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Lifer
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Originally posted by: Turnpike
Ummm, there should be like this huge, loud red flashing alarm in your head telling you this is a bad idea. It should be beating the inside of your skull, rattling your brain around until you finally do the right thing and politely not move in.

One would think??? But too bad way too many people in this topic are thinking with their penis and not their brain.

 

Azndude2190

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Here's the story,

I'm close friends with this family that has a widowed mother and 3 young daughters. They live down the street from me (I'm living with my mom).

Anyway, I stopped by the house for the first time in like a year or so just to say hi and see how things were. We got to talking about my family and how everything has gone to hell at my house.

Anyway, she asked me if I would consider moving in with them.

I love these girls they're so nice and friendly (and HOT)

The oldest daughter is 21, and in a 2 year relationship.
The youngest is 15 and well, she's 15, enough said.
The middle daughter is 19. I've always liked this girl and I think she has (had) a crush on me before.

Anyway, they're all swiss and blonde w/ blue eyes.

Aside from the boner I'd probably have 24/7, what do you think of the situation? She doesn't want rent (although I'd definitely find a way to pitch in a few hundred every month).

The family pic (the 19 y/o is in the white)
15 and 19 y/o
19 y/o

I'm very tempted because my house is absolutely retarded. I want out.

I hate you...
 

nissan720

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If you were going to really take advantage of the situation you would have already been moved in and sleeping on their couch tonight. Maybe a more comfortable bed which has been pre-warmed.

My guess is you are either too nice of a guy to do that or you are too innocent to go thru with what almost every guy on this forum hopes he could do.
 

Shadowknight

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If your current living arrangement is that bad, trying staying at their house for a week or two, see if it's something that could work for you and the family. DO. NOT. Date the daughters. If it goes bad, it'll be awkward at best, extraordinarily impossible at worst, making you move out and destroying your relationship with their household.

And yeah, try to pitch in if you stay; not even necessarily rent, but cleaning up around the house, cooking for them, doing laundry, changing their car oil if it needs it, etc. There are ways to pay back people that will be appreciated a lot more than handing over $$$$$.
 

Goosemaster

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1. you're an insensitive untrustworthy bastard for posting pics of a family, much less their cute daughters without their consent:|

thank you....mad props for that faut pas;)


2. don't expect any relationships with anyone but the mom on this one. odds are you will either be the angel in the family, or the guy with no money who doesn't even have th funds to take any of them on a date.

3. you will have no credibility because you will be old in a house of youngins' but will not be cranded as "successful"

4. worst off, you will probably become friends with them and not have any cahcne of 'hitting that sh!T' at all.



I can't believe I jsut wrote that:laugh:




Seriously though, only an immature fool would think that moving in with them would be a good idea. Hang around, do their laundy or their gardening...anything but moving in.

You want to retain the mystique of not divulging the eccentricities of your life to them. They love that stuff, but if you give it all away, you have nothign to offer them in that arena....no quirky things they will grow to love about you.


Don't do it.
 

Finality

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Do it why is this even a question!

Unless of course the mom has the hots for you as well in which case we might just read about your story in the papers :p
 

Captante

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Although it will almost certainly end badly (and I mean BADLY!) I'd have to say the potential exitement factor out-weighs the pain & suffering you will go through when things head south.

I'd say go for it, but make sure you have a "plan B" that can be put into effect in short order when things get rough!
 
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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: GuitarDaddy
Absoluetly horrible idea! When do you move in?

Whenever I feel like it.

She gave me a key and the alarm code within 15 minutes of me arriving at their house :Q

She said I'm free to come over anytime, stay for a night, a week a month. As long as I want.

Ok, that's kinda creepy.

Look, if this eventually leads to sex, then I'm indifferent to what you choose (although I'd personally advise you to stay away).

But what if they're luring you in for some big con, or they wanna frame you for some crime, or worse?

No rent, four reasonably hot women, key within 15 minutes... stop thinking with your richard for a minute and think with your brain. This whole situation is screaming "DANGER WILL ROBINSON!".

But if you move in, post pics.
 

pontifex

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Dec 5, 2000
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they're probably a coven of witches and want to sacrifice you in some kind of demonic ritual.

bahahaha, i love how everyone says don't do it, yet the poll is 75% yes, 25% no...lol
 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Eghck
don't have to pay rent? sounds too good to be true...it also sounds like a recipie for disaster...

Well, I'd still be paying something. I'd feel bad for staying there for free. I'd probably buy the food for them or something.

No! Insist on paying rent! Just come to something agreeable on both sides. How old are you, BTW? 19 is a little young, right? Although she is quite pretty.
 
Jun 19, 2004
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I'm going to have to post again just to reinforce my answer:


YES! WTF Dude, get packing.....


Seriously though, you should do it. This oppritunity will likely NEVER present itself again in your lifetime. To pass on it "because something bad might happen" is just plain asinine. So what if something bad happens? If you go through life not doing things because of that attitude you'll never get laid.

You will need to walk a fine line though to ensure you don't end up being looked at like a "Friend" and not a piece of meat for them to pleasure.