This sucks.
To start off my mom has been terminally ill for about a year. I loved my mate so much that when she said some girlfriends wanted her to go on a cruise with them I said "sure, I love you...have fun!" That was in late august.
Two weeks after the cruise she says she's leaving and has all our finances and assets divied up. After 5 years I never spied on her and trusted her to no end. I read some of her e-mails (I just had to know what was going on) and apparantly she met somebody on the cruise and has been talking to him constantly. He fed her the typical "you deserve better", "I think you know there is something more out there for you", "you won't be alone because I'm here for you" crap.
And she bit it hook line and sinker. We've been under a lot of stress with my Mom and our careers but jeez. So she quits her 90K/yr job, moves 200 miles away (from her family, friends and me) and marries this slimball who's already been divorced twice. Go figure. Oh and mom passed away shortly after she left. I was her only child and we were extremely close as she only lived 10 minutes away. God bless you mom, may you rest in piece now. Hehe, when I told mom what was going on (and she is a sweet, sweet lady) her exact words were "Here's that b!tch's money now get her out of your life"
-cliff notes-
1) she goes on cruise which I of course have no problems with
2) Meets some guy on cruise and tells me she's leaving two weeks later
3) Is out of the house one week after that
4) Everything is final 8 weeks after cruise - she requested that I get her money from my dying mother...real classy woman there.
5) She and this loser get married 10 weeks after cruise, scary part is I'm sure she'll be pregnant soon.
6) Mom passed away 11 weeks after cruise to which the ex's only response was "oh"
I never did tell that story
To start off my mom has been terminally ill for about a year. I loved my mate so much that when she said some girlfriends wanted her to go on a cruise with them I said "sure, I love you...have fun!" That was in late august.
Two weeks after the cruise she says she's leaving and has all our finances and assets divied up. After 5 years I never spied on her and trusted her to no end. I read some of her e-mails (I just had to know what was going on) and apparantly she met somebody on the cruise and has been talking to him constantly. He fed her the typical "you deserve better", "I think you know there is something more out there for you", "you won't be alone because I'm here for you" crap.
And she bit it hook line and sinker. We've been under a lot of stress with my Mom and our careers but jeez. So she quits her 90K/yr job, moves 200 miles away (from her family, friends and me) and marries this slimball who's already been divorced twice. Go figure. Oh and mom passed away shortly after she left. I was her only child and we were extremely close as she only lived 10 minutes away. God bless you mom, may you rest in piece now. Hehe, when I told mom what was going on (and she is a sweet, sweet lady) her exact words were "Here's that b!tch's money now get her out of your life"
-cliff notes-
1) she goes on cruise which I of course have no problems with
2) Meets some guy on cruise and tells me she's leaving two weeks later
3) Is out of the house one week after that
4) Everything is final 8 weeks after cruise - she requested that I get her money from my dying mother...real classy woman there.
5) She and this loser get married 10 weeks after cruise, scary part is I'm sure she'll be pregnant soon.
6) Mom passed away 11 weeks after cruise to which the ex's only response was "oh"
I never did tell that story
