Another GF thread

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: reverend boltron

Originally posted by: Josh123
Ok.....lately me and the GF have been watching religious type of movies. Not sure if that?s the best category but they are movies like Constantine, Exorcism of Emily Rose, and other movies that deal with demons and sh!t. Well last night we had sex and afterward she said that she thinks she wants to wait now. I guess she?s meaning wait till marriage or something. She said she has tried this in the past but was weak and gave in. She asked if I was mad and I told her that I wasn't and that I wasn't with her just for sex. Which of course I'm kind of scared about this just like any other guy would be.

So should I be worried or not??? I too am really religious but I also love sex.

Hey man, let me tell you this, if you're really religious and you're having sex when you're not married then you're living in rebellion. And you know what? It's really hard to have a serious relationship with God when you're doing that, and it's like living the life that the Pharisees did. A life of hypocracy.

Trust me on this, I lived that for two years. It sucked. I thought, "Man, I'm super religious. I go to church Wednesday and Sunday, and I have a bible study on Thursday and Christian group meetins on Tuesdays. I'm so close with God." And like, at the same time I was sleeping with my girlfriend of almost two years. And I was so empty. And quite frankly, my whole idea of what it meant to be a Christian was a joke. I didn't get it, and it really took a long time for me to understand the deception of the enemy and what was really going on. Thankfully the relationship ended and I'm now walking a different walk. Granted I still stumble here and there, but that's the difference between where I was before and where I am going. The righteous fall seven times and they get up seven times. While those who aren't chasing after the face of God will fall, and stay there. Like a dog returning to its vomit is a man that goes back to his sin.

I highly *highly* suggest that you respect what your girlfriend wants and that you guys stop having sex. Seriously, it'll help you out in multiple ways. There's a book out there called "And The Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets To Sexual Purity" which could help you guys out if you read it. Or even if you read it and then give the insight to your girlfriend. That way she'll know that you're serious about this and it'll make her feel more secure with you.

But yeah, it has some nice tips in it. Like, simple things such as keeping the door open to your room, or not hanging out at home alone with each other and stuff like that. Because if you don't put yourself in the position to sin, you are a lot less likely to do it.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I've just been there before and I know that it stinks, so I figured I'd let you know that there is a way out and that you don't really have to be scared, just be responsible and let your girlfriend know that you support her decision and that you think it is a good idea too. That way she won't want to break up w/ you, and everyone ends up happy. Except Mr. Winkey, in which case, you'll probably end up happier when you don't have a kid as a result of his happiness.

omfg seek professional help... seriously...

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

Originally posted by: Nikamichi
FS: Used Fleshlights

 

[Josh123]

silent hill was almost religious!

Ya....we watched that Sat. night too.

omfg seek professional help... seriously...

Whats wrong with what he said??? I actually think its the best idea I've heard.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Josh123

silent hill was almost religious!

Ya....we watched that Sat. night too.

omfg seek professional help... seriously...

Whats wrong with what he said??? I actually think its the best idea I've heard.

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

 

[tfinch2]

Originally posted by: reverend boltron

Originally posted by: Josh123
Ok.....lately me and the GF have been watching religious type of movies. Not sure if that?s the best category but they are movies like Constantine, Exorcism of Emily Rose, and other movies that deal with demons and sh!t. Well last night we had sex and afterward she said that she thinks she wants to wait now. I guess she?s meaning wait till marriage or something. She said she has tried this in the past but was weak and gave in. She asked if I was mad and I told her that I wasn't and that I wasn't with her just for sex. Which of course I'm kind of scared about this just like any other guy would be.

So should I be worried or not??? I too am really religious but I also love sex.

Hey man, let me tell you this, if you're really religious and you're having sex when you're not married then you're living in rebellion. And you know what? It's really hard to have a serious relationship with God when you're doing that, and it's like living the life that the Pharisees did. A life of hypocracy.

Trust me on this, I lived that for two years. It sucked. I thought, "Man, I'm super religious. I go to church Wednesday and Sunday, and I have a bible study on Thursday and Christian group meetins on Tuesdays. I'm so close with God." And like, at the same time I was sleeping with my girlfriend of almost two years. And I was so empty. And quite frankly, my whole idea of what it meant to be a Christian was a joke. I didn't get it, and it really took a long time for me to understand the deception of the enemy and what was really going on. Thankfully the relationship ended and I'm now walking a different walk. Granted I still stumble here and there, but that's the difference between where I was before and where I am going. The righteous fall seven times and they get up seven times. While those who aren't chasing after the face of God will fall, and stay there. Like a dog returning to its vomit is a man that goes back to his sin.

I highly *highly* suggest that you respect what your girlfriend wants and that you guys stop having sex. Seriously, it'll help you out in multiple ways. There's a book out there called "And The Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets To Sexual Purity" which could help you guys out if you read it. Or even if you read it and then give the insight to your girlfriend. That way she'll know that you're serious about this and it'll make her feel more secure with you.

But yeah, it has some nice tips in it. Like, simple things such as keeping the door open to your room, or not hanging out at home alone with each other and stuff like that. Because if you don't put yourself in the position to sin, you are a lot less likely to do it.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I've just been there before and I know that it stinks, so I figured I'd let you know that there is a way out and that you don't really have to be scared, just be responsible and let your girlfriend know that you support her decision and that you think it is a good idea too. That way she won't want to break up w/ you, and everyone ends up happy. Except Mr. Winkey, in which case, you'll probably end up happier when you don't have a kid as a result of his happiness.

I'm speechless...

 

[Josh123]

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Josh123

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

EDIT: HOW OLD ARE YOU 2?

 

[kogase]

Originally posted by: Josh123

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

Someone who isn't quite as stupid as them.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: GeneValgene
anyhow, if you care about her, you should respect her

:thumbsup: I concur.

Nothing wrong with waiting for marriage. I am sure it will be hard though.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: tfinch2
If you guys had never had sex before, I could understand waiting, but since you've already had it that is pretty stupid. It's like eating a piece of cake and after the first bite someone takes it away from you and says "okay that's enough".

Very true.

It will be very difficult for you, OP. You could always just marry her if it gets too hard to wait. 🙂 I am serious, BTW.

 

[Josh123]

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Like I said before, I love sex just as much as the other guy. Its freakin natural. I know what is right and wrong but no ones perfect. Do I hope this hold out on sex thing lasts???? Honestly....no.

 

[Nikamichi]

Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer

Originally posted by: Nikamichi
FS: Used Fleshlights

😀

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: kogase

Originally posted by: Josh123

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

Someone who wants to be perceived as smart by ridiculing those who possess faith.

Fixed.

There are plenty of geniuses who are religeous.....ponder that for a second.

 

[kogase]

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Because they feel like it. That's a good enough reason, we live in the US.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Its "OK" to believe... its quite another thing to let a story book and a fictitious all powerful ghost tell me when and where I can get laid or drink a beer or eat a burger...

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: kogase

Originally posted by: Josh123

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

Someone who wants to be perceived as smart by ridiculing those who possess faith.

Fixed.

There are plenty of geniuses who are religeous.....ponder that for a second.

and there are alot more than arnt!

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: kogase

Originally posted by: Josh123

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

Someone who wants to be perceived as smart by ridiculing those who possess faith.

Fixed.

There are plenty of geniuses who are religeous.....ponder that for a second.

and there are alot more than arnt!

And your point?

 

[Nikamichi]

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Like I said before, I love sex just as much as the other guy. Its freakin natural. I know what is right and wrong but no ones perfect. Do I hope this hold out on sex thing lasts???? Honestly....no.

If you're true to your faith, you'll know the answer to your own questions. But, I'll say this:

Open up your eyes and your ears.
Sit down and talk with your GF.
Wait till she's comfortable with you as a partner.
Buy a used fleshlight.
Wait.
Continue to use teh fleshlight.
Win.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

I'd don't even believe you've read the bible cover to cover let alone absorbed its content so........I'd hardly call whatever it is you think you practice as a "belief"

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: kogase

Originally posted by: Josh123

lollolol.. go with god then my son.. all the way to the "Im so religious im not gonna be getting any anytime soon stop" enjoy that bible study and Billy Graham while I'm having some "Tittys and beer"

Who are you to make fun of what people believe???

Someone who wants to be perceived as smart by ridiculing those who possess faith.

Fixed.

There are plenty of geniuses who are religeous.....ponder that for a second.

and there are alot more than arnt!

And your point?

ditto

 

[Tarrant64]

I stepped out of Anand for a couple months to get back into school and what not. I can honestly say it's threads like this that I miss. It never seems to stop. 🙂

 

[Kadarin]

Personally, I feel that religious beliefs that make you feel guilty about sexuality are not worth believing in.

 

[tfinch2]

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Like I said before, I love sex just as much as the other guy. Its freakin natural. I know what is right and wrong but no ones perfect. Do I hope this hold out on sex thing lasts???? Honestly....no.

If you're true to your faith, you'll know the answer to your own questions. But, I'll say this:

Open up your eyes and your ears.
Sit down and talk with your GF.
Wait till she's comfortable with you as a partner.
Buy a used fleshlight.
Wait.
Continue to use teh fleshlight.
Win.

True words of wisdom.

 

[Turkish]

Originally posted by: Josh123

shut up you're a fake ass follower of your religion. I'm sure premarrital sex isnt the only transgression you partake in on a regular basis. You are one of those I'm religious when its convienient types.

I admit I haven't been the best at being a strong christian but no one can be sinless. I'm not one of those people that judge people that don't believe. I just don't understand why people always poke fun at what other people believe.

Like I said before, I love sex just as much as the other guy. Its freakin natural. I know what is right and wrong but no ones perfect. Do I hope this hold out on sex thing lasts???? Honestly....no.

Cause its stupid to believe in something just because your mommy & daddy told you to do so when you were at a very young age, incapable of making intellectual decisions yourself. Live for your own sake please, not because you are afraid of *things*.

 

[Josh123]

I'd don't even believe you've read the bible cover to cover let alone absorbed its content so........I'd hardly call whatever it is you think you practice as a "belief"

No....I haven't read it completely through but I know enough about it to believe.