why is virginity so important to some guys?

[A5]

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
I'm 23 and a virgin (have turned it down twice).

There's women at Tech? :Q

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: A5

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
I'm 23 and a virgin (have turned it down twice).

There's women at Tech? :Q

LOL! One was a Tech girl and the other was German.

Edit: But you're right...after four years there, I now wear "Tech goggles"

 

[BoberFett]

I wouldn't dump a girl who wasn't a virgin. But if she didn't let me stick in the back door now and then she'd be history.

 

[y2kc]

Tallgeese's post is completely on point. What is bugging me is the fact that your friend is allowing this perverted putz to pressure her in the first place. He sounds like he has some serious issues, and despite all of the warning signs she still thinks that he'll change??? She's as mental as he is.

This is about manipulation, humiliation and intimidation.... not love.

 

[Tallgeese]

Originally posted by: A5

Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
I'm 23 and a virgin (have turned it down twice).

There's women at Tech? :Q

[Austin Powers]
She's a man, BABY YEAH!
[/Austin Powers]

 

[TCPpacket]

lol, this thread is classic. i can just imagine the fool saying "let me stick it in the ass or you don't get a ride to school". hahaha.

 

[QTArrhythmic]

Originally posted by: BoberFett
I wouldn't dump a girl who wasn't a virgin. But if she didn't let me stick in the back door now and then she'd be history.

At least you're honest with her.

 

[Tallgeese]

Originally posted by: ScottyB
Well who wants a ho?

It's OK. Mommy will protect you from all those dirty sluts and Whores of Babylon...just you wait and see.

 

[Walleye]

dude, this is the most dissappointing thread i've seen today. first off, it's about some sick scenario.

anyway, my view on why i'd want a virgin in general.

im a germaphobe ( i am deathly afraid of diseases, venereal or otherwise. )

I maintain thatr i dont beleiove iun sex before marriage.

im morally opposed to porn. why shouldnt i be morally opposed to cheap sex in the same way?

and it sounds to me like both of these dipsh!ts are slutty idiots.

 

[ScottyB]

Originally posted by: Tallgeese

Originally posted by: ScottyB
Well who wants a ho?

It's OK. Mommy will protect you from all those dirty sluts and Whores of Babylon...just you wait and see.

So you like the whores and prostitutes hmmmmm? I should have known.

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: ScottyB

Originally posted by: Tallgeese

Originally posted by: ScottyB
Well who wants a ho?

It's OK. Mommy will protect you from all those dirty sluts and Whores of Babylon...just you wait and see.

So you like the whores and prostitutes hmmmmm? I should have known.

Well if non virgins are whores... more for me! Wheee!

 

[Tallgeese]

Originally posted by: ScottyB

Originally posted by: Tallgeese
It's OK. Mommy will protect you from all those dirty sluts and Whores of Babylon...just you wait and see.

So you like the whores and prostitutes

Not half as much as they TERRIFY you.

 

[Tallgeese]

Originally posted by: Jellomancer

Originally posted by: ScottyB
So you like the whores and prostitutes hmmmmm? I should have known.

Well if non virgins are whores... more for me! Wheee!

Very good summation of ScottyB's views on women...as he has so graciously outlined here on AT numerous times.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

If you have to ask the question, you won't understand the answer.

 

[Vampirrella]

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Pics?

rofl

 

[freebee]

After reading every post.....I am struck by how similar it is to my own thinking. I'm a carbon copy of that guy...except my girl's gotten it in the umm...backdoor before....i guess i can try the ears or something...but I don't think its going to fit.

I think about her ex's all the time...and all the things they've done to "my" baby....and its a difficult thing to think about. Its not so much the competition aspect that everyone brings up.....very hard to describe.

 

[freebee]

And curious question that may merit its own post if responses are favorable.....

How many partners is the average...say 24-25 yo been with?.....

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: y2kc
Tallgeese's post is completely on point. What is bugging me is the fact that your friend is allowing this perverted putz to pressure her in the first place. He sounds like he has some serious issues, and despite all of the warning signs she still thinks that he'll change??? She's as mental as he is.

This is about manipulation, humiliation and intimidation.... not love.

Thank you for posting this,it's refreshing to know that there are actually a few men posting on this board.

 

[StageLeft]

If you're a virgin it may be nice to have another virgin when you lose yours (unless you want somebody with "experience"), but I have to say that as you get older you realize it's less of an issue. Who cares what somebody did before? Unless she has slept with 70 guys chances are she isn't a whore carrying around a slew of diseases. She may have lost her virginity after 2 years with the same guy and just because your friend wasn't that guy too bad for his timing. He could be that guy the next time.

If he doesn't get over it now he will later. I cannot imagine a 28 year old virgin (yes they exist), for instance, who demands that he only finds another virgin to lose his virginity with. He'll be searching far and wide let me tell ya!

 

[her209]

If he wants to go where no one has been (I'm only assuming), he should have his gf use a strap-on and do him from behind.

Your friend needs to grow up. If he can't take the fact that she is not a virgin then why the fvck is he still going out with her. Slap his b!tcha$$.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: freebee
After reading every post.....I am struck by how similar it is to my own thinking. I'm a carbon copy of that guy...except my girl's gotten it in the umm...backdoor before....i guess i can try the ears or something...but I don't think its going to fit.

I think about her ex's all the time...and all the things they've done to "my" baby....and its a difficult thing to think about. Its not so much the competition aspect that everyone brings up.....very hard to describe.

Not for anything but why would you waste time thinking about people that she probably never gives a minute's thought to? Over the course of the day I probably think about my dude a dozen times,my ex's don't get free rent in my mind and I'm willing to bet your g/friend is the same way.

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
I am a 19 year old college student who is in fact a virgin (rare nowadays). I mean of course it would be nice to be the guy who "deflowers" a girl (i sound like my parents), but it shouldn't really matter. If you truly love somebody then it shouldn't matter how many times they've had sex. It's basically a minor form of discrimination. Its like saying you should feel guilty for being african-american when you are white. Kinda ironic on days of all days to post something like this (MLKJr. Day). That guy has some serious issues he needs to deal with. Sex isnt the be-all-end-all factor in a relationship. You don't want someone who will sleep with anything that moves, but to make a girl feel upset/guilty because she slept with a guy or two is just plain ridiculous. Thats my two cents.

Matt

*Sigh*... discrimination? Its not discrimination for something you can't change, like your race, age, gender, sexual preference, ethnicity, or Vietnam veteran-era status. Its feeling different about someone after they did something that no one forced them to. Lets say you are going out with a girl, and on the fifth date, she tells you she was convicted for armed robbery, escaped from jail, and is a fugitive. Did your opinion of her change based on what she has done before in her life.

All that said, your "friend's" b/f is an idiot and should go back to what he is good at, which is probably hamster felching.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Mookow

Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
I am a 19 year old college student who is in fact a virgin (rare nowadays). I mean of course it would be nice to be the guy who "deflowers" a girl (i sound like my parents), but it shouldn't really matter. If you truly love somebody then it shouldn't matter how many times they've had sex. It's basically a minor form of discrimination. Its like saying you should feel guilty for being african-american when you are white. Kinda ironic on days of all days to post something like this (MLKJr. Day). That guy has some serious issues he needs to deal with. Sex isnt the be-all-end-all factor in a relationship. You don't want someone who will sleep with anything that moves, but to make a girl feel upset/guilty because she slept with a guy or two is just plain ridiculous. Thats my two cents.

Matt

*Sigh*... discrimination? Its not discrimination for something you can't change, like your race, age, gender, sexual preference, ethnicity, or Vietnam veteran-era status. Its feeling different about someone after they did something that no one forced them to. Lets say you are going out with a girl, and on the fifth date, she tells you she was convicted for armed robbery, escaped from jail, and is a fugitive. Did your opinion of her change based on what she has done before in her life.

All that said, your "friend's" b/f is an idiot and should go back to what he is good at, which is probably hamster felching.

There's a little rule I try real hard to follow,saves me a lot of grief.. and that is "don't ask questions that you don't really want the answers to" I'd bet my next paycheck this dude probably doesn't understand this rule

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: FrustratedUser

Originally posted by: freesia39
no really tell me.

my friend has a boyfriend and he can't take the fact that she's not a virgin. he had this dream that he would only sleep with a virgin and is disappointed at times that she isn't a virgin. so he asks to do other things to compensate because he can't obviously go out and FIND a virgin to sleep with, mainly, um, to go from behind.

she doesn't want to do this. he gets mad because all he wants is a virgin "hole" just once. he keeps pressuring her, guilting her because she's not a virgin and if she loved him he would do this ONE thing to make him happy - let him go somewhere no one else has gone before. and even if she does it just once, he'll eventually want it again and again.

i say if he loves her he'd understand but he's still stuck in his virgin dream. then he threatens to not do things for her - not take her to buy groceries, give her rides places, etc. he still can't stand that she's slept with one other person - her ex bf whom she was with for over a year - and constantly annoys her about that, saying rude comments about him and the two of them together.

she doesn't want to leave him. she believes he can grow up someday and that it'll all be behind them but at the moment it's not going away.

why the hell can't guys be happy and are so damn fixated with having a virgin? shouldn't the act itself be important? whenever he says anything like that, it seems to just belittle the sex they have together already because he's not happy with it because she's not a virgin, even though he would deny that but to keep pushing that point makes it seem that way. perhaps he was just too sexually starved and made it too idealized for him after all the porn and strip clubs and what not.

i ask here because there are a lot of guys with so many different views on sex. so why?

He is afraid of being rated "2'nd best performance" by her.
ROTF!

You ever see that one ad, I think it was for the PS2, where a guy and a girl are lying in bed, and it shows the text "please enter your name" and the entry is for #4 out of the "Top 5 High Scores"?

 

[BigToque]

I'm kinda on the other side of the situation...

Me and my ex-gf lost our virginity to each other (i was 19 she was 18)(She was also my first girlfriend). We were together for 11 months, and broke up 3 months ago. Not as much now, but right after we broke up, one of my biggest concerns was always imagining "my girl" (I say it like that because thats kinda how I still felt for a while) having sex with some other guy and enjoying it more.

My problem has a lot to do with self-confidence and insecurity. I'm guessing that this is mostly what this guy is feeling. (Although it is a different situation).