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...man what a perdicament you're in idnut.... I think biil n opus really set it straight for you man. He was thinking about YOU when he wrote the reply. Not the girl, p*ssy, or whatever. Get yourself together man. I was chubby in HS, I never went on dates, just succombed to my issues and became intorverted and intolerable. I began to take music lessons, joined a band to get some direction and some well need music therapy. Well that helped me get the self esteem and motivation to work out; lose the extra 40 pounds I was lugging around. And like Bill n opus, I went to the beach last summer and I REALLY got a different reaction compared to what it was in the previous years. I think self confidence is what is needed to get you in the norm, and achieve personal goals. If you like what YOU see in the mirror, you'll feel better and try to exend that feeling as long as possible. Also try and meet different girls who you don't want to "save" from their troubled life. Only brings more trouble for you.
how is your programming project going?
you're young and I'm guessing this is your first love. You'll get over it in time. You're just blindsided now.
In my years I've learned not to interfere with someone's problems unless they ask for help and don't offer help unless it is something small like "I don't have time to go to the post office to mail this letter"
you're young and I'm guessing this is your first love. You'll get over it in time. You're just blindsided now.
In my years I've learned not to interfere with someone's problems unless they ask for help and don't offer help unless it is something small like "I don't have time to go to the post office to mail this letter"
Pastfinder
Platinum Member
Okay, get bitten by some genetically altered spider, put on a really tight spandex oufit and then go get her. Worked in the movies...
darkjester
Golden Member
...just wanted to quote a response to get my post count up by one. 😉
edit: Fixed a typo.
Pincherman
Member
Thank you Shawshank!
Seriously I dont think he will be happy even if he gets her. if he works out and gets her, then he will always be wondering is it me or my physical appearance which will lead to another depression. he just seems to be the kinda person that has to have soemthing in his life to be depressed about. Sorry if i make you feel bad but thats just the way your coming across. u seem to seek solice in ur feeling of depression. Basically you say you hate yourself and thats an easy way out. If i only wasnt this and if i only wasnt that. Then when advice is offered to you ..well i dont care about sex that much so i dont have to work out.
You have set lofty goals for yourself but are unwilling to perform the small tasks and accomplish the lesser goals you need to reach these heights. You need to figure out exactly what is it thats keeping you from flying, right now your content to want and to daydream, accept the fact life isnt fair and get up and do what you know has to be done, and stop hiding behind the skirt of depression and excuses.
You have set lofty goals for yourself but are unwilling to perform the small tasks and accomplish the lesser goals you need to reach these heights. You need to figure out exactly what is it thats keeping you from flying, right now your content to want and to daydream, accept the fact life isnt fair and get up and do what you know has to be done, and stop hiding behind the skirt of depression and excuses.
Alright fvcka's, you've actually motivated me to do something about my obseity. I got me and two other friends that're going to take me weight lifting with them every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. People say I have a lot of mass and it'd be better that I try to turn it into muscle rather than just losing it completely. I presently weigh about 230lbs and I'm looking to get down to 180lbs or 190lbs. Not so much for girls but because I have soooooooooo many gaming shirts that I've grown out of and I've spend a fortune on getting that I won't let go to waste.
So there, the beatings have finally did something good, I guess. One thing that I'm kicking myself for is that that girl was very depressed I believed today and I just didn't have the balls to talk to her. I seriously couldn't even look at her. I actually never talk to her but rather one of her best friends who is male. I'll say something to him and she'll ask him what I said or if she hears through my mumbling, she'll comment on it. But I can't talk to her for some strange reason, I'm just a big p*ssy, period.
Ah, another thing. I totally fvcked up my Uranium speech today! I had a mental breakdown 2 minutes into it where I started cussing, threw my notecards and walked out of the room from how terrible the speech was going. My heart started hurting from the anxiety so I went down to the counselor who calmed me down. It's been a rough week.
So there, the beatings have finally did something good, I guess. One thing that I'm kicking myself for is that that girl was very depressed I believed today and I just didn't have the balls to talk to her. I seriously couldn't even look at her. I actually never talk to her but rather one of her best friends who is male. I'll say something to him and she'll ask him what I said or if she hears through my mumbling, she'll comment on it. But I can't talk to her for some strange reason, I'm just a big p*ssy, period.
Ah, another thing. I totally fvcked up my Uranium speech today! I had a mental breakdown 2 minutes into it where I started cussing, threw my notecards and walked out of the room from how terrible the speech was going. My heart started hurting from the anxiety so I went down to the counselor who calmed me down. It's been a rough week.
Yes, you're right. Say I did go out with her, I'd just be worrying about when it'd come to the end. I'm just a very depressed person, I think that's the only way to put it. Sometimes I don't feel I deserve to be happy because of sins or such and believe I should spend my entire life expiating.
WinkOsmosis
Banned
Weightlifting won't make you lose weight. You have to use energy to burn fat.
Not necessarily.... I think what many of our peers are saying is that he needs a woman so he can get out of his self-induced misery. I was in that same stage before I had my frist girlfriend; I was totally hooked on one girl and was endlessly depressed. Once you finally hook up with that first girl, your whole world changes. You suddenly feel like a superhero and you have the confidence to do anything.
Thus, "you need to get laid" doesnt necessarily mean sex, per se. Just that he needs to get out of this rut he is in.
Before you begin lifting, you need some cardio. You need to run for 25-30 minutes each day at a speed high enough to get your heart rate into a zone where fat is burned. For the first 20 minutes of cardio, your body only burns up sugars. Thereafter, it burns off fat. I have been doing this for the past two weeks (running 6.5 mph on the treadmill for 25-30 mins, depending on how painful my shin splitns are) and i've already lost 7 pounds.
Of course, you dont seem like you've had much physical activity in your life so you may need to start slow. But I think it's important to start with cardio and then start building muscle by hitting the weights.
If you go to a gym, see if you can get a personal fitness consultation.
Goosemaster
Lifer
A similar pining-incident occurred between someone and myself on the railway the other day...
You need to work them abs bro. The once you get the rock solid abs like Sly Stallone, the girls will be yours for the keepings! Just make sure that you protect yourself, and don't get an ego! That sucks!
Oh.. and when you transform into the new you, make sure that you send pics of that Hawaii vacation that you'll go to with your hot model girlfriend!
WE WANT PICS!
🙂
Oh.. and when you transform into the new you, make sure that you send pics of that Hawaii vacation that you'll go to with your hot model girlfriend!
WE WANT PICS!
🙂
acidvoodoo
Platinum Member
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