Why was I circumsized?!?!

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Peetoeng

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I am proud to say that I still have all my peripherals with me: foreskin, tonsil, appendix, wisdom teeth.

Man, there are such thing as clean water and soap. If you are still dirtier down there than those damn mud-bathed elephants, I wonder what kind of wench would lie with you.



 

Epsil0n00

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There is a book about this topic called "Sex as nature intended it." I haven't read it yet, but plan to soon. Here is some info about it that I copied from the above linked forum:
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Great new book reveals the benefits of being INTACT. www.SexAsNatureIntendedIt.com

"Sex As Nature Intended It." This is the *first* book to detail the many sexual functions and benefits of the male foreskin for both the man and his female partner. It presents unequivocal evidence that the foreskin plays a definite, delicate, vital role during intercourse, that not only promotes increased sexual pleasure, but this enhanced pleasure also serves to enrich and continually re-cement the love bond, borne from sexual union.

Circumcision´s removal of the foreskin -- ultra-erogenous tissue and the penis´s only moving part -- not only diminishes the man´s sexual
pleasure, but also the woman´s.

A national survey of women, conducted by the author, reveals that circumcision abnormalizes the way the penis thrusts and feels to a woman, and significantly diminishes her sexual enjoyment and her ability to achieve orgasm from intercourse. The book´s explanation of the profound negative effect circumcision has on the intercourse experience of both partners will surely leave America stunned. But luckily, there is a bright side to this shocking news. It is now
possible to restore the foreskin through various non-surgical techniques. In the course of addressing this topic, the book enwraps the emerging foreskin restoration movement with hope, promise, and dignity. I found the book captivating to read and very informative. It conveys a powerful message that is destined to capture our national consciousness. I recommend it very highly.

For more information about the book, visit its website at www.SexAsNatureIntendedIt.com -- Sex As Nature Intended It: The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About *Making* Love But No One Could Tell You Until Now. The outstanding new book by Kristen O´Hara. Afterword by George C. Denniston, MD, President of D.O.C. (Doctors Opposing Circumcision). www.DoctorsOpposingCircumcision.org
 

Mrfrog840

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<< It seems most of you are glad you were circumsized, I'm glad I'm wasn't. :p >>


ditto
i was thinking of getting that changed but my i talked to my dad about it and he said it can be quite painful :frown:
 

Epsil0n00

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<< Man, there are such thing as clean water and soap. >>


This reminds me to let you all know another thing: wheather you are intact or not you should not wash your the head of your penis with soap. The skin that makes up your head and the inside of your foreskin is a membrane (like your the inside of your eyelids, your lips, etc.), meaning that moisture can pass through it more easily. However, this also makes it very sensitive! I always used to wash with a bar of soap... then my penis started to become irritated ( I think it was that brand of soap). I talked to my urologist and general doctor and both told me that I probably shouldn't use soap there. Since then I have just rised my penis with running water when I shower. Soap is good for removing dirt and grime, both of which should not be present on the head of your penis.

I am sure that most of you use soap and will probably continue to do so... however, you might want to think about stopping. I was worried at first that I wouldn't be as clean as when I used soap, but in the years since then I have noticed no difference (exept the lack of irritation from strong soaps). Think about it is all I am saying--maybe ask your doctor what they think. :)
 

Epsil0n00

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<< I was thinking of getting that changed but my i talked to my dad about it and he said it can be quite painful. >>


Hell yeah it is! I have read so many accounts of people that chose to be circumcised and then really regretted it. Its pretty hard to go back once you cut it off... :(
 

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from my experience as an intact (uncircumcised) individual i must say, i couldn't imagine what it would be like to be unintact. more to the point, i couldn't imagine an intact person attempting any form of rape because dry sex is EXTREMELY painful.

anyway, both of my sons are intact. i have no intention of having them circumcised.
 

Mrfrog840

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i would love to be circumsised but i think the pain would almost be too much for me to handle...
people operating on your penis... bleh i cant even think about it
i have also heard about how women love uncircumcised men better because they get a bigger orgasm. I still cant decide whether to have it done. Is there any online accounts of men who have had it done. just wondering how much pain it was to them...

:confused:
 

Epsil0n00

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I did a lot of research on the subject (and sexuality in general) in college... however, I have a personal connection with the circumcision issue though. I am intact and always sort of wondered why it was that my parents chose not to have me circumcised. I wasn't interested in having it done, but just in knowing why my parents decided the way that they did. Also, it was odd growing up and being different than everyone else. It didn't bug me, but I wanted to know more about it. So, I began to study the subject and talk to people about it and found all of these really messed up reasons for why it is done. In the end it just didn't make sense to me, in fact it seems absurd and an act of violence towards our sons. I guess I just feel that hearing people talk about it open and honestly opened my eyes to the reality of the situation and I want to be here to help others see the truth as well... also, just to be informative and help people learn about their bodies/sexuality, which I think people need to be more in touch with (both mentaly and physically ;) ).
 

ScottyB

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So do uncircumsized people not have that red line running down your you know what?
 

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mrfrog

i knew someone who got circumcised at 18. it isn't the operation or recovery that is so painful. its getting used to constant direct contact between the penis and the underwear that is soo painful and that goes for a while.
 

Epsil0n00

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<< Is there any online accounts of men who have had it done. just wondering how much pain it was to them... >>


Yep, plenty of them. Go to that forum I mentioned (HERE) and start reading and asking questions. The circumcision surgery is even more complication and painful for post-adolescent men than it is for babies, due to how much the penis develops during your teenage years. There is also some risk associated with the surgery in terms of how it will heal and how long it will take you to be able to return to your normal sexual routines.

It is not true that circ'ed men have bigger orgasms. Ask the question over there and they will even give you measurements of the amount of liquid shot out, as proof.

I would recommend that you put that thought out of your mind and just enjoy your penis how it is supposed to be. If you want to mutilate yourself, you might try a ear piercing first--they hurt much less and will heal if you don't like it.
 

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As is often the case, the only comment I can think of is to tell an old joke...

A priest, a pastor, and a rabbi were all celebrating their 25th anniversary of service in a small town. The Catholic parish gave the Father a Cadillac. Upon seeing this, the Lutheran Church next door also gave its pastor a Cadillac. Not to be outdone, the synagogue next door gave its rabbi a Cadillac as well. This game of one-ups-manship continued as the Father loudly proclaimed that his car needed to be blessed, so he sprinkled holy water all over the car. The Lutheran pastor, not wanting to be overshadowed by what the priest had done, held a pot-luck supper to dedicate the car.

The rabbi, not wanting to be upstaged by the priest and the pastor doing something special for their cars, pondered the situation, then ran around to the back of his car and chopped an inch off the tailpipe.
 

Epsil0n00

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<< So do uncircumsized people not have that red line running down your you know what? >>


Their penis? Well... I don't know quite what that line is, but I'm intact and I have it and have wondered for a while what it is. I don't think that it is a blood vein, though many of those are visible. Hmmm... maybe I'll ask on the other forum and see what people think.

The line that we intact guys don't have is the lateral red scar line where our foreskins used to be... this scar line is located just below the rim of the head.
 

Epsil0n00

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here are some examples of methods used to perform circumcisions and what can go wrong with a circumcision.

NOTE* The links below contains pictures of penises and surgery.
Methods of Circumcision

Problematic Circumcisions

These pictures may not be very fun to look at with all the cutting and blood and stuff, but I figure that you should know either what you avoided or what you went through when you were a baby. It could change your thinking on this issue pretty quickly...
 

littleman

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so if ur uncut and your cleaning, you only pull the foreskin back to where it would be if you were circumsized, right? I'm kinda scared that the foreskin will get stuck if I pull it any further than that
 

yobarman

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are you talking about the line going all the way down the wang? i forget what it's called but it's on every penis, cut or not.
 

LukFilm

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<< so if ur uncut and your cleaning, you only pull the foreskin back to where it would be if you were circumsized, right? I'm kinda scared that the foreskin will get stuck if I pull it any further than that >>


Right. Don't worry about anything, you'll be alright :) Foreskin CANNOT get stuck.
 

Epsil0n00

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<< so if ur uncut and your cleaning, you only pull the foreskin back to where it would be if you were circumsized, right? I'm kinda scared that the foreskin will get stuck if I pull it any further than that. >>


Yep. Go ahead and pull it back... be gentle, you'll know when you can't pull it back any further. Just pull it back to the point where you can see all of the skin; that will do.

As for the line... yep, its the one going all the way along the underside (if you're looking down at your penis) of the penis. I am trying to figure out right now what it is called.
 

Epsil0n00

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<< Foreskin CANNOT get stuck. >>


Well.... this is not quite true. MOST of the time it will not get stuck... however, there is a rare condition that some people have where the opening of their foreskin (the diameter of the "frenar band") is too small. This condition is called "phimosis." It usually makes it so that the foreskin cannot be pulled back over the entire head because it will not open wide enough. If one has this condition and forces the foreskin back, the frenar band reduce in size under the rim of the head and the foreskin can effectively become stuck. In this case it is important to release it ASAP as it can cause damage and pain to leave it in that position. One can use ice to get the head to contact and shrink (ever jumped in a cold stream :D ) and soap to allow the foreskin to slide back over the head (like taking a ring off a finger). If someone has this condition they can treat it by using vitamin-e oil applied daily to the foreskin, which will allow it to stretch more. You must stretch it out little by little, day by day, and it will become very slowly wider to be able to function normally. It DOES NOT require surgery or circumcision, just patience, time and some vitamin E.
 

Nefrodite

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hehe cleanliness arguements:p maybe women would be "cleaner" if we hacked off their labia's at birth:) oh nice and smooth! err anyways, in europe its the norm.


and why was it the norm in america? we're controlled by the jews!! bwahahah!!! i kid:)

i think the number of circumsisions is growing less now.
 

LukFilm

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<< Foreskin CANNOT get stuck. >>


Well.... this is not quite true. MOST of the time it will not get stuck... however, there is a rare condition that some people have where the opening of their foreskin (the diameter of the "frenar band") is too small. This condition is called "phimosis." It usually makes it so that the foreskin cannot be pulled back over the entire head because it will not open wide enough. If one has this condition and forces the foreskin back, the frenar band reduce in size under the rim of the head and the foreskin can effectively become stuck. In this case it is important to release it ASAP as it can cause damage and pain to leave it in that position. One can use ice to get the head to contact and shrink (ever jumped in a cold stream :D ) and soap to allow the foreskin to slide back over the head (like taking a ring off a finger). If someone has this condition they can treat it by using vitamin-e oil applied daily to the foreskin, which will allow it to stretch more. You must stretch it out little by little, day by day, and it will become very slowly wider to be able to function normally. It DOES NOT require surgery or circumcision, just patience, time and some vitamin E.
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Well, I meant by not being able to get stuck the fact that I will always be able to be moved one way or another. Nevertheless, my friend had phimosis and he had to get a surgery when he was young. He was embarrassed to take showers with guys who were uncut because they made fun of him at times (this is in Europe and YES, cut penises look "funny" to us just like uncut look "funny" to you). Now he is enjoying the ability to last a long time. However, reading your reply, I'm not sure if that's a good thing. I think I'm changing my mind about wanting to be cut, something I'd never expect from a thread on ATOT...
 

Epsil0n00

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<< However, reading your reply, I'm not sure if that's a good thing. I think I'm changing my mind about wanting to be cut, something I'd never expect from a thread on ATOT...
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LukFilm~ Wow, that's really honest of you to admit. I strongly urge you to continue to read about the subject and people's experiences with being cut. Most of the people that were cut when they were born don't know the difference it makes... but on that forum you can talk to people that are in the midst of having the surgery done right now, are recovering, or had it done recently... as well as women's opinons on which they prefer, and their experiences. If your eyes were opened by what I have said, just wait... it is really shocking! I always figured, "hey, what's the big deal. So what." Well, after doing some reading you can see how firmly my beliefs have changed. Good luck!

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