- Aug 6, 2001
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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: Garet Jax
Yes you should be worried.
Why the hell is she meeting guys online when she is in a committed relationship with you?
I agree.
If she is happy with you, she would not WANT to go and have dinner with some other guy. It is especially inappropriate with your not being there. Even if her intentions are innocent, she is sending the wrong message to this other guy.
But, I still think it is inappropriate.
I would never, ever meet up with some guy that my b/f doesnt know while he is not there. Not only is it wrong, imho, but I have no desire to behave as such.
^^^ QFT.
Ask yourself this question: Were you in her shoes and some girl that you met online wanted to go out to dinner with you and your girlfriend was unable to go, would you even consider it?
My advice: Talk to her about it! Don't try to forbid her from doing something, but rather say something like "<insert g/f's name here>, I wanted to talk to you about your dinner plans with <insert random internet guys name here>. I don't feel comfortable with you going out to dinner alone with another man. I completely trust your judgment and I know that you wouldn't do anything inappropriate, but I just feel like you are sending the wrong kind of signal in this situation. I know he is only in town for a little while, so why don't you get a group of friends together and all do something?"
Sometimes people don't think straight when they are making plans, hopefully this is the case and she really is naive to the signals that she is sending. In any case, good luck to ya![]()
It's a freaking joke already. Check the douche's first post. He's a wannabe.
I actually do have a gf though :laugh:
