My 4s feels all around quicker than my Roomates uber Note 2. I'll take performance over specs, but hay that's just me.
*shrug*
Bully for you. There's nothing wrong with preferring an iPhone, it's just the annoying attitude of some that Apple is always the greatest, and everything else should follow the same dull pattern. Yeah sure, Samsung should still be pushing the SGS3 and Note 1 and forget releasing newer models, because boo hoo the owners of the old models will feel shamed that they don't have the latest anymore.
I actually see Apple fans get all butthurt that Apple releases an update to a product, like they were personally promised by Apple not to progress until the fan has had sufficient time to bask in "Mine's still the newest!" nerd-glory. That's an INSANE business model, and thank goodness everyone else doesn't follow it.
If the whole industry was that way and the 4S really was still the top of the heap (it isn't, not by a long shot, but by all means keep telling yourself that it is) and Samsung was afraid to release newer/better/faster for fear of stoking nerd rage- I'd be so bored with tech my eyes would glaze over and I'd probably take up pottery or something instead. But thankfully, it isn't that way. Tech evolves, and whatever anyone buys today will quickly become 'the old' vs. whatever is 'the new'. Great! That's how it should be. Keeps things interesting.