Help me with an important decision (update)

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DeeKnow

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go for it... as long as you promise to come back with pictures and detailed stories... LOL
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: DeeKnow
go for it... as long as you promise to come back with pictures and detailed stories... LOL

Dear ATOT,

Day 1 - I was ignored and had to masturbate myself to sleep.



Dear ATOT,

Day 2 - I was awoken to what I thought was a sexual advance by the 19 y/o. Turns out it was the cat.



Dear ATOT,

Day 3 - I'm getting way too much pussy.



Dear ATOT,

Day 4 - I hate these $&*@^&$ cats!
 

MidNiteMysT

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youre a dumb ass if you dont actually move in. if things go south, just move out. no big deal. im sure you can cope with a few annoying habits and im sure you can to. as long as you have a good open relationship with them, its ****** fine! just do it alredy. even if it doesnt end up in wild sexy orgies, it doesnt matter. its a good place to live. and i bet these girls have some hot friends that are gonna be coming over a lot and these girls will be going to bars/clubs. you could date all these girls friends, so then you dont have to worry about offending the mother unless maybe she gets jealous. do you know that every 2.4 seconds, a guy is day dreaming this exact situation? if you dont accept their very generous sex orgy invitation, i mean just generous offer to say, there are plently of other guys here that will gladly accept it! eventually they will ask another guy and then you will be soooo jealous. but you prob wont do it so tell them i can be there as soon as the next plane arrives.
 

rasczak

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Here's the story,

I'm close friends with this family that has a widowed mother and 3 young daughters. They live down the street from me (I'm living with my mom).

Anyway, I stopped by the house for the first time in like a year or so just to say hi and see how things were. We got to talking about my family and how everything has gone to hell at my house.

Anyway, she asked me if I would consider moving in with them.

I love these girls they're so nice and friendly (and HOT)

The oldest daughter is 21, and in a 2 year relationship.
The youngest is 15 and well, she's 15, enough said.
The middle daughter is 19. I've always liked this girl and I think she has (had) a crush on me before.

Anyway, they're all swiss and blonde w/ blue eyes.

Aside from the boner I'd probably have 24/7, what do you think of the situation? She doesn't want rent (although I'd definitely find a way to pitch in a few hundred every month).

The family pic (the 19 y/o is in the white)
15 and 19 y/o
19 y/o

I'm very tempted because my house is absolutely retarded. I want out.

*Update 2006-03-02 - Not much of an update*

Not much of an update yet. I went over to their house again last night and talked with her mom and youngest daughter for a couple of hours.

All the girls know about the situation and are fine with me moving in.

I still haven't decided what I want to do. I think I'm leaning towards not moving in just because I don't want to intrude on their space. But, when they seem eager to have me, turning it down might be rude.

I dunno yet...


Here's the deal. If you are absolutely willing to do your share of the housework (i.e. clean up after yourself, help with dishes, clean bathrooms etc. etc.) and youa re willing to pay a bit for rent then I say go for it. Keep in mind you need to keep your hands off the girls. That would be a nono and you could find yourself out the door as quickly as you came in.

If you can't do it, or you have any ounce of doubt that you would be able to, then don't press yourself upon them and burden them. That is just unfair.

be honest with yourself about this because you could quite possibly lose out on four good friends.

That said, good luck. They look like a beautiful family, and you are very lucky to find one that is so open and willing to give. So remember to give back just as much if not more in return. (not sexually, I mean as in friendship)


 

FDF12389

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If you live anywhere near WI, move in and introduce me to the 15 y/o. If not, its a ****** idea.

 

bluestrobe

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I like how a lot of people are looking for very short term satisfaction and long term problems rather than thinking without sex in mind. Just shows the maturity of people.
 

thatsright

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I say move out but for the simple fact that living with MOMS sucks!!!

All the other stuff is nice (like whip cream on a sundae), but if you can get out from the parents for semi-no rent, do it. It's a no boner, errr.... brainier.


BTW, this thread has all the basics of an AWESOME ATF thread. Hot chicks, easy decisions, and not having to pay rent. Where?s the beer??
 

eelw

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Dec 4, 1999
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Originally posted by: bluestrobe
I like how a lot of people are looking for very short term satisfaction and long term problems rather than thinking without sex in mind. Just shows the maturity of people.

DUH??? What did you expect. As I said earlier in the topic, far too many people are thinking with their penis instead of their mind.
 

Howard

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Oct 14, 1999
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Well, you definitely wouldn't be able to hit any of that ass. But, if you think it's worth the continual "can't have it", go ahead.
 

DukeN

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As tempting as it is, I'd say donot do it, but offer assistance if ever needed from where you are currently.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: eelw
Originally posted by: bluestrobe
I like how a lot of people are looking for very short term satisfaction and long term problems rather than thinking without sex in mind. Just shows the maturity of people.

DUH??? What did you expect. As I said earlier in the topic, far too many people are thinking with their penis instead of their mind.

Anyone who comes to computer forum on the internet for advice toward serious, significant, real-life issues needs their fvcking head examined and is FAR worse mental shape than any of the cynical bastards jesting and knowingly leaving half-assed, unrealistic replies.
 

OulOat

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Don't listen to all the haters, this can only end up good. Either good for you or a good story for us.
 

ta8689

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Do you have a job? What is that job? How much money do you bring in a week? If its enough, just be nice to all of them and stay with them while you help with the money. If the mom wont let you help financially (out of the kindness of her heart) then just buy them stuff every once in a while. Build them a computer and get them cable internet etc. Dont try to do the 19 yo right away, but if the oppertunity comes, dont do it there! If the mom walks in on that i doubt she will be very happy and i doubt you will stay there much longer. To me it just sounds like shes lonely and just likes you. Generally are you polite, generous etc. to her? If so thats why. Tell us if you have a made a decision yet. One thing.... you better hope that all 4 of them dont have the same week every month or you are going to have to sleep in a hole in the backyard for a week every month.
 

Staples

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Oct 28, 2001
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I would not but at the worst, if you do and things get bad, you just have to swallow your pride and move out.

I voted no.
 

SamurAchzar

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Feb 15, 2006
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Ok ok FFS, I think we all have a pretty good observation of who's gay and who isn't on ATOT. And let me tell you, 25% of the inhabitants being gay - THAT IS the alarming fact, NOT having 4 separate ways of getting rid of your semen - without even counting the possible combinations.

And I bet they have some blond, good looking "sviss feemal relatifs who vant to zee AMERIKA, ya?"

Go for it, live your life for those who can't. We all look up to you.

 

CKDragon

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Jan 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: eelw
Originally posted by: bluestrobe
I like how a lot of people are looking for very short term satisfaction and long term problems rather than thinking without sex in mind. Just shows the maturity of people.

DUH??? What did you expect. As I said earlier in the topic, far too many people are thinking with their penis instead of their mind.

Anyone who comes to computer forum on the internet for advice toward serious, significant, real-life issues needs their fvcking head examined and is FAR worse mental shape than any of the cynical bastards jesting and knowingly leaving half-assed, unrealistic replies.

Around what # of your 51,052 posts did you come to realize that message board fact? :p

CK