^ Yep it's sad, I sometimes wonder if they even do get recycled at all.  At my work place my boss and coworker were just doing some misc building cleanup stuff on a slow day, one of those gray areas outside of job description, but stuff that never got done and was suppose to so they said screw it, let's just do it.  They had like 40+ neon tubes to dispose of and went to the dump and ask if they have a special place for them, they said nope, just throw it with regular trash.  They were kinda stumped at this level of incompetence. I don't know what they ended up doing with the bulbs.  
Another time someone I know changes his own motor oil and went to the dump, there's a place to dispose of it, but there's a ridiculous limit, like 2 litres.  The attendant suggested he just put it in a glass jar and go burry it somewhere.  WTF?