IHateMyJob2004
Lifer
- Sep 29, 2004
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The guy is probably expecting anonymous sex. Your GF probably is blond since she has no clue what she's getting herself into.
How has no one else looked at these pics? This is ownage in my booksOriginally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
Sean was feeling like experimenting a few months ago and so I decided to finally post the pictures he had sent to me, maybe this is related?
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/4.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/3.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/2.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/1.jpg
Why did you have to post those now?
I trusted you!
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
How has no one else looked at these pics? This is ownage in my booksOriginally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
Sean was feeling like experimenting a few months ago and so I decided to finally post the pictures he had sent to me, maybe this is related?
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/4.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/3.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/2.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/1.jpg
Why did you have to post those now?
I trusted you!![]()
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?
It seems like you guys are saying things are over already![]()
Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.
Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?
I didn't really think it was "going out" when she first told me about it and then I thought about it later and got worried.
Does this sort of thing always lead to trouble?
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
How has no one else looked at these pics? This is ownage in my booksOriginally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
Sean was feeling like experimenting a few months ago and so I decided to finally post the pictures he had sent to me, maybe this is related?
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/4.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/3.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/2.jpg
http://www.ankit.cc/seanowned/1.jpg
Why did you have to post those now?
I trusted you!![]()
:laugh:
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Ok guys... maybe I can get out of work early... tell my boss I'm sick or something and sneak out.
I know where they're meeting. What should I do?
Take her poster off your wall.Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Ok guys... maybe I can get out of work early... tell my boss I'm sick or something and sneak out.
I know where they're meeting. What should I do?
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Ok guys... maybe I can get out of work early... tell my boss I'm sick or something and sneak out.
I know where they're meeting. What should I do?
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Ok guys... maybe I can get out of work early... tell my boss I'm sick or something and sneak out.
I know where they're meeting. What should I do?
Bring a date.
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?
It seems like you guys are saying things are over already![]()
Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.
Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?
I didn't really think it was "going out" when she first told me about it and then I thought about it later and got worried.
Does this sort of thing always lead to trouble?
if it is not 'going out', what is it?
take a step back and think about.
If a guy and girl meet online and get together to have dinner alone, what is it? And if either of them are already involved with someone else... what is that?
I notice in your OP the one thing that you did NOT post was that it was her idea for BOTH of you to meet some guy she met online. I did notice however that you did say she has been indicating that she wants to socialize with other ppl. In context, I take that to mean that she want to see other ppl besides you and the friends you already have.
Sorry, those are HUGE red flags to me.
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Where the hell did she "meet" this guy?
Originally posted by: TheoPetro
haha yo yo you had me scared. I actually fealt bad this was happening to you lol. ass
Well, you had me going... and here I was, all concerned and stuff.Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Sorry Karen, this was just a joke because Ladybuggy is going to meet SarcasticDwarf for an AT meet
Thanks for the advice though :heart:
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
I should have put this in the OP, we're engaged. Does that change things, or does that not really matter?
It seems like you guys are saying things are over already![]()
Yes, it makes a difference. To me, it is WORSE.
Question... do you or does she think it might be a little disrespectful to want to go out with another guy when engaged to someone? Or am I just weird... well, I know I am weird, but I mean EXTRA weird when it comes to respect, relationships and loyalty?
I didn't really think it was "going out" when she first told me about it and then I thought about it later and got worried.
Does this sort of thing always lead to trouble?
if it is not 'going out', what is it?
take a step back and think about.
If a guy and girl meet online and get together to have dinner alone, what is it? And if either of them are already involved with someone else... what is that?
I notice in your OP the one thing that you did NOT post was that it was her idea for BOTH of you to meet some guy she met online. I did notice however that you did say she has been indicating that she wants to socialize with other ppl. In context, I take that to mean that she want to see other ppl besides you and the friends you already have.
Sorry, those are HUGE red flags to me.
Sorry Karen, this was just a joke because Ladybuggy is going to meet SarcasticDwarf for an AT meet
Thanks for the advice though :heart:
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Yes you should be worried.
Why the hell is she meeting guys online when she is in a committed relationship with you?
I agree.
If she is happy with you, she would not WANT to go and have dinner with some other guy. It is especially inappropriate with your not being there. Even if her intentions are innocent, she is sending the wrong message to this other guy.
But, I still think it is inappropriate.
I would never, ever meet up with some guy that my b/f doesnt know while he is not there. Not only is it wrong, imho, but I have no desire to behave as such.
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Yes you should be worried.
Why the hell is she meeting guys online when she is in a committed relationship with you?
I agree.
If she is happy with you, she would not WANT to go and have dinner with some other guy. It is especially inappropriate with your not being there. Even if her intentions are innocent, she is sending the wrong message to this other guy.
But, I still think it is inappropriate.
I would never, ever meet up with some guy that my b/f doesnt know while he is not there. Not only is it wrong, imho, but I have no desire to behave as such.
^^^ QFT.
Ask yourself this question: Were you in her shoes and some girl that you met online wanted to go out to dinner with you and your girlfriend was unable to go, would you even consider it?
My advice: Talk to her about it! Don't try to forbid her from doing something, but rather say something like "<insert g/f's name here>, I wanted to talk to you about your dinner plans with <insert random internet guys name here>. I don't feel comfortable with you going out to dinner alone with another man. I completely trust your judgment and I know that you wouldn't do anything inappropriate, but I just feel like you are sending the wrong kind of signal in this situation. I know he is only in town for a little while, so why don't you get a group of friends together and all do something?"
Sometimes people don't think straight when they are making plans, hopefully this is the case and she really is naive to the signals that she is sending. In any case, good luck to ya![]()
