YAGT: My gf wants to meet some guy she met online UPDATE

[KoolDrew]

Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Yes you should be worried.

Why the hell is she meeting guys online when she is in a committed relationship with you?

QFT

 

[MyThirdEye]

take your lunch-break, and spy on her o_0

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?

It seems like you guys are saying things are over already

 

[compuwiz1]

Did she meet him on Adult friend finder, or Craig's list?

 

[Caesar]

Lol. This is funny

 

[SynthDude2001]

1/10?

 

[SmoochyTX]

Stop being such a pussy. If she wants to meet up with him, tell her you're going with her.

If she declines you know the answer to your question.

Edited for spelling.

 

[BoldAsLove]

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?

It seems like you guys are saying things are over already

that could either secure things or make it worse...
she could be seeing what shes missing...but i doubt it. you should be fine. just ccheck for interesting signs when she comes home...ask some questions without seeming too curious about what they did.

 

[sash1]

wait, that was your girlfriend? her last message said she was single! oh well, i'll let you know how things go

 

[Rogodin2]

This isn't a real post IF you were in a relationship for that length of time your answer would be an immediate 'NO'-thinking about thinking about posting a question on this forum would never materialize.

Rogo

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Did she meet him on Adult friend finder, or Craig's list?

no

 

[MrChad]

Shens

 

[KarenMarie]

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?

It seems like you guys are saying things are over already

Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.

Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

Originally posted by: sash1
wait, that was your girlfriend? her last message said she was single! oh well, i'll let you know how things go

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
Why are guys here so damned stupid, blind, and just plain ignorant when it comes to women? Open you fricken eyes. Wanting to meet a guy she met online is an indication she is SHOPPING FOR YOUR REPLACEMENT.

QFT.

Sorry yoyo, it's over.

A woman doesn't shop if she has what she needs.

 

[Whisper]

I've always been of the mentality that if someone's going to stray, they're going to stray regardless...whether or not you "allow" them to.

In this situation, I'd just ask her how she'd feel about letting me to something similar. It honestly does sound a bit suspect, but she's her own person, and is allowed to do as she pleases.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?

It seems like you guys are saying things are over already

Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.

Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?

i'm with you.

 

[SmoochyTX]

You should tell her you're going to meet up with another girl (make her up if you have to) for dinner/lunch/whatever. Watch the sheeyat hit the fan.

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?

It seems like you guys are saying things are over already

Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.

Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?

I didn't really think it was "going out" when she first told me about it and then I thought about it later and got worried.

Does this sort of thing always lead to trouble?

 

[SmoochyTX]

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?

It seems like you guys are saying things are over already

Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.

Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?

I didn't really think it was "going out" when she first told me about it and then I thought about it later and got worried.

Does this sort of thing always lead to trouble?

Hello McFly!!! She's shopping around. Duh.

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
You should tell her you're going to meet up with another girl (make her up if you have to) for dinner/lunch/whatever. Watch the sheeyat hit the fan.

I don't think she'd have a problem with that.

Do you think that's a sign that she doesn't really care what I do, or that she trusts that I wouldn't do anything to betray her?

 

[SmoochyTX]

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello

Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
You should tell her you're going to meet up with another girl (make her up if you have to) for dinner/lunch/whatever. Watch the sheeyat hit the fan.

I don't think she'd have a problem with that.

Do you think that's a sign that she doesn't really care what I do, or that she trusts that I wouldn't do anything to betray her?

If she doesn't have a problem with you meeting up with another woman, then that should tell you something.

ETA - She's playing you for a fool. Thinking you're so in love with her that she walks on water and you'd never do anything bad towards her. Meanwhile, she's planning her exit or at the very least, her backup plan.

 

[chuckywang]

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Hi guys.

I've been going out with my gf for 4.5 years now and things are going great. We're very happy together and share a lot of interests. That said, she's been indicating that she wants to socialize with some other people sometimes. In particular, tomorrow she's planning on meeting some guy she met online.

It turns out this guy will be in town and she thought it would be cool to meet him. I'm going to be at work when they're planning on meeting. She hasn't mentioned anything about what they plan on doing once they meet other than going out to eat somewhere.

Should I be worried? Should I let her go? Please help me AT.

Is it this guy?

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

Ok guys... maybe I can get out of work early... tell my boss I'm sick or something and sneak out.

I know where they're meeting. What should I do?

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

Originally posted by: chuckywang

Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Hi guys.

I've been going out with my gf for 4.5 years now and things are going great. We're very happy together and share a lot of interests. That said, she's been indicating that she wants to socialize with some other people sometimes. In particular, tomorrow she's planning on meeting some guy she met online.

It turns out this guy will be in town and she thought it would be cool to meet him. I'm going to be at work when they're planning on meeting. She hasn't mentioned anything about what they plan on doing once they meet other than going out to eat somewhere.

Should I be worried? Should I let her go? Please help me AT.

Is it this guy?

:shiftyeyes;

:laugh: yes