Originally posted by: MichaelD
Doesn't anyone have any backbone anymore? It just seems that when faced with a problem; rent is due, drug addiction, marital problems...many people turn to "God" to help them solve all their problems.
Why doesn't the average Joe see that "God" is just an imaginary CRUTCH? If you want to quit drinking, only YOU CAN MAKE YOU QUIT DRINKING. If you want to stop beating your dog, ONLY YOU CAN MAKE YOU STOP BEATING THE DOG.
God won't save your marriage, pay the bills or wash your car. God also WILL NOT "give you the strength" to do any of the above.
If you're a weak person, admit you're weak and learn to be strong on your own. Leave The Good Book where it belongs; gathering dust in a seedy motel nightstand drawer.
You're making a huge assumption that religious folks rely on their faith as a "crutch" to solve their own problems. I'm not a deeply religious person, but as I see it, people seek God in the same way that they seek friends, family members, even pets. People take comfort in the fact that no matter how tough times are, those things are there for them, as "anchors."
Have you ever asked a friend for advice when you were in a bind? Maybe not to get a real answer, but just to get your thoughts out and maybe reflect on your problem? Some people use prayer in the same way. While you might find that "weak", I find it admirable in some ways. There are far worse ways of dealing with your problems than worship. Drinking and smoking will not "give you the strength", but they will make things hurt a little bit less. Those activities are escapes, while prayer is more reflective.
I like to consider myself strong willed and self sufficient. I usually don't seek God's help to give me the will power to make tough decisions. Others do. As long as one finds strength and motivation, who cares about the means by which he/she obtains it?