Just imagine all of those women out there, not the famous or celebrity but just your sister your mom your daughter... YOUR WIFE that has been have been or currently are putting up with this from not only those high profiled as Moore and Franken, but in the workplace.
Just talking last night to my 60 year old sis and she was telling how she worked for one Realestate agent that would say things like, "here's the report, in my pants, come and get it".
Or, on the way back from N.Y. on the plane sitting beside some idiot that kept telling my sis how beautiful she was and how they needed to go somewhere together and grab a drink once on the ground.
My sis sat there for the entire 2 hour trip listening to this crap, then when they landed she asked for his phone number so she could call his wife. The guy actually ran off from her in the airport.
This happens all the time to women.
And that is why they usually keep quiet for the most part, because for them this is the way it is out there in society.
So.... damn straight that Franken should resign.
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I get all that, and I have a daughter too.
My thought is that this behavior is way too widespread, as you also suggest. Just to start, I can think of a number of stories just from work I've heard through the grapevine. I imagine most of us have experiences with other dudes acting as real creeps. Hopefully none of us have done such things...
However, what do we do with all of this? What is the standard of punishment we are going apply? I'm in 100% agreement that this has to stop. We have to demand better. But what response gets us there?
My fear is that if every action is punishable by destruction of career, then the stakes are so high that the only option is to fight. It will turn into a gender war. Gamergate x1000.
I don't find that healthy and productive.
True criminality needs to be severally punished. Serial harassment needs to be punished. Move down the spectrum.... What about one offs, bad jokes, drunken debauchery, clumsy and overly aggressive passes and pickups? What rules are we playing with here?
None of it's acceptable, but we can't have the nuclear option for everything. There are so many contexts it's hard to draw clear lines, but I feel like we need something like the apartheid Truth and Reconciliation. Separate out the true deviants and abusers, but the everyday sinners need to come clean, ask for forgiveness, and commit to changing your ways.
No more from this point forward.