Please show me where I have said she can't do it?
My point, all along, has been that if I say "that's fucked up" that I not be treated as the strange one, that my livelihood not be threatened and that people don't try to indoctrinate my kids to think that is normal. I leave you alone, you leave me alone. I don't try to eliminate your rights, you don't eliminate mine. You don't try to fuck over my life, I don't try to fuck over yours.
However, that isn't the way this transgender thing works. No, they want to shove it down everybody's throat. They want to crush anybody who doesn't 100% publicly espouse their opinion. That is the problem I have. Acceptance at gunpoint. Intolerance.
I would have agreed with leave you alone and you leave them alone.
The reason I have an issue with the hate is because my best friends wife or spouse is transgender.
All he and she wanted was equal rights under the constitution, which they have got now since the DOMA SCOTUS decision since my friend needed to get her a visa to immigrate here legally as his wife. Before that legal decision, she would not qualify for a visa to come and stay with him in the US.
How is asking for the same right as anyone else shoving something down your throat? You never even knew of people having a trans spouse before today? So you're the intolerant one if that's what it comes down to.
And I've been talking to her regarding this thread over the holiday weekend and her reaction is simply oh not everyone likes transgender. She's used to it. She just ignores them and wants to be happy herself.
I also brought up the point of transgender people in bathrooms abusing children and she surprisingly told me, many time those transgenders are not transgenders but fakers and child molesters who pretend to be transgenders and give the trans community a bad name. A true transgender want to be women and are sexually incompatible with women. They will however want to get a hot guy.
So you don't don't need to worry about your wife or daughter but you might have your butt or penis grabbed if you're hot. Hell it's happened to me walking the street in Singapore, Angeles, Bangkok and Sao Paulo.