a few thoughts...
I agree that I'm sick and tired of ND getting into BCS games that they shouldn't - let's look at the central rule that put them in a BCS game this year - the 3 teams from one conference rule, and how STUPID that rule is.
Basically, the 3 team rule was put in place to prevent once conference from getting 3 BCS payouts - lets' just say, for the sake of this discussion, that a BCS payout is 2M for a team. That money, for any team in a conference, is split equally among all the teams in that conference. So the Big 10 this year gets, lets say $5 from Michigan and OSU's BCS games, and that 5M is then split up among the 11 teams in the conference. Had Wisconsin played in the Sugar Bowl instead of ND (as they should have), that's another 2M to the Big 10 - so the big 10 teams, all 11 of them, split up the $7m (guess) , which is about 1.5M per school.
ND, on the other hand, doesn't have a conference to split the money with - so they get 2M for playing the Sugar Bowl - more than any big ten team would get, even if the conference had 3 BCS teams.
So does that rule not make sense to anyone else?
ND, right now, simply isn't very good - the last 4 elite programs they played - OSU in last year's bowl, and Michigan, USC, and LSU - blew them off the field - the games weren't even competitive. I will agree that they do try and schedule a lot of games with teams from the big conferences - it's not like they duck big opponents, so those games against Army, Navy, AF - are really no different than a lot of conference teams non-conference games.
As for the talk of what conference is better than the others, I think it's pretty clear that top to bottom, the SEC was the best conference this year, followed by the Big 10. After that it's close between the Big 12 and the Pac 10, and the ACC and Big East could toss themselves into that discussion as well, but I have a hard time with anyone who doesn't think the SEC, and then the Big 10, weren't the two top conferences this year.