Originally posted by: bill_n_opus
Originally posted by: idNut
Who wants to kick me in the balls? Got a straight shot, oh wait, I don't have any!
Alright, i'm going to be brutally honest with you.
You seem very intelligent (am I going out on a limb here?) and you obviously have insight on the matter vis a vis your position with this particular girl. She seems to relate to you at least on a simple social level. You obviously want this very "undeveloped" relationship to possibly go further.
When a girl talks to you but doesn't seem that overly physically attracted - you need to address this. Now!
Women appreciate intelligence, compassion, a shoulder to cry on, the ability to navigate the internet and increase post counts on AT ... and all that freakin' crap.
After she appreciates your buff body, rugged good looks attained by going to the gym regularly, decent clothes and decent cologne coupled a few parts of arrogance, confidence and daring.
Believe that. Become fully developed in all areas of your life and you will get laid all you want. Have all the relationships you want and have the pick of the women.
From my personal story, I used to be physically active but I was also friendly, compassionate ... the usual "nice guys finish last" routine. I had many close friends that were female but I never got further towards the physical. I was semi-happy this way because most guys have lots to do in life like school, work and play.
In any case, I said to myself "Screw it." I took advice from a friend of mine who was always popular with the girls and he told me what was up and what I needed to do.
So, I started going to the gym with a purpose and I became immersed into lifting and quasi-amateur bodybuilding and personal training while also maintaing all my other qualities.
After a year of transforming myself and being able to walk around the beach with broad shoulders, biceps and a flat stomach ... something I could never do before because I didn't have the goods and self confidence ... I began noticing that women were becoming much more friendlier and outgoing and forward with me.
Well, fortunately or unfortunately, I met my soon-to-be wife at work and we became hot and heavy real quick and I was never able to play the field - for better or for worse.
The thing is: women won't admit what we all know. They say crap like they want to find a guy with xxx qualities like humour, senstivity and nonsense like that. The God-awful truth is that they are physically attracted first and then you lock them in with your other qualities that you already had. It's like food, the Japanese always say that you eat with your eyes first before you eat with your mouth. If it looks good then it will help the taste.
This isn't baloney, it's sociologically proven. Some social anthropologists have studied this and have concluded that it's in our genetic code to find the potential mate that will give a woman the greatest chance to provide superior offspring and quality of life. Satisfy this inherent requirement and you will get laid as much as you want.
There, I said it. Take for what it's worth.
Do what you gotta do and then get some p*ssy. The typical "ahole" types that get all the women don't care if you can type code for hours on end, install a quad boot system in 10 minutes or mod a non-pro Radeon 9500 to 9700 levels. Those ahole types are typically lacking in other qualities ... but what they have satisfies the intial wants and desires of women and that's why they are able to advance through the initial stages of a relationship.
This could be you.
HTH.
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