sleep, and no studying.
and i never said they havent changed, they have changed very little.


and you dont have to listen to me. this is my view, you can judge it as you like, i can judge you as i like, you can judge me as you like. you have the power. i have the power.

1350? HA! that's nothing, i have an IQ of 5263,4...

And no, you don't have the power, haven't you read my sig? ;)
 

Walleye

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Originally posted by: SnapIT
Originally posted by: Walleye
Originally posted by: SnapIT

I'm starting to think that you're just joking... or maybe i just hope so...

no, im not.

I believe you, but i think you really should talk to someone about it...

Your cynisism will eventually make you severely depressed if you aren't already...

whatever. a curse i will bear.