Why do so many people think money = women??

[brianmanahan]

women don't want a guy who posts relationship threads in OT

 

[homebrew2ny]

If you have no other redeeming qualities, poor looks, no personality, smelly, ect... 185k yearly is not money = woman coin.

Sorry...

 

[ultimatebob]

Yeah, the OP's standards are too high. He's gotta start dating some fatties and a few MILF's. Just don't marry one unless you're certain that they aren't crazy.

 

[brianmanahan]

being alone forever might not be so bad

 

[PricklyPete]

You’re basis for what attracts girls is way off...especially quality girls.

The fact that you think girls “ approach you” or “make themselves available” shows that you are a 29 year old pseudo virgin.

 

[ClarityZedd]

I'd bet dollars to donuts you look, talk, and act, exactly like a car salesman.

Also, you're phenomenally conceited.

I'm giving a 4:1 odds on you not actually having worked for what you've earned either. I don't mean you didn't sell cars, I mean you didn't have to work for it. Given that, you don't know what trying means, nor do you know how to understand humility through failure.

I don't work for it? what the hell?

Don't get me wrong, I'm one of the best closers at my job in the state and maybe in country but I still get turned down maybe 30% of the time. I work my ass off to make money I make

long hours, lots of stress, lots of nonsense

 

[ClarityZedd]

Yeah, the OP's standards are too high. He's gotta start dating some fatties and a few MILF's. Just don't marry one unless you're certain that they aren't crazy.

I was seeing a very beautiful 35 year old woman last year who was very very heavily into me but she had 2 kids. She was a wonderful person too

I know I wouldn't be happy with that long term. I need to date someone a couple years younger than me with no baggage

 

[Carson Dyle]

How much did you date in high school?

Have you ever had a girlfriend?

 

[Captante]

Do you not bathe or something?


Seriously though having money can get you a certain type of woman but they're not likely to be the kind you want get into anything serious with.

At the other extreme of course if you are completely incapable of taking care of yourself most worthwhile women are not going to hang around either.

 

[whm1974]

Do you not bathe or something?


Seriously though having money can get you a certain type of woman but they're not likely to be the kind you want get into anything serious with.

At the other extreme of course if you are completely incapable of taking care of yourself most worthwhile women are not going to hang around either.

Well the OP could just go for ram, bam, thank you mam.

 

[Captante]

Well the OP could just go for ram, bam, thank you mam.

Never said the type of women attracted to ...erm... generosity couldn't make for a fun time!

 

[snoopy7548]

By the time you hit your late 20s, all the single people without kids are either not single or have kids. You probably should have thought of this when you were like 20 or 21. The pond is all fished out. But don't fear... just give it maybe 5 years and all the hot 40-45 year old women will come flocking to you.

I hear the sex doll industry is making excellent advances in realism. You could customize your girlfriend...?

 

[MagnusTheBrewer]

I was seeing a very beautiful 35 year old woman last year who was very very heavily into me but she had 2 kids. She was a wonderful person too

I know I wouldn't be happy with that long term. I need to date someone a couple years younger than me with no baggage

Just going from your posts but, it appears you have zero empathy. Car salesman, good "closer," looking for a 24 year old or younger woman who has it all together. They're rare but, they're out there. The thing is they're way too focused for a relationship if you're not in their immediate sphere. What you need to do is step out of your comfort zone and participate in groups/clubs that are totally out of character.

 

[paperfist]

why kill myself to strive for success in all the areas of my life to date a single mom or a woman who is 30 lbs overweight?

It's like chasing your tail isn't it? Those 'fat, old, women with kids' want you, but you won't give them a chance. And the 20 something hotties don't want you cause to them your a 'fat, old man'

 

[ClarityZedd]

How much did you date in high school?

Have you ever had a girlfriend?

I was a fat loser in high school

after high school, I pushed myself obsessively hard for self perfection...I wanted to make a ton of money, have an awesome physique, have an amazing lifestyle, great friends...I've accomplished everything but I still can't find a girlfriend who is close to what I want

 

[ClarityZedd]

It's like chasing your tail isn't it? Those 'fat, old, women with kids' want you, but you won't give them a chance. And the 20 something hotties don't want you cause to them your a 'fat, old man'

the too old/have kids/overweight is not an all 3 in 1 thing

I've had very attractive women who were too old who wanted me (I consider 35 to 38 too old...I'm looking to start a family)

I've had beautiful single moms who wanted me. This 27 year old Spanish girl who was gorgeous was very heavily into me but she had 2 kids

I'm not looking for a 20 year old...ideally I want like 25 26 maybe 27

 

[snoopy7548]

I was a fat loser in high school

after high school, I pushed myself obsessively hard for self perfection...I wanted to make a ton of money, have an awesome physique, have an amazing lifestyle, great friends...I've accomplished everything but I still can't find a girlfriend who is close to what I want

What do you do in your spare time? That's what makes you you. Money, an awesome physique, a great lifestyle (What is that? Party/club all the time? Extravagant vacations?), great friends... those aren't what make you you. They're superficial things that wear off quickly - maybe not the friends part, but when it's just you and another person alone, are you going to talk about your friends? Do you volunteer in your town to help poor families? Do you organize events? Are you a woodworker who creates beautiful furniture? Do you paint? Do you write? Do you enjoy any sports or activities like martial arts or yoga?

 

[ClarityZedd]

What do you do in your spare time? That's what makes you you. Money, an awesome physique, a great lifestyle (What is that? Party/club all the time? Extravagant vacations?), great friends... those aren't what make you you. They're superficial things that wear off quickly - maybe not the friends part, but when it's just you and another person alone, are you going to talk about your friends? Do you volunteer in your town to help poor families? Do you organize events? Are you a woodworker who creates beautiful furniture? Do you paint? Do you write? Do you enjoy any sports or activities like martial arts or yoga?

I like sports
videogames
music
movies
tv shows
working out
cooking/grilling

it's basic stuff but I go into tremendous depth in all of them. For example, I have tremendous knowledge in 8 or 9 different genres

 

[Exterous]

I thought maybe Tridentboy until I got to the bolded part.

5'10" = manlet

That's your problem right there.

Yep.


This thread can help…

https://forums.anandtech.com/threads/how-amazing-is-it-to-be-tall.2539889/

I am saddened it took so long to point out the OPs problem but props to you guys for pointing it out.

Ive never had the OPs problem but then Im 6'2" so thats not really a surprise.

 

[snoopy7548]

I like sports
videogames
music
movies
tv shows
working out
cooking/grilling

it's basic stuff but I go into tremendous depth in all of them. For example, I have tremendous knowledge in 8 or 9 different genres

I think online dating would work for you. It's really the way to do it in the 21st century.

 

[whm1974]

the too old/have kids/overweight is not an all 3 in 1 thing

I've had very attractive women who were too old who wanted me (I consider 35 to 38 too old...I'm looking to start a family)

I've had beautiful single moms who wanted me. This 27 year old Spanish girl who was gorgeous was very heavily into me but she had 2 kids

I'm not looking for a 20 year old...ideally I want like 25 26 maybe 27

I think you are really picky. I would had jumped on the 27 Y/O Spanish girl, so what if she had two kids...

 

[ClarityZedd]

I think you are really picky. I would had jumped on the 27 Y/O Spanish girl, so what if she had two kids...

you're kidding right?

You want to take over being a stepdad of 2 kids? You want another man involved in your life forever?

No thank you

 

[Carson Dyle]

I was a fat loser in high school

after high school, I pushed myself obsessively hard for self perfection...I wanted to make a ton of money, have an awesome physique, have an amazing lifestyle, great friends...I've accomplished everything but I still can't find a girlfriend who is close to what I want

Yeah, so now you have money. But personality wise, you're pretty much still that same person you were in high school. People don't change that much unless they really try to change themselves. Chasing a career won't do it.

 

[MrSquished]

I think you are really picky. I would had jumped on the 27 Y/O Spanish girl, so what if she had two kids...

I can respect the no kids rule. Somewhat depending upon age but they are gamechangers for a lot of people too.

 

[ClarityZedd]

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