Another GF thread

[CVSiN]

OMFG.. wait a second here...
is this SKYWALKER66? i'm having a stange sence of Deja vu..

reincarnated on atot!

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

OMG...!

This has got to be the funniest damn thread I have read in a long long time...

OP, if your gf is cutting you off because she suddenly has had a revelation due to watching scary movies involving demons, ghosts, and religious apocolyptic messages... I would be more worried about her mental health than the whole sex issue.

I would stop watching these type movies with her. Dissuade her the next time she wants to see anything revolving these type movies.. I mean really!!!

Tell her that her actions leave you a little perplexed and given that she has been having sexual relations with you freely all this time and using the movies as an excuse to suddenly stop the intimacy does in fact impact your relationship. You two need to sit down and talk about this, and find out what the real issue is. Because I think there is more to this than what is at the surface.

Intimacy is a very integral part of a relationship and her actions make no sense. I am not saying that you shouldn't approach this with some compassion and understanding and respect, but you have feelings to. She needs to be just as compassionate and understanding about your feelings as well.

My 02 on the subject.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Josh123

I'd don't even believe you've read the bible cover to cover let alone absorbed its content so........I'd hardly call whatever it is you think you practice as a "belief"

No....I haven't read it completely through but I know enough about it to believe.

this thread is a direct contradiction of that statement.

HOW OLD R U AND YOUR GF? STOP DODGING THE QUESTION.

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Turkish

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Like I said before, I love sex just as much as the other guy. Its freakin natural. I know what is right and wrong but no ones perfect. Do I hope this hold out on sex thing lasts???? Honestly....no.

Cause its stupid to believe in something just because your mommy & daddy told you to do so when you were at a very young age, incapable of making intellectual decisions yourself. Live for your own sake please, not because you are afraid of *things*.

#1. Many people become Christians well into adulthood and later in life....including countless numbers of people smarter than you.
#2. Real Christians aren't Christians because they're afraid of going to hell....I've gone to church for a couple decades and have never heard that argument from a preacher....ever.
#3. Don't talk about sh!t you have no clue about....it just makes you look like a hateful idiot.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
OMG...!

This has got to be the funniest damn thread I have read in a long long time...

OP, if your gf is cutting you off because she suddenly has had a revelation due to watching scary movies involving demons, ghosts, and religious apocolyptic messages... I would be more worried about her mental health than the whole sex issue.

I would stop watching these type movies with her. Dissuade her the next time she wants to see anything revolving these type movies.. I mean really!!!

Tell her that her actions leave you a little perplexed and given that she has been having sexual relations with you freely all this time and using the movies as an excuse to suddenly stop the intimacy does in fact impact your relationship. You two need to sit down and talk about this, and find out what the real issue is. Because I think there is more to this than what is at the surface.

Intimacy is a very integral part of a relationship and her actions make no sense. I am not saying that you shouldn't approach this with some compassion and understanding and respect, but you have feelings to. She needs to be just as compassionate and understanding about your feelings as well.

My 02 on the subject.

Val you and I both know if the girl suddenly had this "revelation" after having sex with the OP she was trying to say....

"you sucked and not in a good way and she would rather have hot sex with her personal toys and wait till marriage than bang you anymore.."

 

[Josh123]

I'm 22 and she is 19 and I know its a direct contradiction of my belief. Like I said earlier no one can go through life and not sin.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Josh123
I'm 22 and she is 19 and I know its a direct contradiction of my belief. Like I said earlier no one can go through life and not sin.

when were you baptized and when was your first communion?

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
OMG...!

This has got to be the funniest damn thread I have read in a long long time...

OP, if your gf is cutting you off because she suddenly has had a revelation due to watching scary movies involving demons, ghosts, and religious apocolyptic messages... I would be more worried about her mental health than the whole sex issue.

I would stop watching these type movies with her. Dissuade her the next time she wants to see anything revolving these type movies.. I mean really!!!

Tell her that her actions leave you a little perplexed and given that she has been having sexual relations with you freely all this time and using the movies as an excuse to suddenly stop the intimacy does in fact impact your relationship. You two need to sit down and talk about this, and find out what the real issue is. Because I think there is more to this than what is at the surface.

Intimacy is a very integral part of a relationship and her actions make no sense. I am not saying that you shouldn't approach this with some compassion and understanding and respect, but you have feelings to. She needs to be just as compassionate and understanding about your feelings as well.

My 02 on the subject.

Val you and I both know if the girl suddenly had this "revelation" after having sex with the OP she was trying to say....

"you sucked and not in a good way and she would rather have hot sex with her personal toys and wait till marriage than bang you anymore.."

Ooooh.... you a Bad Dog... Bad Dog... Punishment when you get home!

 

[Josh123]

Val you and I both know if the girl suddenly had this "revelation" after having sex with the OP she was trying to say....

Staying with a person and the sex being bad is totally retarded. I do believe the reason is because of religion. I admit it is strange her thinking this and not being a virgin but she has also been wanting to get back into church.

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: Josh123

Val you and I both know if the girl suddenly had this "revelation" after having sex with the OP she was trying to say....

Staying with a person and the sex being bad is totally retarded. I do believe the reason is because of religion. I admit it is strange her thinking this and not being a virgin but she has also been wanting to get back into church.

Ok then...

Unless your views are in line with hers and you feel strongly that this is the case (all kidding aside) then support her in this and remain celibate. Start encouraging her and the two of you pick a church to go to together and start practicing what you both believe in. Plain and simple.

Good luck to you baby!

 

[Josh123]

when were you baptized and when was your first communion?

I was baptized at around the age of 12 I believe.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Josh123

when were you baptized and when was your first communion?

I was baptized at around the age of 12 I believe.

so in a decade of time you've had.......you've yet to read the book for which all your "beliefs" are derived from??? Does that seem unreasonable to anyone else or is it just me?

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Josh123

when were you baptized and when was your first communion?

I was baptized at around the age of 12 I believe.

so in a decade of time you've had.......you've yet to read the book for which all your "beliefs" are derived from??? Does that seem unreasonable to anyone else or is it just me?

heh no comment lol....
you know how i feel about it..

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Josh123
I'm 22 and she is 19 and I know its a direct contradiction of my belief. Like I said earlier no one can go through life and not sin.

Yes and sin also starts in your thoughts and if you aren't prepared to try to reign then in, then don't bother with all the pretense. My wife and I made it to marriage as virgins. And, hell yes, I had to keep lustful thoughts out of my mind. I found the easiest way was to not let them get there in the first place. I was engaged to a woman I loved and there are infinite beauties and wonders within her and I spent our dating relationship and engagement basking in them. As cheesy as it sounds, we shared thoughts and feelings and even uncovered some conflicts and flaws within ourselves that we worked out before marriage.

In the Bible, Joseph RAN from Bathsheba. Like you he knew sin was inevitable. But he didn't go, meh, and give in. He ran, probably not from her, but from the thoughts about to stir inside him.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: Josh123
I'm 22 and she is 19 and I know its a direct contradiction of my belief. Like I said earlier no one can go through life and not sin.

Yes and sin also starts in your thoughts and if you aren't prepared to try to reign then in, then don't bother with all the pretense. My wife and I made it to marriage as virgins. And, hell yes, I had to keep lustful thoughts out of my mind. I found the easiest way was to not let them get there in the first place. I was engaged to a woman I loved and there are infinite beauties and wonders within her and I spent our dating relationship and engagement basking in them. As cheesy as it sounds, we shared thoughts and feelings and even uncovered some conflicts and flaws within ourselves that we worked out before marriage.

In the Bible, Joseph RAN from Bathsheba. Like you he knew sin was inevitable. But he didn't go, meh, and give in. He ran, probably not from her, but from the thoughts about to stir inside him.

lol... ok so let me get this straight.... you bought a car without test driving it or any other cars in the entire world?
and by choice no less?

So how do you know you bought the right car?

you have no other knowledge to compare it to...

wow... just wow...
another day I'm glad to say 7 years of Catholic school did nothing to me except turn me agaisnt the oppressions and silly beliefs of religions around the world...

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Josh123

when were you baptized and when was your first communion?

I was baptized at around the age of 12 I believe.

Let me ask you. Why are you a Christian?

 

[roguerower]

Originally posted by: reverend boltron

Originally posted by: Josh123
Ok.....lately me and the GF have been watching religious type of movies. Not sure if that?s the best category but they are movies like Constantine, Exorcism of Emily Rose, and other movies that deal with demons and sh!t. Well last night we had sex and afterward she said that she thinks she wants to wait now. I guess she?s meaning wait till marriage or something. She said she has tried this in the past but was weak and gave in. She asked if I was mad and I told her that I wasn't and that I wasn't with her just for sex. Which of course I'm kind of scared about this just like any other guy would be.

So should I be worried or not??? I too am really religious but I also love sex.

Hey man, let me tell you this, if you're really religious and you're having sex when you're not married then you're living in rebellion. And you know what? It's really hard to have a serious relationship with God when you're doing that, and it's like living the life that the Pharisees did. A life of hypocracy.

Trust me on this, I lived that for two years. It sucked. I thought, "Man, I'm super religious. I go to church Wednesday and Sunday, and I have a bible study on Thursday and Christian group meetins on Tuesdays. I'm so close with God." And like, at the same time I was sleeping with my girlfriend of almost two years. And I was so empty. And quite frankly, my whole idea of what it meant to be a Christian was a joke. I didn't get it, and it really took a long time for me to understand the deception of the enemy and what was really going on. Thankfully the relationship ended and I'm now walking a different walk. Granted I still stumble here and there, but that's the difference between where I was before and where I am going. The righteous fall seven times and they get up seven times. While those who aren't chasing after the face of God will fall, and stay there. Like a dog returning to its vomit is a man that goes back to his sin.

I highly *highly* suggest that you respect what your girlfriend wants and that you guys stop having sex. Seriously, it'll help you out in multiple ways. There's a book out there called "And The Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets To Sexual Purity" which could help you guys out if you read it. Or even if you read it and then give the insight to your girlfriend. That way she'll know that you're serious about this and it'll make her feel more secure with you.

But yeah, it has some nice tips in it. Like, simple things such as keeping the door open to your room, or not hanging out at home alone with each other and stuff like that. Because if you don't put yourself in the position to sin, you are a lot less likely to do it.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I've just been there before and I know that it stinks, so I figured I'd let you know that there is a way out and that you don't really have to be scared, just be responsible and let your girlfriend know that you support her decision and that you think it is a good idea too. That way she won't want to break up w/ you, and everyone ends up happy. Except Mr. Winkey, in which case, you'll probably end up happier when you don't have a kid as a result of his happiness.

I haven't gone to church on my own free will ever, and the last time I set foot in one was 3 years ago and I'm 18. Does that make me a bad person?

EDIT: And not reading the piece of literature with which your entire fate is based upon is stupid. Would you try and take a Calculus test without going over any of the material? Would you go skydiving w/o knowing where and what the ripcord was?

 

[Turkish]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: Turkish

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Like I said before, I love sex just as much as the other guy. Its freakin natural. I know what is right and wrong but no ones perfect. Do I hope this hold out on sex thing lasts???? Honestly....no.

Cause its stupid to believe in something just because your mommy & daddy told you to do so when you were at a very young age, incapable of making intellectual decisions yourself. Live for your own sake please, not because you are afraid of *things*.

#1. Many people become Christians well into adulthood and later in life....including countless numbers of people smarter than you.
#2. Real Christians aren't Christians because they're afraid of going to hell....I've gone to church for a couple decades and have never heard that argument from a preacher....ever.
#3. Don't talk about sh!t you have no clue about....it just makes you look like a hateful idiot.

1. Statistics? Link? Any studies proving this? Don't link to a study done by the Catholic University of Jesusland.
2. Sure, but their parents do.
3. Ok Mr. Loving-Insulting Christian.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: roguerower

Originally posted by: reverend boltron

Originally posted by: Josh123
Ok.....lately me and the GF have been watching religious type of movies. Not sure if that?s the best category but they are movies like Constantine, Exorcism of Emily Rose, and other movies that deal with demons and sh!t. Well last night we had sex and afterward she said that she thinks she wants to wait now. I guess she?s meaning wait till marriage or something. She said she has tried this in the past but was weak and gave in. She asked if I was mad and I told her that I wasn't and that I wasn't with her just for sex. Which of course I'm kind of scared about this just like any other guy would be.

So should I be worried or not??? I too am really religious but I also love sex.

Hey man, let me tell you this, if you're really religious and you're having sex when you're not married then you're living in rebellion. And you know what? It's really hard to have a serious relationship with God when you're doing that, and it's like living the life that the Pharisees did. A life of hypocracy.

Trust me on this, I lived that for two years. It sucked. I thought, "Man, I'm super religious. I go to church Wednesday and Sunday, and I have a bible study on Thursday and Christian group meetins on Tuesdays. I'm so close with God." And like, at the same time I was sleeping with my girlfriend of almost two years. And I was so empty. And quite frankly, my whole idea of what it meant to be a Christian was a joke. I didn't get it, and it really took a long time for me to understand the deception of the enemy and what was really going on. Thankfully the relationship ended and I'm now walking a different walk. Granted I still stumble here and there, but that's the difference between where I was before and where I am going. The righteous fall seven times and they get up seven times. While those who aren't chasing after the face of God will fall, and stay there. Like a dog returning to its vomit is a man that goes back to his sin.

I highly *highly* suggest that you respect what your girlfriend wants and that you guys stop having sex. Seriously, it'll help you out in multiple ways. There's a book out there called "And The Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets To Sexual Purity" which could help you guys out if you read it. Or even if you read it and then give the insight to your girlfriend. That way she'll know that you're serious about this and it'll make her feel more secure with you.

But yeah, it has some nice tips in it. Like, simple things such as keeping the door open to your room, or not hanging out at home alone with each other and stuff like that. Because if you don't put yourself in the position to sin, you are a lot less likely to do it.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I've just been there before and I know that it stinks, so I figured I'd let you know that there is a way out and that you don't really have to be scared, just be responsible and let your girlfriend know that you support her decision and that you think it is a good idea too. That way she won't want to break up w/ you, and everyone ends up happy. Except Mr. Winkey, in which case, you'll probably end up happier when you don't have a kid as a result of his happiness.

I haven't gone to church on my own free will ever, and the last time I set foot in one was 3 years ago and I'm 18. Does that make me a bad person?

No it makes you a free person that allows himself the liberties to let modern morals help you guide your life instead of some silly figurehead...

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Josh123

when were you baptized and when was your first communion?

I was baptized at around the age of 12 I believe.

so in a decade of time you've had.......you've yet to read the book for which all your "beliefs" are derived from??? Does that seem unreasonable to anyone else or is it just me?

Thats called blind faith man... LOL

 

[Vinny N]

Originally posted by: Josh123
So should I be worried or not??? I too am really religious but I also love sex.

Don't be worried. It was probably going to come up whether or not you guys were watching those sorts of movies.

Just support her as best you can. If/When she does come around, again be supportive, assure her it's not a horrible thing, let her know that she is not a weak person and that there is a place for sex in a loving relationship.

 

[otispunkmeyer]

hookers FTW

 

[Turkish]

So wait, I am a little confused. Your right hand told you to not use it for pleasure? I didn't know hands can speak.

 

[AdamSnow]

This thread makes me laugh... :laugh:

 

[GTaudiophile]

Maybe you're the problem. Check your pulse lately? Do you bleed?

Maybe she's getting you confused with a ghost or demon or something.