Originally posted by: Shadowknight
And yeah, try to pitch in if you stay; not even necessarily rent, but cleaning up around the house, cooking for them, doing laundry, changing their car oil if it needs it, etc. There are ways to pay back people that will be appreciated a lot more than handing over $$$$$.
Originally posted by: Shadowknight
do their laundy or their gardening...
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Update?
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Update?
Not much of an update yet. I went over to their house again last night and talked with her mom and youngest daughter for a couple of hours.
All the girls know about the situation and are fine with me moving in.
I still haven't decided what I want to do. I think I'm leaning towards not moving in just because I don't want to intrude on their space. But, when they seem eager to have me, turning it down might be rude.
I dunno yet...
Originally posted by: aidanjm
in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks
Originally posted by: UDT89
what would your mom think?
if i moved in to some "mom's" house down the block, she'd be pissed
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: aidanjm
in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks
This is pretty much true. Pay rent and tread carefully if you wish to pursue a relationship with her daughter. It may not bode well for you in that aspect unless you are upfront with her on that issue.
For instance, approach her about asking her daughter out on a date if you move in with them. And don't do that too suddenly. Let her have time to get accustomed to you and know you don't have any bad intentions with her daughter.
It was probably a mistake to post their pics, but oh well, live and learn.
ALSO, I can't stress enough to come to an agreement on paying rent.
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Update?
Not much of an update yet. I went over to their house again last night and talked with her mom and youngest daughter for a couple of hours.
All the girls know about the situation and are fine with me moving in.
I still haven't decided what I want to do. I think I'm leaning towards not moving in just because I don't want to intrude on their space. But, when they seem eager to have me, turning it down might be rude.
I dunno yet...
If you move in with them, are you gonna get your own bathroom? How many rooms in the house? Are you gonan get a proper bedroom to yourself or are you gonna be shacked in a loft/attic/basement/living-room-couch?
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: aidanjm
in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks
This is pretty much true. Pay rent and tread carefully if you wish to pursue a relationship with her daughter. It may not bode well for you in that aspect unless you are upfront with her on that issue.
For instance, approach her about asking her daughter out on a date if you move in with them. And don't do that too suddenly. Let her have time to get accustomed to you and know you don't have any bad intentions with her daughter.
It was probably a mistake to post their pics, but oh well, live and learn.
ALSO, I can't stress enough to come to an agreement on paying rent.
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: aidanjm
in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks
This is pretty much true. Pay rent and tread carefully if you wish to pursue a relationship with her daughter. It may not bode well for you in that aspect unless you are upfront with her on that issue.
For instance, approach her about asking her daughter out on a date if you move in with them. And don't do that too suddenly. Let her have time to get accustomed to you and know you don't have any bad intentions with her daughter.
It was probably a mistake to post their pics, but oh well, live and learn.
ALSO, I can't stress enough to come to an agreement on paying rent.
What happens if you start dating the daughter and it ends badly?
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Update?
Not much of an update yet. I went over to their house again last night and talked with her mom and youngest daughter for a couple of hours.
All the girls know about the situation and are fine with me moving in.
I still haven't decided what I want to do. I think I'm leaning towards not moving in just because I don't want to intrude on their space. But, when they seem eager to have me, turning it down might be rude.
I dunno yet...
If you move in with them, are you gonna get your own bathroom? How many rooms in the house? Are you gonan get a proper bedroom to yourself or are you gonna be shacked in a loft/attic/basement/living-room-couch?
I'd have my own big bedroom, and there are 2 bathrooms. It's a large 3 story house.
Originally posted by: Chryso
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: aidanjm
in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks
This is pretty much true. Pay rent and tread carefully if you wish to pursue a relationship with her daughter. It may not bode well for you in that aspect unless you are upfront with her on that issue.
For instance, approach her about asking her daughter out on a date if you move in with them. And don't do that too suddenly. Let her have time to get accustomed to you and know you don't have any bad intentions with her daughter.
It was probably a mistake to post their pics, but oh well, live and learn.
ALSO, I can't stress enough to come to an agreement on paying rent.
What happens if you start dating the daughter and it ends badly?