Help me with an important decision (update)

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aidanjm

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in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
in all seriousness, what if the mother just wants a man around the house for safety and protection. no doubt she would be UTTERLY HORRIFIED at the idea this fine young man was posting pics of her nubile daughters on a hardware forum frequented by masturbating geeks

Isn't that her fault for having such nubile daughters ;)
 

ggnl

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Jul 2, 2004
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lol @ this entire thread

If his chances with the middle daughter are that good, why isn't he dating her already?

I love how everyone just supposes that he's going to get action if he moves in these girls, as if they're just aching to get boned but can't find a guy to give it to them. A hot young blonde can score with any guy she wants any night of the week, so they're probably more likely to think it's just creepy and weird that a slightly older guy wants to live with them.
 

FoBoT

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you could pretend you are an adult and live on your own, many 23 year old adults take care of themselves
 

UDT89

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what would your mom think?

if i moved in to some "mom's" house down the block, she'd be pissed
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: ggnl
lol @ this entire thread

If his chances with the middle daughter are that good, why isn't he dating her already?

I love how everyone just supposes that he's going to get action if he moves in these girls, as if they're just aching to get boned but can't find a guy to give it to them. A hot young blonde can score with any guy she wants any night of the week, so they're probably more likely to think it's just creepy and weird that a slightly older guy wants to live with them.

The oldest is in a relationship.
The youngest is 15. Enough said.
The middle child is in Toronto until april and is single.
The mother is just friendly.

The only 2 people that could possibly want anything are the mom and the middle daughter. I doubt the mother wants me.

That leaves me with the middle daughter who I've always liked, but we've always been in 2 totally different places until now.
 

BriGy86

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it was a very hard decision, but i chose no, simply because it may be freakin awsome at first

it will more than likely turn ugly later one

it really depends on how well you get along with them
 

dabuddha

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Originally posted by: BriGy86
it was a very hard decision, but i chose no, simply because it may be freakin awsome at first

it will more than likely turn ugly later one

it really depends on how well you get along with them

:confused:

wrong account?
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: BriGy86
it was a very hard decision, but i chose no, simply because it may be freakin awsome at first

it will more than likely turn ugly later one

it really depends on how well you get along with them

:confused:

wrong account?

If you're thinking that's me posting under a different account, it's not.
 

BriGy86

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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: BriGy86
it was a very hard decision, but i chose no, simply because it may be freakin awsome at first

it will more than likely turn ugly later one

it really depends on how well you get along with them

:confused:

wrong account?

i was talking about my choice on the poll
 

ggnl

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: ggnl
lol @ this entire thread

If his chances with the middle daughter are that good, why isn't he dating her already?

I love how everyone just supposes that he's going to get action if he moves in these girls, as if they're just aching to get boned but can't find a guy to give it to them. A hot young blonde can score with any guy she wants any night of the week, so they're probably more likely to think it's just creepy and weird that a slightly older guy wants to live with them.

The oldest is in a relationship.
The youngest is 15. Enough said.
The middle child is in Toronto until april and is single.
The mother is just friendly.

The only 2 people that could possibly want anything are the mom and the middle daughter. I doubt the mother wants me.

That leaves me with the middle daughter who I've always liked, but we've always been in 2 totally different places until now.

I'm not saying you don't have a chance, it's just a comment on the general attitude in this thread that you moving in with them automatically equals mad s3x0rs.

Your chances aren't going to improve just because you move in with them. If anything your chances with this girl will be greatly reduced once she's exposed to all the unglamorous activities that come along with living with a person. Haven't you ever heard the saying "You don't sh!t where you eat"?

 

Abel007

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Oh man this thread delivers!

Date one and don't move in or move in and become the family "pet" :D
 

borosp1

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Move in and make sure you have your own bathroom. 4 women and 1 bathroom spells trouble! :laugh:
 

Doctorweir

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1- First ask mummy upfront if they want a janitor or a fvck buddy.
2- Decide as deemed accurate upon answer (if able to speak/think)
3- Profit?
 

dabuddha

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Originally posted by: BriGy86
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: BriGy86
it was a very hard decision, but i chose no, simply because it may be freakin awsome at first

it will more than likely turn ugly later one

it really depends on how well you get along with them

:confused:

wrong account?

i was talking about my choice on the poll

ahhh! I had a temporary brain fart :D

As for the mom, WTF kind of mom would invite a man half her age into her home when she has 3 daughters.
 

Doctorweir

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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: BriGy86
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: BriGy86
it was a very hard decision, but i chose no, simply because it may be freakin awsome at first

it will more than likely turn ugly later one

it really depends on how well you get along with them

:confused:

wrong account?

i was talking about my choice on the poll

ahhh! I had a temporary brain fart :D

As for the mom, WTF kind of mom would invite a man half her age into her home when she has 3 daughters.
A mom that likes men half her age, aka horny mom :D
 

ITJunkie

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Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: BigToque
So what if I just leave dating out of it and just be a friendly house guest?

I suppose if you'd never want to date the 19 year old you could do it, since you really wouldn't lose anything if it turned out poorly. However, I just think its too much of a risk. The mother likes you now, but she may potentially see your annoying habits when you move in, and you'll see theirs. I can guarentee you that there will be things (like not being able to shower when you want) that will irritate you. You have a great relationship with them now, living with them will undoubtedly test, and possibly break, it...

Think about that dude...FOUR WOMEN!?!?!? Unless you all have your own bathroom it will be hell for you...no hot water, etc.
 

Brutuskend

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Originally posted by: ITJunkie
Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: BigToque
So what if I just leave dating out of it and just be a friendly house guest?

I suppose if you'd never want to date the 19 year old you could do it, since you really wouldn't lose anything if it turned out poorly. However, I just think its too much of a risk. The mother likes you now, but she may potentially see your annoying habits when you move in, and you'll see theirs. I can guarentee you that there will be things (like not being able to shower when you want) that will irritate you. You have a great relationship with them now, living with them will undoubtedly test, and possibly break, it...

Think about that dude...FOUR WOMEN!?!?!? Unless you all have your own bathroom it will be hell for you...no hot water, etc.

OH, there will be PLENTY of hot water after he taps one or more of the daughters and or MOM! ;)
 

thereaderrabbit

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So you're 23, living at home and still not on your feet? I'll bet I can guess why things are so difficult at home ;)

If you want to land a lady friend (even for a night) I suggest you go get your feet on the ground and get out on your own place (like an apartment). If you want to keep your feet off the ground and stumble through the next few years I'd either stay at home eating free food or perhaps I'd take the kind lady up on her offer.