I guess it's different crowds. I have a large circle of console gaming friends, but they're not playing the kind of stuff I want to play. I have an even larger circle of PC gaming friends. In BF4 alone I have something like 90 people, including a half dozen or so from AT, about a dozen or so local close friends and family, and then scores of online people I met from BF3 onward.
With PS4 I might do Drive Club or something like that, but Madden/etc I could care less really. Not my cup of tea, though I can understand why many like it. The beauty of it is I don't *need* PSN to play SP games, which will be 99% of the reason I want a PS4 anyway. Story-driven exclusives, racing, sports, just stuff for me and some friends on a couch. And I can double it as a top-notch BD player and Netflix streamer as well with no PSN, for when I don't feel like switching over to the HTPC.
I gotta say though, I have a PS3, and hopefully an SSD upgrade makes the PS4 responsive. I don't use the PS3 for any media functions, hell it's now sitting on the retro shelf now mainly because it's too slow for good media use. PS4 has modern SATA support though, so it should be snappy.
You know the #1 thing I think people don't realize that will make PS4 awesome? The integrated touchpad. Instant mouse cursor that you can use for browsing, selecting, moving from scene to scene precisely, etc. A regular controller, and even a regular remote control can't replicate the awesomeness of being able to move and click. Fast forward is so last century when you can just instantly go where you want instead of FF, FF2X, FF4X, FF8X, Next Chapter, etc.