Sounds like her bf is just being a selfish. Didn't he know that she wasn't virgin while they were just dating?
Was he a virgin when he met her? If he wasn't then he is a hypocrite.
Or maybe he has a small penis and can't bear the fact that someone with bigger
tool has been poking that pink taco before him.
Also, it's just wrong to use sex as a leverage to get back at someone, it is very childish behavior.
Was he a virgin when he met her? If he wasn't then he is a hypocrite.
Or maybe he has a small penis and can't bear the fact that someone with bigger
tool has been poking that pink taco before him.
Also, it's just wrong to use sex as a leverage to get back at someone, it is very childish behavior.
So I've been lurking a bit since last night... Hello everyone. 
Kranky is right on it. Print out his response and give it to your friend, freesia39. Sounds like the guy has serious issues to me, and he is just trying to project them on to her, and make it her fault for not being a virgin. I've been through something similar, and it isn't going to get any better unless she stands up for herself. And since they are just dating... why is she bothering with such a mean spirited person to begin with? She deserves better than someone who just wants to punish her.
And vi_edit, thanks for the best laugh I had all day. Funny thing is, that strategy can be effective in more ways than one....
Kranky is right on it. Print out his response and give it to your friend, freesia39. Sounds like the guy has serious issues to me, and he is just trying to project them on to her, and make it her fault for not being a virgin. I've been through something similar, and it isn't going to get any better unless she stands up for herself. And since they are just dating... why is she bothering with such a mean spirited person to begin with? She deserves better than someone who just wants to punish her.
And vi_edit, thanks for the best laugh I had all day. Funny thing is, that strategy can be effective in more ways than one....
obviously this guy is goin a little insane in the membrane about the whole situation...
but he feels like his virginity is the most precious gift you can give your loved one, like you have been saving it for the girl, because he thinks they should be together forever... and he feels like its a gift he should get in return.
unless the whole reason he wishes she was a virgin is completely sexual, rather than a symbol of purity, than he's messed up.
but he feels like his virginity is the most precious gift you can give your loved one, like you have been saving it for the girl, because he thinks they should be together forever... and he feels like its a gift he should get in return.
unless the whole reason he wishes she was a virgin is completely sexual, rather than a symbol of purity, than he's messed up.
Please don't pin this on all guys. Guys might might get mildly excited over being with a virgin. But any guy that demands it like this guy has serious issues and is not typical of most guys.
In my opinion, guys are attracted to virgins because:
1. You know you're special to the girl if you're the only one she had sex with.
2. Feeling of domination. "I took her cherry". Also the fact you're able to introduce a girl to sex and mold her to your sexual appetite.
3. Safety. No worrying about what else she's bringing to the party.
4. Helps the self-confidence. You know for a fact that you're the best she's ever had. Don't even have to ask.
I think the hole being small is pretty low on the list. A smaller girl, or a girl who hasn't had much sex, or any sex recently could be just as tight. I think that this guy wants the feeling of power in addition to other psychological problems.
The more self-confident a guy is, the less it matters if the girl is a virgin or how experienced she is.
In my opinion, guys are attracted to virgins because:
1. You know you're special to the girl if you're the only one she had sex with.
2. Feeling of domination. "I took her cherry". Also the fact you're able to introduce a girl to sex and mold her to your sexual appetite.
3. Safety. No worrying about what else she's bringing to the party.
4. Helps the self-confidence. You know for a fact that you're the best she's ever had. Don't even have to ask.
I think the hole being small is pretty low on the list. A smaller girl, or a girl who hasn't had much sex, or any sex recently could be just as tight. I think that this guy wants the feeling of power in addition to other psychological problems.
The more self-confident a guy is, the less it matters if the girl is a virgin or how experienced she is.
Originally posted by: notfred
Haha, you certainly know a lot about the intimate details of the sex file of your "friend".
THat's what i was thinking... friend huh?... riiiiight...
Originally posted by: Isla
So I've been lurking a bit since last night... Hello everyone.
Kranky is right on it. Print out his response and give it to your friend, freesia39. Sounds like the guy has serious issues to me, and he is just trying to project them on to her, and make it her fault for not being a virgin. I've been through something similar, and it isn't going to get any better unless she stands up for herself. And since they are just dating... why is she bothering with such a mean spirited person to begin with? She deserves better than someone who just wants to punish her.
And vi_edit, thanks for the best laugh I had all day. Funny thing is, that strategy can be effective in more ways than one....
Good to see you around Lady
I hope things are well with you
Cheers,
Aquaman
Originally posted by: Aquaman
Originally posted by: Isla
So I've been lurking a bit since last night... Hello everyone.
Kranky is right on it. Print out his response and give it to your friend, freesia39. Sounds like the guy has serious issues to me, and he is just trying to project them on to her, and make it her fault for not being a virgin. I've been through something similar, and it isn't going to get any better unless she stands up for herself. And since they are just dating... why is she bothering with such a mean spirited person to begin with? She deserves better than someone who just wants to punish her.
And vi_edit, thanks for the best laugh I had all day. Funny thing is, that strategy can be effective in more ways than one....
Good to see you around Lady
I hope things are well with you
Cheers,
Aquaman
Hey Isla
He sounds like an fvcking jerk whose got double standards. What a punk
MartyMcFly3
Lifer
edro... you can always change the past. Just have Doc Brown build you a time-traveling flying delorean... LOL i have got to stop watching back to the future.
Matt
Matt
I'm with you on that one, edro13. I don't know if he was a virgin to begin with, but I'm willing to bet he wanted to share that special moment with someone else that felt the same way. And then with her not being a virgin, he feels rather cheated that he wasn't able to share that special moment with him. So he tries to compensate with the first time with uh, other methods.....I think it's an issue of insecurity, with him not really believing that she loves him as much as she says she does, simply b/c she's slept with another guy in her past. With sex being the ultimate sign of love, and her giving that first time gift to someone else, it's hard not to feel like you're taking a backseat to your own relationship. Through time, he will grow out of it, and realize the past is the past, and she's just as able to love him as much as she loved his ex in the past. But with him being an asshat, he can forget it. Tell him to grow some balls and just trust her that she cares and loves him for who he is, not to mention she probably regrets sleeping with her ex anyway.
Hi Isla, glad to see you back.Originally posted by: Isla
So I've been lurking a bit since last night... Hello everyone.
why don't you just dump this guy? if you don't want to leave him after all this, then you must have issues with insecurity. i've had 3 girlfriends (including current one) who happened to be virgins. to be honest, it didn't matter to me a bit whether they were virgins or not, and i prefer sex with girls with some experience. virgins tend to be too clingy anyways.
Originally posted by: notfred
Haha, you certainly know a lot about the intimate details of the sex file of your "friend".
Haha! Good minds think alike!
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