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Grades are in the process of going up but what I like to do is get my grades up and have everything going smooth and then get really depressed for no apparent reason. This girl has got me crying and the self-pity brought on by that is just fabulous. (I know I'm gonna regret saying that but oh well 🙂)
brunswickite
Diamond Member
i was just bout to 🙂
WinkOsmosis
Banned
Yes you are fat. No use denying that. Now get to work and lose those pounds, then get laid.
pillage2001
Lifer
Those people can shoot themselves. 🙂
Three quotes that came to mind...
"While we are postponing, life speeds by."
- Seneca (3BC - 65AD)
"He who hesitates is a damned fool."
- Mae West
"I would have made a good Pope."
- Richard M. Nixon
Okay, so the last one didn't make sense in context, but think about the first two. BTW, it's probably a really bad idea to try and get involved with someone that has a polar opposite lifestyle. Not to mention, getting involved with someone that is isn't drinking and drugs, while you are not, is probably not a good idea either.
"While we are postponing, life speeds by."
- Seneca (3BC - 65AD)
"He who hesitates is a damned fool."
- Mae West
"I would have made a good Pope."
- Richard M. Nixon
Okay, so the last one didn't make sense in context, but think about the first two. BTW, it's probably a really bad idea to try and get involved with someone that has a polar opposite lifestyle. Not to mention, getting involved with someone that is isn't drinking and drugs, while you are not, is probably not a good idea either.
You hate yourself if you choose to.
Think life sucks? Do something different.
Talk to some new people in your class.
Try listening to some different music.
Do things you normally wouldn't do (such as not posting on ATOT or playing a game)
It's hard to change yourself when you don't do anything to try to make the situation better. Life isn't all about school. Life isn't all about girls; despite what some people will tell you. Have fun, but take your studies seriously.
Posting about how you hate yourself doesn't make you feel better, does it?
-silver
Well something you will learn is that people don't like hearing others whine about their problems all the time. Everyone has their own problems.
I'm not saying it's wrong every once in a while to seek some sympathy, but it seems like every post you make you are putting yourself down.
I read it and it made a lot of sense. Wanting to change is the real medication but when I'm knocked down I fall back into my hole and it's not easy to be pulled out of that. I do have some kick @ss dreams I'd like to accomplish but they only want to roam in my mind. I appreciate your feedback.
billandopus
Platinum Member
Alright, i'm going to be brutally honest with you.
You seem very intelligent (am I going out on a limb here?) and you obviously have insight on the matter vis a vis your position with this particular girl. She seems to relate to you at least on a simple social level. You obviously want this very "undeveloped" relationship to possibly go further.
When a girl talks to you but doesn't seem that overly physically attracted - you need to address this. Now!
Women appreciate intelligence, compassion, a shoulder to cry on, the ability to navigate the internet and increase post counts on AT ... and all that freakin' crap.
After she appreciates your buff body, rugged good looks attained by going to the gym regularly, decent clothes and decent cologne coupled a few parts of arrogance, confidence and daring.
Believe that. Become fully developed in all areas of your life and you will get laid all you want. Have all the relationships you want and have the pick of the women.
From my personal story, I used to be physically active but I was also friendly, compassionate ... the usual "nice guys finish last" routine. I had many close friends that were female but I never got further towards the physical. I was semi-happy this way because most guys have lots to do in life like school, work and play.
In any case, I said to myself "Screw it." I took advice from a friend of mine who was always popular with the girls and he told me what was up and what I needed to do.
So, I started going to the gym with a purpose and I became immersed into lifting and quasi-amateur bodybuilding and personal training while also maintaing all my other qualities.
After a year of transforming myself and being able to walk around the beach with broad shoulders, biceps and a flat stomach ... something I could never do before because I didn't have the goods and self confidence ... I began noticing that women were becoming much more friendlier and outgoing and forward with me.
Well, fortunately or unfortunately, I met my soon-to-be wife at work and we became hot and heavy real quick and I was never able to play the field - for better or for worse.
The thing is: women won't admit what we all know. They say crap like they want to find a guy with xxx qualities like humour, senstivity and nonsense like that. The God-awful truth is that they are physically attracted first and then you lock them in with your other qualities that you already had. It's like food, the Japanese always say that you eat with your eyes first before you eat with your mouth. If it looks good then it will help the taste.
This isn't baloney, it's sociologically proven. Some social anthropologists have studied this and have concluded that it's in our genetic code to find the potential mate that will give a woman the greatest chance to provide superior offspring and quality of life. Satisfy this inherent requirement and you will get laid as much as you want.
There, I said it. Take for what it's worth.
Do what you gotta do and then get some p*ssy. The typical "ahole" types that get all the women don't care if you can type code for hours on end, install a quad boot system in 10 minutes or mod a non-pro Radeon 9500 to 9700 levels. Those ahole types are typically lacking in other qualities ... but what they have satisfies the intial wants and desires of women and that's why they are able to advance through the initial stages of a relationship.
This could be you.
HTH.
WinkOsmosis
Banned
Be thankful that you're not one of the 70% of the world that can't even afford a computer.
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