This is what I'm talking about right here. I just literally called Joe a shithead and you are asking me what is so great about him. It's like people are blind, deaf and dumb. I spent half of my day arguing with a chick yesterday. She is a Bernie supporter, and will be voting for Joe because she knows as much as she hates him he is better than Trump, but asked me for help explaining to her other Bernie supporting friends how she can convince them to vote for Joe as well. I offered to help, and asked about what the objections to Joe were.
She listed like 10. Fine, let's address the first one, which will a multi-part problem all by itself: "Joe is a warmonger like a lot of establishment Dems" Okay...what makes you say he is a warmonger? "Oh, agreeing to huge military budgets makes you a warmonger." Okay...that doesn't really fit the definition of a warmonger. To me, a warmonger is someone who either A) starts or pushes for a new war or B) wants to continue an existing war when it would be possible to end it. "No no no, spending tax money on an already bloated military budget is a warmonger, are the weapons of war just going to sit around? No, they are going to be used." Okay, so what you are saying is that a Senator who pushes for federal money for say, a submarine base (we are in CT), is every bit as bad as a person who started the Iraq War? "Yes." Okay, are you delusional? Now, knowing she is one of those rare liberals who embrace gun ownership I put it in terms that she would understand: if what you say is true, then a person who owns a gun is every bit as bad a person as someone who shoots someone else in the head. This is where cognitive dissonance sets in and after trying to say that the difference is using tax money vs. personal money (lol) she starts whining about my use of the word delusional as name-calling and accuses me of straw-manning her while actually straw-manning me. I calm her down and teach her about the differences between straw man and reductio ad absurdum and show her how she is the one building straw men and then get back to the debate: Okay so do you now concede that starting the Iraq war is worse than getting money for the submarine base? Keep in mind you are not conceding that Dems are not warmongers. You can still call them warmongers because you don't actually understand what happened with the Iraq War vote and we can get to that discussion later. You would merely be conceding that starting the Iraq war is worse than getting money for the submarine base. "No, I'll never agree to that, sorry."
Yes, real productive. Not willing to give an inch in the face of absurdity, because of the deep fear that if she concedes to that she may end up conceding to all the other reasons and end up admitting to herself that maybe she strongly believed some things based on bad information or faulty logic or emotion. This is every person in the world that can't get past their ego. Fucking robots, just like Moonbeam has been saying for years.