Help me with an important decision (update)

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bluestrobe

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Funny thing is if something ever goes sour with this family, you be reminded of them for the rest of your life. They are in close proximity to your folks and that can be awkward during the post trouble era. If something goes wrong this just isn't a problem you can skip away without thinking of it again. I?ve know of two situations kind of like this and they both went sour. Plenty of woman in this world, don?t hunt too close to home.
 

V00D00

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Originally posted by: Atheus
I believe this might be a no-brainer.


YEAH WHAT ARE YOU STUPID??? DO IT! DO IT!!!!

unless they can't tolerate you being on your computer all the time.
 

InlineFour

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i love how half the responses have to do with sex, orgies, fvck fest, etc. lol the OP must be a looker to get this holy grail oppurtunity. btw, the 19 is very cute. =]
 

Dead3ye

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Bah, you guys are slippin', you're all wound up about a coven of girls:

I call SHENS on this one.
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: Dead3ye
Bah, you guys are slippin', you're all wound up about a coven of girls:

I call SHENS on this one.

There's no shens here.

Nor is there an update. I just hung out at their house last night, but nobody was home until like 9:30 and I left at 10.
 
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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Dead3ye
Bah, you guys are slippin', you're all wound up about a coven of girls:

I call SHENS on this one.

There's no shens here.

Nor is there an update. I just hung out at their house last night, but nobody was home until like 9:30 and I left at 10.

What the...
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Dead3ye
Bah, you guys are slippin', you're all wound up about a coven of girls:

I call SHENS on this one.

There's no shens here.

Nor is there an update. I just hung out at their house last night, but nobody was home until like 9:30 and I left at 10.

What the...

What don't you get?
 

state 08

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DEAR GOD YOU MORON! IS THIS EVEN A QUESTION?!?!?

DO IT!

Life is all about weird experiences, and you only live once. I predict an excess amount of masturbation in the first month or two, but DAMN, it doesn't matter. I wish I was in your place. Woulda taken the offer in a heartbeat.
 

MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Dead3ye
Bah, you guys are slippin', you're all wound up about a coven of girls:

I call SHENS on this one.

There's no shens here.

Nor is there an update. I just hung out at their house last night, but nobody was home until like 9:30 and I left at 10.

What the...

What don't you get?

i think he was hoping to hear your reason. why would you leave after 30 minutes?
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: MrDudeMan
i think he was hoping to hear your reason. why would you leave after 30 minutes?

I talked with both the oldest and youngest girls for like 30 minutes and then I left because I was tired.
 
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Originally posted by: MrDudeMan
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Dead3ye
Bah, you guys are slippin', you're all wound up about a coven of girls:

I call SHENS on this one.

There's no shens here.

Nor is there an update. I just hung out at their house last night, but nobody was home until like 9:30 and I left at 10.

What the...

What don't you get?

i think he was hoping to hear your reason. why would you leave after 30 minutes?

Thank you.
 

Heckler 5th

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1. how long has said widow been widowed?
2. you don't have your own car, do you?

you said everyone is fine with it but did you sit down and ask each of them one-on-one? you never know, one may harbor some hidden resentment towards the idea, which would kill your fun before it even begins. if you haven't already, give each girl a chance to tell you how they really feel with no one else around.

if so, i say DO IT. DOITDOITDOIT! odds are 99.9% you will never get this kind of opportunity again. if nothing else, you will learn a lot living with this family, even if it doesn't work out. maybe even enough so that you won't have to post chick questions on ATOT anymore! :p it'll be tricky but if you are a pleasant, respectful, polite person with decent manners and hygiene (sounds funny, i know) then there's a decent chance you could move in, live there awhile, and move out on good terms.

bottom line: go with your gut. what does that inner voice tell you, grasshoppah?
 

NakaNaka

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You have nothing to lose by doing it. I think you should do it, regardless of the fact that there are good looking women around.
 

snoopdoug1

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Originally posted by: NakaNaka
You have nothing to lose by doing it. I think you should do it, regardless of the fact that there are good looking women around.

I have a feeling you'd think quite differently if it was 4 unattractive women... as would many people on these boards... including me :)
 

MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: Doug3737
Originally posted by: NakaNaka
You have nothing to lose by doing it. I think you should do it, regardless of the fact that there are good looking women around.

I have a feeling you'd think quite differently if it was 4 unattractive women... as would many people on these boards... including me :)

yeah. what is your point? that is part of the reason this deal is so attractive to begin with. however, i would live with 4 ugly women for free. the keyword here is free.
 

Ime

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Originally posted by: FrankyJunior
I'd say sure but only if you can share a bed with the 19yo.

Fixed.

:evil:


Seriously though, like I said before. You should try it out. You only live once and you are still young, what have you got to lose?
 

pclstyle

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Originally posted by: Goosemaster
1. you're an insensitive untrustworthy bastard for posting pics of a family, much less their cute daughters without their consent:|

thank you....mad props for that faut pas;)


2. don't expect any relationships with anyone but the mom on this one. odds are you will either be the angel in the family, or the guy with no money who doesn't even have th funds to take any of them on a date.

3. you will have no credibility because you will be old in a house of youngins' but will not be cranded as "successful"

4. worst off, you will probably become friends with them and not have any cahcne of 'hitting that sh!T' at all.



I can't believe I jsut wrote that:laugh:




Seriously though, only an immature fool would think that moving in with them would be a good idea. Hang around, do their laundy or their gardening...anything but moving in.

You want to retain the mystique of not divulging the eccentricities of your life to them. They love that stuff, but if you give it all away, you have nothign to offer them in that arena....no quirky things they will grow to love about you.


Don't do it.

A little crudely put- but very excellent advice.
 

kurt454

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Move out on your own, and then date the 19 year old. A mom wanting to move a 23 year old guy in with herself and 3 daughters, makes me wonder about her a little bit.

I say don't do it.
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: Ime
Originally posted by: FrankyJunior
I'd say sure but only if you can share a bed with the 19yo.

Fixed.

:evil:


Seriously though, like I said before. You should try it out. You only live once and you are still young, what have you got to lose?

The bedroom I'd be staying in is the 19 y/o's room, in her bed. The 19 y/o is out of town until april.

They said she would find somewhere else to sleep.

I say they should jsut not tell her I'm there and let her discover me herself when she crawls into bed :evil: