Why do so many people think money = women??

[Ns1]

I can respect the no kids rule. Somewhat depending upon age but they are gamechangers for a lot of people too.

except homie wants kids, just not kids that aren't his own.

 

[brianmanahan]

have you considered SEA?

 

[whm1974]

you're kidding right?

You want to take over being a stepdad of 2 kids? You want another man involved in your life forever?

No thank you

I'm 43 Y/O, so having a young woman 16 years younger then me that want to be with me might be worth the two kids.

 

[ClarityZedd]

I'm 43 Y/O, so having a young woman 16 years younger then me that want to be with me might be worth the two kids.

dude you're 43, I'm 29...not the same thing

I'm in the absolute peak of my life. I should have no problem finding a hot 26 year old GF

 

[ClarityZedd]

except homie wants kids, just not kids that aren't his own.

of course...thats common sense. Why would you want another man involved in your life??

 

[ClarityZedd]

Yeah, so now you have money. But personality wise, you're pretty much still that same person you were in high school. People don't change that much unless they really try to change themselves. Chasing a career won't do it.

I'm trying very hard for perfection in everything across the board

For example, I'm not happy unless I'm 7 to 9% bodyfat. If I can't see all my abs without flexing, it's a problem. I'm getting a hair transplant done because I have some minor recession in the temples (overall still have very dense hair black hair to go along with my olive skin)

that's the superficial stuff but I'm like that when it comes to character stuff also. I don't think I've ever said no to a friend in need. I still send a lot of money back home overseas to my family in Armenia. I think I'm a very good person - I'm very honest, considerate, supportive, unselfish, loyal, etc....

 

[shortylickens]

dude you're 43, I'm 29...not the same thing

I'm in the absolute peak of my life. I should have no problem finding a hot 26 year old GF

It seems to me you think women are toys or trophies or rewards that you "deserve". Not another human being with its own brain and feelings and ideas. Thats fine, but quit whining about it. Go out and buy a piece of meat and stop worrying about what random internet strangers think of you.

OR, fucking listen to people and think about what they're saying. Maybe approach women as if they were humans and try treating them human. Stop trying waver in between the two mindsets.

Remember what Mr. Miyagi said. "Walk down right side road, fine. Walk down left side road, fine. Walk down middle? Squish!"

 

[Braznor]

Mail Order Brides.

 

[ClarityZedd]

It seems to me you think women are toys or trophies or rewards that you "deserve". Not another human being with its own brain and feelings and ideas. Thats fine, but quit whining about it. Go out and buy a piece of meat and stop worrying about what random internet strangers think of you.

OR, fucking listen to people and think about what they're saying. Maybe approach women as if they were humans and try treating them human. Stop trying waver in between the two mindsets.

Remember what Mr. Miyagi said. "Walk down right side road, fine. Walk down left side road, fine. Walk down middle? Squish!"

I want a woman who will be my best friend. I care just as much about personality/character as anything else. I want somebody who is big into family values, loves kids, is super loyal, affectionate, loving, etc...

Honestly, my problem is I just don't get an opportunity to showcase what I am all about. I've been on very few dates in my life but the vast vast majority of those women were crazy about me. I've maybe gone out on a date with 12 women in my life and 9 of the 12 wanted to date me long term and they were crazy about me. The problem is none of the 12 were anywhere close to what I want - too old, had kids, not cute enough, etc...

I can make people feel very comfortable around me.

 

[zinfamous]

I'm also not bad looking at all - I'm about a 7/10 realistically and clearly workout. Im maybe 5'10 195 and built sorta like an NFL linebacker. Heavily masculine features in the face. Don't get me wrong - I'm no male model but I'm way way above average. i have a great social circle.

Found the problem. 5'10" is bad enough, but you and I and everyone else knows that "maybe" 5'10" means more like 5'7".

You aren't even a manlet. You're actually jealous of manlets. Ain't no lady wants to deal with a man shorter than her, sorry.

Just ask shorty.

 

[zinfamous]

WTF is this thread.
Is this a joke or what?

The return of alkemyst, irony addition?

 

[ClarityZedd]

Found the problem. 5'10" is bad enough, but you and I and everyone else knows that "maybe" 5'10" means more like 5'7".

You aren't even a manlet. You're actually jealous of manlets. Ain't no lady wants to deal with a man shorter than her, sorry.

Just ask shorty.

I'm almost exactly 5'10.25

the maybe is more about the weight - I might be closer to 200 nowadays...but I'm very very muscular. Look sorta like an NFL linebacker or running back. I avoid the meathead/musclehead look because I dress very nice...slight European flair to how I dress. I wear a lot of high end Jared Lange button downs

Basically my image is a cross between meathead and more of the classic GQ/model look in terms of physique/fashion/grooming/etc...

I should mention I don't want a woman unless she is heavily into working out. I realistically want somebody who looks like this

babe image removed



I need someone in shape but still has lots of curves

 

[brianmanahan]

oh man

 

[MrSquished]

LOLOLOL

 

[Tweak155]

hot girl at a gym with headphones on (99% of them never want to be approached) or hot girl at a bar with 8 of her friends there

explain to me how you approach in that situation without it being horribly awkward and excruciating?

Can't tell if you're trolling quite yet, this sounds like the great return of Alkemyst but just in case you're not ...

This quote is where your problem is. How perfect did your first car sale go? Probably not the best... but you do it a few times it becomes easy and natural. Just step up and quit being a whiny baby, stumble and fumble through the awkwardness until you adjust to it. It will get easier.

 

[Sonikku]

I'm 29 and I'm on track to make 185K this year while living in a relatively cheap area (you can buy a beautiful 3000 sqr foot house for 350K). I have all the trappings of success - 70,000 luxury sports sedan, a very nice house by myself (only dude in subdivision anywhere near my age), I dress super super sharp, I vacation 8 times a year and go out to the best bars/clubs/restaurants/concerts/sports events/festivals in the area.

I'm also not bad looking at all - I'm about a 7/10 realistically and clearly workout. Im maybe 5'10 195 and built sorta like an NFL linebacker. Heavily masculine features in the face. Don't get me wrong - I'm no male model but I'm way way above average. i have a great social circle.

Call me.

 

[ClarityZedd]

Can't tell if you're trolling quite yet, this sounds like the great return of Alkemyst but just in case you're not ...

This quote is where your problem is. How perfect did your first car sale go? Probably not the best... but you do it a few times it becomes easy and natural. Just step up and quit being a whiny baby, stumble and fumble through the awkwardness until you adjust to it. It will get easier.

customers come into car dealerships looking to buy a car. It's incredibly easy. If I talk to 50 people in a month, I'll sell 40 of them. I'm crazy efficient

Women don't go anywhere to find a man unless they're old/not cute/not in shape/single moms. Cute childless women my age have 23593205235235235 billion options. They're not going anywhere to find a man. They're beating the men off with a stick...that's why approaching them is excruciatingly difficult.

Between me and you, I'm not one of those people who believes dating is super easy for all women. Average looking women, older women, women who are a little chunky, women who have kids, etc... are all mostly very reasonable in their standards and put in plenty of work to find someone and make the process pretty simple and easy. My problem is I want the top class of the female gender and those have nearly impossible standards/just too many options so they never put in any work towards dating. It makes the process brutally difficult.

 

[ClarityZedd]

Call me.

are you hot/fit/mid 20s/no kids/intelligent/professional job/genuinely great person and live near Chicago?


I live in a suburb 40 minutes from Chicago

 

[Tweak155]

customers come into car dealerships looking to buy a car. It's incredibly easy. If I talk to 50 people in a month, I'll sell 40 of them. I'm crazy efficient

Women don't go anywhere to find a man unless they're old/not cute/not in shape/single moms. Cute childless women my age have 23593205235235235 billion options. They're not going anywhere to find a man. They're beating the men off with a stick...that's why approaching them is excruciatingly difficult.

Between me and you, I'm not one of those people who believes dating is super easy for all women. Average looking women, older women, women who are a little chunky, women who have kids, etc... are all mostly very reasonable in their standards and put in plenty of work to find someone and make the process pretty simple and easy. My problem is I want the top class of the female gender and those have nearly impossible standards/just too many options so they never put in any work towards dating. It makes the process brutally difficult.

Well between me and you (and the internet), you didn't answer my question and you also missed my point.

How good were you selling your 10th car vs your first car? Your 100th car vs your 10th car? If you didn't get any better since your first car, you must just use violence.

 

[brianmanahan]

My problem is I want the top class of the female gender and those have nearly impossible standards

/thread

 

[whm1974]

customers come into car dealerships looking to buy a car. It's incredibly easy. If I talk to 50 people in a month, I'll sell 40 of them. I'm crazy efficient

Women don't go anywhere to find a man unless they're old/not cute/not in shape/single moms. Cute childless women my age have 23593205235235235 billion options. They're not going anywhere to find a man. They're beating the men off with a stick...that's why approaching them is excruciatingly difficult.

Between me and you, I'm not one of those people who believes dating is super easy for all women. Average looking women, older women, women who are a little chunky, women who have kids, etc... are all mostly very reasonable in their standards and put in plenty of work to find someone and make the process pretty simple and easy. My problem is I want the top class of the female gender and those have nearly impossible standards/just too many options so they never put in any work towards dating. It makes the process brutally difficult.

While personally I think women past 32 Y/O are old, sounds like you need to lower your standards. Would you take an 18 Y/O average looking woman with no kids? Hell, I would.

 

[Red Storm]

I didn't even pay attention to OP's join date and post count. This guy is just a (manlet) troll.

 

[brianmanahan]

I'm 43 Y/O

While personally I think women past 32 Y/O are old

lollllll holy crap this thread

 

[PJFrylar]

Successful troll is successful.

 

[brianmanahan]

Successful troll is successful.

well, since trident hardly posts anymore, beggars can't be choosers