Why do so many people think money = women??

[ClarityZedd]

While personally I think women past 32 Y/O are old, sounds like you need to lower your standards. Would you take an 18 Y/O average looking woman with no kids? Hell, I would.

18 year old? hell no. Dude I'm looking for someone mature/established/responsible

I would want like a 27 year old who works in marketing and makes 70K a year for example.

 

[ClarityZedd]

Successful troll is successful.

paystub from last november - keep in mind I get about 30K a year from the manufacturer which doesn't show up in my W-2

How I look when I go out to bars/clubs

You know what's sad? If I went to gay bars, I would absolutely dominate like you wouldn't believe

Gay men are so much more appreciative of men than women are.

 

[Sonikku]

are you hot/fit/mid 20s/no kids/intelligent/professional job/genuinely great person and live near Chicago?


I live in a suburb 40 minutes from Chicago

Well, I certainly don't have kids!

 

[whm1974]

18 year old? hell no. Dude I'm looking for someone mature/established/responsible

I would want like a 27 year old who works in marketing and makes 70K a year for example.

So would I, but I'm realistic enough to know that I will have a snowball's chance in Hell of getting that. I live on less then 12K a year on disability.

 

[PJFrylar]

well, since trident hardly posts anymore, beggars can't be choosers

I think he's doing alright at least by a volume standpoint. He joined day of and managed to get a ridiculous thread rolling.

 

[ClarityZedd]

So would I, but I'm realistic enough to know that I will have a snowball's chance in Hell of getting that. I live on less then 12K a year on disability.

lol, damn man how do you manage to live on 12K a year?

shit I think I spend that on just vacations per year

 

[brianmanahan]

paystub from last november - keep in mind I get about 30K a year from the manufacturer which doesn't show up in my W-2

How I look when I go out to bars/clubs

You know what's sad? If I went to gay bars, I would absolutely dominate like you wouldn't believe

Gay men are so much more appreciative of men than women are.

ok this just got real, LOL

 

[PJFrylar]

Noice, paystub and pic posted, and I didn't even have to ask.

 

[ClarityZedd]

Well, I certainly don't have kids!

 

[whm1974]

lol, damn man how do you manage to live on 12K a year?

shit I think I spend that on just vacations per year

For one thing, I live in an SRO HUD apartment with cheap rent that has utility's included.

 

[brianmanahan]

Noice, paystub and pic posted, and I didn't even have to ask.

OP's like alky jr

 

[ClarityZedd]

ok this just got real, LOL

I couldn't stop the troll accusation nonsense until that point


I'm 100% honest with you guys

 

[Sonikku]

Did I mention I have an impressive Nintendo collection??

 

[ClarityZedd]

Did I mention I have an impressive Nintendo collection??

I used to love videogames

nowadays, I come home, go to the gym, then go to bed out of sheer exhaustion. Some nights I'll work 15 hours then workout for 2 hours and I'm so exhausted, I feel like a zombie

 

[AdamK47]

I'm 29 and I'm on track to make 185K this year while living in a relatively cheap area (you can buy a beautiful 3000 sqr foot house for 350K). I have all the trappings of success - 70,000 luxury sports sedan, a very nice house by myself (only dude in subdivision anywhere near my age), I dress super super sharp, I vacation 8 times a year and go out to the best bars/clubs/restaurants/concerts/sports events/festivals in the area.

I'm also not bad looking at all - I'm about a 7/10 realistically and clearly workout. Im maybe 5'10 195 and built sorta like an NFL linebacker. Heavily masculine features in the face. Don't get me wrong - I'm no male model but I'm way way above average. i have a great social circle.

...I have absolutely zero dating life. I occasionally have women approach me or make themselves available to me but they're always either 34+, have a kid or not that cute. The quality women- cute, in shape, decent job, decent personality, no kids, in their 20s - are insanely insanely hard to get. You pretty much have to be a male model to get the quality girls nowadays

So where does this nonsense come from that hot women fall over themselves to date you when you're successful?

It seems like you're in a prime position to put a lot of extra money into savings/investments. Do this instead of the women chasing thing.

I wish I knew what I know now 13 years ago.

 

[[DHT]Osiris]

are you hot/fit/mid 20s/no kids/intelligent/professional job/genuinely great person and live near Chicago?


I live in a suburb 40 minutes from Chicago

Yes, yes she is.

Btw, I'd like it to go on record that you wield the troll hook like Poseidon wields a trident. Like Aragorn with Andúril. It's majestic.

 

[ClarityZedd]

It seems like you're in a prime position to put a lot of extra money into savings/investments. Do this instead of the women chasing thing.

I wish I knew what I know now 13 years ago.

what's it gonna change honestly? You think I'm magically gonna fix my dating problem when I'm 35 and considered too old for a lot of 24-27 year old women by having more money in the bank or a bigger house?


Not to mention I'm very good at managing finances anyways. My house is 90% paid for, I put in the max allowed for my 401K, car is paid for, I have no debt. I'll retire by 45-50. Once my house is paid for, I'll be making 15-16K a month with only about 4000 a month in expenses

 

[deadlyapp]

I want something specific- a 22 to 29 year old girl, cute, fit but curvy, obviously single, decent job, no kids, intelligent, classy

the odds of any of my friends knowing somebody like that are slim to none and slim already left

As far as dating apps go, I'm sure you're having success on them but I strongly doubt you're going for same quality women I'm going for.

Actually - I'm almost exactly where you are, however I'm not in sales. I pretty much exclusively date girls who either are competitive runners, crossfitters, or olympic weightlifters, so body type is important. But I apparently have a personality where you do not - nor do I live a flashy life or throw around money like I'm something I'm not.

 

[madoka]

OP's like alky jr

To be fair to OP, Alky ended up marrying a Japanese grandmother, then later a mother with problem children. I don't think the OP would stoop that low.

 

[Humpy]

For example, I have tremendous knowledge in 8 or 9 different genres

If you say shit like that in real life you're going to have problems.

People think you are a douche bag.

 

[ClarityZedd]

Actually - I'm almost exactly where you are, however I'm not in sales. I pretty much exclusively date girls who either are competitive runners, crossfitters, or olympic weightlifters, so body type is important. But I apparently have a personality where you do not - nor do I live a flashy life or throw around money like I'm something I'm not.

I have plenty personality. Almost every woman who has gone out with me or spend any extended period of time with me has liked me quite a bit. Last year, I was seeing a beautiful 35 year old woman for 2 months and she was crazy about me. I tried to give it a chance to see if I could overcome the age and kids thing but I just couldn't

I don't throw money around...don't get me wrong, I'm very generous but I cut costs as much as I can. When I go out to bars and clubs, I usually pre game in the house before hand. I look for coupons...I buy cars used. I buy house that's below my means. I balance frugal and luxury very well in my humble opinion

My main problem is I just never get any dates with anybody halfway decent all around

 

[whm1974]

To be fair to OP, Alky ended up marrying a Japanese grandmother. I don't think the OP would stoop that low.

Well if she is like late 20's/early 30's, then I would.

 

[AdamK47]

what's it gonna change honestly? You think I'm magically gonna fix my dating problem when I'm 35 and considered too old for a lot of 24-27 year old women by having more money in the bank or a bigger house?


Not to mention I'm very good at managing finances anyways. My house is 90% paid for, I put in the max allowed for my 401K, car is paid for, I have no debt. I'll retire by 45-50. Once my house is paid for, I'll be making 15-16K a month with only about 4000 a month in expenses

Alright, yep. Troll thread officially certified.

 

[ClarityZedd]

If you say shit like that in real life you're going to have problems.

People think you are a douche bag.

I do though! hahaha

I know a lot about rock, metal, rap, country, techno/edm, etc....

 

[[DHT]Osiris]

I do though! hahaha

I know a lot about rock, metal, rap, country, techno/edm, etc....

Half those genres exist to make fun of posers like you