YAGT: My gf wants to meet some guy she met online UPDATE

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YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Yes you should be worried.

Why the hell is she meeting guys online when she is in a committed relationship with you?

I agree.

If she is happy with you, she would not WANT to go and have dinner with some other guy. It is especially inappropriate with your not being there. Even if her intentions are innocent, she is sending the wrong message to this other guy.

But, I still think it is inappropriate.

I would never, ever meet up with some guy that my b/f doesnt know while he is not there. Not only is it wrong, imho, but I have no desire to behave as such.


^^^ QFT.

Ask yourself this question: Were you in her shoes and some girl that you met online wanted to go out to dinner with you and your girlfriend was unable to go, would you even consider it?

My advice: Talk to her about it! Don't try to forbid her from doing something, but rather say something like "<insert g/f's name here>, I wanted to talk to you about your dinner plans with <insert random internet guys name here>. I don't feel comfortable with you going out to dinner alone with another man. I completely trust your judgment and I know that you wouldn't do anything inappropriate, but I just feel like you are sending the wrong kind of signal in this situation. I know he is only in town for a little while, so why don't you get a group of friends together and all do something?"

Sometimes people don't think straight when they are making plans, hopefully this is the case and she really is naive to the signals that she is sending. In any case, good luck to ya :)

It's a freaking joke already. Check the douche's first post. He's a wannabe.

I actually do have a gf though :laugh:
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
You did a nice job making me sound like a real jerk, Sean. :heart:

I think halfway convincing until Agaboogaboo posted his pictures of you. :)

I think some people are still convinced ;)
 
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Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
You did a nice job making me sound like a real jerk, Sean. :heart:

I think halfway convincing until Agaboogaboo posted his pictures of you. :)

wow, your postcount skyrocketed

get tired of sean having all the fun on here?
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i thought it was odd that you were posting this here where she's a member :laugh:

Yeah, I thought someone might have brought that up sooner :laugh:
 
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Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
You did a nice job making me sound like a real jerk, Sean. :heart:

I think halfway convincing until Agaboogaboo posted his pictures of you. :)

I think some people are still convinced ;)

i was just about to ask if she wanted to do dinner with me :(
 

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I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?
 
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Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i thought it was odd that you were posting this here where she's a member :laugh:

Yeah, I thought someone might have brought that up sooner :laugh:

well...i just got here :eek:
 
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Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

sean looks better in it anyway :Q
 

dawnbug

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
You did a nice job making me sound like a real jerk, Sean. :heart:

I think halfway convincing until Agaboogaboo posted his pictures of you. :)

wow, your postcount skyrocketed

get tired of sean having all the fun on here?

I've become as bad as him. :eek: I spend hours on here daily now, mostly lurking, but posting a few times a day. So addictive! :)
 

dawnbug

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

sean looks better in it anyway :Q

How do you know? :Q:p
 

dawnbug

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
so are you guys taking turns posting, or are you at different comps?

I'm at work right now, but we'll be at different computers when I get home. :)
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

Agaboogaboo made me do it :(
 

lyssword

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Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i thought it was odd that you were posting this here where she's a member :laugh:

Yeah, I thought someone might have brought that up sooner :laugh:

You bastard! I wasted 30 secs of my precious sitting-in-my-moms-basement-jobless time on typing a reply :(
 

SarcasticDwarf

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Dawn and I have decided that the best course of action is to kill you off and then we can get married.
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

sean looks better in it anyway :Q

lies
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
Dawn and I have decided that the best course of action is to kill you off and then we can get married.

OH NOES!!!!
 

dawnbug

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Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
Dawn and I have decided that the best course of action is to kill you off and then we can get married.

Shh, you weren't supposed to tell him.
 
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Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

sean looks better in it anyway :Q

How do you know? :Q:p

you haven't seen the pics he takes while you're at work...and the video from the hidden camera...i know more than you think :p

i will say, his audio stuff isn't the only "equipment" he likes to play with while wearing your bras :eek:
 

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You have to be careful, you can catch teh diseases on the internet! :) :p :beer:
 

SarcasticDwarf

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Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
Originally posted by: SarcasticDwarf
Dawn and I have decided that the best course of action is to kill you off and then we can get married.

Shh, you weren't supposed to tell him.

But honey, where is the fun in it if we can't at least torture him a bit before he dies a horrible death?
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

sean looks better in it anyway :Q

How do you know? :Q:p

you haven't seen the pics he takes while you're at work...and the video from the hidden camera...i know more than you think :p

i will say, his audio stuff isn't the only "equipment" he likes to play with while wearing your bras :eek:

My thread is backfiring big time
 
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Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: everman
I'd be worried about her going to meet some randome sadistic dwarf she met on the intertubes. Perhaps it has something to do with your wearing her lingerie while playing with your equipment?

sean looks better in it anyway :Q

How do you know? :Q:p

you haven't seen the pics he takes while you're at work...and the video from the hidden camera...i know more than you think :p

i will say, his audio stuff isn't the only "equipment" he likes to play with while wearing your bras :eek:

My thread is backfiring big time

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