Help me with an important decision (update)

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BigToque

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Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Eghck
don't have to pay rent? sounds too good to be true...it also sounds like a recipie for disaster...

Well, I'd still be paying something. I'd feel bad for staying there for free. I'd probably buy the food for them or something.

No! Insist on paying rent! Just come to something agreeable on both sides. How old are you, BTW? 19 is a little young, right? Although she is quite pretty.

I'm 23.
 

nakedfrog

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Apr 3, 2001
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You only live once. Do it. No matter how bad it is, this might be something you'll be able to think about when you're a disgusting 90 year old man who soils himself.
 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Eghck
don't have to pay rent? sounds too good to be true...it also sounds like a recipie for disaster...

Well, I'd still be paying something. I'd feel bad for staying there for free. I'd probably buy the food for them or something.

No! Insist on paying rent! Just come to something agreeable on both sides. How old are you, BTW? 19 is a little young, right? Although she is quite pretty.

I'm 23.

Still insist on paying rent. It can be as low as a couple hundred a month. It could get awkward if you choose to start going out with one of the girls though. Then you would have no space and be under the same roof as her mother which would be the same as being under your parent's roof. I would still say go for it though. If you tread carefully it could be a wonderful experience that you could tell your kids one day. :p Carpe Diem.
 

interchange

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Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: chuckywang
Those girls will be using you for sex. Don't do it, man. Don't get exploited.

Why don't you just go ahead and chuck your wang right out the window with that attitude.
 

wyvrn

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Feb 15, 2000
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It will either be one of the best or worst decisions of your life. I see no middle ground here. Either you get to fvck one or more of them, or as otheras have said, they get annoyed by you and you're out on your azz again looking for a place. The question is, will your family take you back if you get kicked out?

If I was in your position, a single young guy who has nothing at home he wants to stay for and his whole life ahead of him.. I'd do it in a heartbeat. But one thing, I would make a plan B and even a plan C in case it doesn't work out.

You need to find a stable job quick, anything that will allow you to find your own place at a moment's notice. After helping them out with rent each month, I'd save everything else for the potential rainy day.

Emotionally, you need to make sure you can handle any situation that arises before you do this. Be prepared to get kicked out or walk away. Know your intentions toward each women, specifically, before you move in. Try to guage theirs as well so you aren't 'suprised'.

For instance from what you've posted, I think the mom wants to fvck you.

That being said, go getem tiger and get as much as you can out of it ;)
 

DanTMWTMP

Lifer
Oct 7, 2001
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GRR!!! my other head will say DO IT NOW!!! but donno, lol, will it work out?

you'll be the only dude in the household, haha.
 

DanTMWTMP

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Originally posted by: interchange
Originally posted by: chuckywang
Those girls will be using you for sex. Don't do it, man. Don't get exploited.

Why don't you just go ahead and chuck your wang right out the window with that attitude.

HAHAHAHAA HAHAHAHAHHAH ALOL!~!!!!!! ChuckYWang Chuck Your Wang

 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: George P Burdell
I hope the OP doesn't spider us... :confused:

I'm not gonna spider you guys... I just don't know what to do.

Even though I'm hating it at home, there are some extra perks that make it worth while staying.

I can use a car anytime I want and I have little to no costs at all (which is good because I'm paying down my student loan at the moment).

Besides, this would really suck if I just fell into the friend zone with the girl I like.
 
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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
I hope the OP doesn't spider us... :confused:

I'm not gonna spider you guys... I just don't know what to do.

Even though I'm hating it at home, there are some extra perks that make it worth while staying.

I can use a car anytime I want and I have little to no costs at all (which is good because I'm paying down my student loan at the moment).

Besides, this would really suck if I just fell into the friend zone with the girl I like.

Do you have any alternatives open to you (moving out of your house but not into the girls' place)?

If you pinched pennies and lived by yourself, would you be able to pull it off?

Which is causing you more stress: life at home or financial burden? What I'm asking is: which is the lesser evil?
 

aidanjm

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Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Can we get pics of the OP?

Why do you want a pic of me? I'm unimportant :p

to make this thread interesting for me :p

How would it make it interesting? Are you a girl? :)

I'm an oversexed promiscuous homosexual male. Just thought I'd inject some 'reality' into the thread.
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: BigToque
After tonight I'm very seriously considering the offer...

You banged the mom, didn't you? ;)


I've got to vote for giving it a try. I had a great time in college when I was practically staying at a girl's apartment and hitting her and her roommate...fond memories. :)