Do it in person for sure. As for the way to go about it, thats up to you, and has everything to do with the situation.
She wasnt leading you on by mistake. She was most likely leading you on, expecting you to do something. She might not even know it herself. But if a girl doesnt like someone, they will NOT snuggle with them. Ever. Unless theyre gay, but in that case, they probably want them cause theyre the forbidden fruit, and so, so sensitive. If she let you kiss her on the lips, and still hangs out with you, she likes you. Tickling, cuddling and spooning is all sexual tension.
For example, take my current gf. She was in one of my classes, I went out of my way to talk to her during break etc, cause she was just that much fun. I thought she liked me, but I certainly liked her. I analyzed everything, *every little thing*. And one day, god decideds to turn off the lights on the entire eastern seaboard, which thankfully left me stranded 50 miles from home without a car. I take the train to school. No juice = no trains. Had to spend the night at her place, and there was nothing to do but play board games and chat, by candlelight. First came the snuggling, then the tickling. We started talking about movies, and almost hesitating asking her out to one. As soon as I did, she said yes as if she had it cocked and ready waiting for me to ask. Fast forward to that night, tickling because kissing.
Now that we've been going out for a while, I now know that all I ever had to do was ask. I waited until a great opportunity came to me, but I would have asked her out eventually. Annnyways, the only person here who really knows the girl is you. From the sounds of it, she could like you and you didnt act on it, or she could just be a attention whore who likes to lead guys on to make herself feel better. Keep in mind girls tend to do stupid things like talk about guys that are hot to judge YOUR reaction. My favorite was when a girl that so obviously liked me told me she was going to hook me up with her friend to judge how Id react. I ended hooking myself up with her friend.
Just keep in mind, youre not asking her if she'd like to go out maybe one day. Youre asking her out on a date. Be VERY VERY clear its a date, and not a hangout. How exactly to get that across is up to you. In the end, YOURE the man now dog. You have as much control over the situation as she does. If shes just an attention whore, treat her like one. If shes a genuinely nice girl, treat her like one. But dont pine away and wonder about it. Dont be cowardly or foolhardy, just be courageous. Dont be insecure or cocky, just be confident.
Do your thing, and then get some pics, dammit.
She wasnt leading you on by mistake. She was most likely leading you on, expecting you to do something. She might not even know it herself. But if a girl doesnt like someone, they will NOT snuggle with them. Ever. Unless theyre gay, but in that case, they probably want them cause theyre the forbidden fruit, and so, so sensitive. If she let you kiss her on the lips, and still hangs out with you, she likes you. Tickling, cuddling and spooning is all sexual tension.
For example, take my current gf. She was in one of my classes, I went out of my way to talk to her during break etc, cause she was just that much fun. I thought she liked me, but I certainly liked her. I analyzed everything, *every little thing*. And one day, god decideds to turn off the lights on the entire eastern seaboard, which thankfully left me stranded 50 miles from home without a car. I take the train to school. No juice = no trains. Had to spend the night at her place, and there was nothing to do but play board games and chat, by candlelight. First came the snuggling, then the tickling. We started talking about movies, and almost hesitating asking her out to one. As soon as I did, she said yes as if she had it cocked and ready waiting for me to ask. Fast forward to that night, tickling because kissing.
Now that we've been going out for a while, I now know that all I ever had to do was ask. I waited until a great opportunity came to me, but I would have asked her out eventually. Annnyways, the only person here who really knows the girl is you. From the sounds of it, she could like you and you didnt act on it, or she could just be a attention whore who likes to lead guys on to make herself feel better. Keep in mind girls tend to do stupid things like talk about guys that are hot to judge YOUR reaction. My favorite was when a girl that so obviously liked me told me she was going to hook me up with her friend to judge how Id react. I ended hooking myself up with her friend.
Just keep in mind, youre not asking her if she'd like to go out maybe one day. Youre asking her out on a date. Be VERY VERY clear its a date, and not a hangout. How exactly to get that across is up to you. In the end, YOURE the man now dog. You have as much control over the situation as she does. If shes just an attention whore, treat her like one. If shes a genuinely nice girl, treat her like one. But dont pine away and wonder about it. Dont be cowardly or foolhardy, just be courageous. Dont be insecure or cocky, just be confident.
Do your thing, and then get some pics, dammit.
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