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Originally posted by: CPA
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: JeffreyLebowski
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: CPA
Originally posted by: KLin
Congratulations, you are now eligible to obtain a man card. :thumbsup:
I wouldn't go that far, he's still succombing to his girlfriend's wishes. Once he breaks that barrier, then he's good to go.
Suppose we get married. You don't see a problem with me going ahead and buying a gun despite her feelings towards keeping a gun in the house?
So are you going to let her dictate everything that you can buy in your life? What about when you go through midlife and want a corvette but she wants a Toyota Prius? Stand up for yourself and do what you want to do. Buy a safe to put the guns in, problem solved, lets see those scary guns break themselves out of the safe and go on a shooting rampage.
There are things that I'm willing to compromise on, for various reasons, and then there are things that I will not budge on. This is one of those items that I will compromise on due to it's sensitivity.
Look, without sounding shauvinistic (sp?), you are the protector in this relationship. And if you feel it is beneficial for the safety of your family, then you need to put your foot down. Now, you will probably say you don't need a gun to feel safe. That's not the point. The point is all you need to do is make her believe you need it to properly protect the family, as it is your obligation to do everything within your power to protect. Just as she will require certain things when she becomes a nurturer to your children.
Fair enough, I can agree with that statement.
