Sorry to hear this. As much as this is happening, it seems like we men should just go out, find a woman we can stand, buy her a house and give her half our paycheck. Would be a lot less expensive than hiring a divorce lawyer.
Last year has been very stressful for a lot of people. The whole nation is under WAY too much pressure right now. Our productivity went up something like 6% but folks are still losing their jobs or scared of losing them and it looks like that is causing some serious strain.
What good will come out off it?
Spidey07,
It sounds as if she screwed up & didn't want to admit her mistake. It is very likely that the guy is a scoundrel that why your mate left everything that she have with you & ask you for the money because she needed it.
Sorry, and good luck to you.
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Christ...another one?!?!
What's up with the divorce/cheating spouse/dying parent threads lately?
I think she screwed him on that cruise and couldn't face up to it.
Heck I even told her that I can forgive her for anything and would do absolutely anything to make it work.
Heck I even told her that I can forgive her for anything and would do absolutely anything to make it work.
Best of luck spidey.
With all these recent threads about divorce and wife cheating scares the crap out of me when thinking about getting marry at a early age.
I'm the comitted type and tend to fall deep easily.
With all these recent threads about divorce and wife cheating scares the crap out of me when thinking about getting marry at a early age.
I'm the comitted type and tend to fall deep easily.
Originally posted by: maziwanka
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Christ...another one?!?!
What's up with the divorce/cheating spouse/dying parent threads lately?
Last year has been very stressful for a lot of people. The whole nation is under WAY too much pressure right now. Our productivity went up something like 6% but folks are still losing their jobs or scared of losing them and it looks like that is causing some serious strain.
you never know until you try. I don't think any couple or marriage starts off with "well this won't work out"
My heartfelt condolences about the loss of your mother, spidey. Real mothers have a place in Heaven, I'm sure they do.
About your wife... I'm also sorry to hear that. I'm sure you'll get over it.
About your wife... I'm also sorry to hear that. I'm sure you'll get over it.
A portion of your mortgage goes to an escrow account to pay for insurance/taxes.
Mom was involved because we had joint assets (house, stuff, etc) and we split things up. I needed to pay th ex a pretty hefty sum of money. Mom was cool enough to have a trust fund setup for me in the event she ever passed and I was able to (reluctantly) pull the money from that rather than touch other investments I have. Since mom was still alive she and dad were in control of the trust.
makie-sensie?
A long time ago I almost had a similar problem.. She came to her senses....
A wise person once told me: Everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence..And it isn't.
I feel for ya man. Enjoy your fresh start. God Bless your mom.
A wise person once told me: Everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence..And it isn't.
I feel for ya man. Enjoy your fresh start. God Bless your mom.
I think I learned my lesson. If it ever comes up again in the future I will simply have to say "I really don't want you to go...you see there is a perfectly reasonable explanation for it"
To which she'll reply "you don't trust me"..."of course I trust you, I just think when you come back you'll find me dead of a heart attack from the worry and emotional scar I carry"
Originally posted by: spidey07
I'm still a little messed up but I've got steady nookie now and that seems to help.
LOL. That should ease the transition
Originally posted by: PanzerIV
Originally posted by: spidey07
I'm still a little messed up but I've got steady nookie now and that seems to help.
LOL. That should ease the transition
That and cocktails.
What makes me happy right now? Talking with and being with a woman, buying stuff, cocktails and meeting new people. Might get that tube pre-amp I've always wanted.
Marry a man next time (for the tax benefits, not sexual or emotional stuff). Live life like a college person. Take the women, do your thing, cut them loose when they become tiresome and look for the next one.
Spidey, I send my condolences to you. This is really sad and all of these recent threads here on OT have been very sad. I hope you can start over and have a good future life.
Originally posted by: cashman
Spidey, I send my condolences to you. This is really sad and all of these recent threads here on OT have been very sad. I hope you can start over and have a good future life.
thanks. I hopefully will. It just that I dated and waited to find my perfect mate after many serious relationships and I did.
Guess not.
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