Until you stop pointing out differences as a bad thing people will never be the same. I guess I am fortunate because of how I was raised. We moved around a lot. I think I went to a different school every year till the last two years of high school. We lived everywhere from the very small towns, 700 people, to large cities 2-3 million people. I got to experience every culture from the deep south to the far north. The result is I hang out with any and every race. I have latino, black, korean , white, old young and everything in between for friends. I listen to every kind of music as well.
For me the true test of someone who is not racist is the ability to tell racial jokes to one another and not take offense from it and just laugh it off . All my friends and me do it to each other all the time, like when the forest fires were happening I made the comment to a black friend" You better not go into the woods near the fire, your hair with all that grease will catch fire", he laughed and said "And you would come out looking like me !" and I laughed. We didn't fly out in rage like people that are so hung upt on the "oh no, you said something racial" people do, we just laughed it off because we knew that we were good friends and race didn't matter. The fact that he was using some stuff on his hair at the time and that my skin was whiter than his wasn't trying to put any race down, it was just some things that were true at the time, but the pc police will scream that is an outrage !
People are always going to be different and that is a good thing .
The whole " I treat everyone the same " garbage is just that, nobody does. When was the last time you made breakfast for your neighbors wife ?