@Jhhnn &
@crashtech the rate of increase to inflation doesn't really apply to this discussion or do either of you guys think throwing (let's just make up a number) 6k per month at Her & Her Family would have significantly different results or do you think it would just equal more pain meds and other treatments but the house may have better furnishings. Would an outcome like that be helping them?
Maybe I'm wrong and I'll admit I'm judging I don't see a big rise in benefits being used toward special schooling or Physical Therapy or even a surgery to alleviate pain permanently. I don't see a mother with more money being involved in better food choices but I'll agree there would be less ramen noodles.
I see the extra funds being used for things that don't last like a better car or better furniture.
It's not about her getting stuff for "free" or what you & I pay for that stuff it's about does throwing more money at it just lead to more bad choices or worse parenting and is it right or even kind to do that?
For example and it's an extreme example that I'm not proposing it's just for thought.
The pay day loans, those are always poor decisions the fees and rates charged have historically been close to loan sharking (is the term usury?) if there was no income there would be no pay day loans and she would be forced to develop a better safety net with friends and family that would likely have more healthy terms attached to them.