So, if you know someone is trying to date ur gf, what would you do?

[LordSnailz]

post a pic of all those involved, your gf, classmate and yourself. We'll tell you if she's cheating on your or not .. =)

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

Talk to her.

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

If she's entertaining the guy hitting on her, then it's her that you should deal with. Only confront the guy if she has already asked him to stop.

 

[stso]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

Talk to her.

Definately will.

 

[stso]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

If she's entertaining the guy hitting on her, then it's her that you should deal with. Only confront the guy if she has already asked him to stop.

I don't know if she did. Btw, I won't see this guy until school starts

 

[TommyVercetti]

Here what I think is actually happening

Girl has boy friend, but wants something a bit more exciting. Enter new guy. He is obviously interested in her. She catches on. He gives her his phone #. She is thinking about a short fling with him to make things interesting. Boyfriend finds out about the phone #. Boyfriend follows advice given on ATOT and asks her about it point blank. Girl suddenly realizes that "Uh-oh I wan't careful. Now I am busted". She either, A) Makes up an excuse of why that number is in there or B) Starts crying that he was very convincing and she could not resist and now she realizes that she has made a mistake. Boyfriend forgives her. She learns that inorder to cheat, she needs to be a bit more careful. She carries on cheating, but this time a bit more secretly. Guy is happy, girl is happy and boyfriend thinks he is happy.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

I sure wouldn't start calling people in her phone book or 'hacking' into her email account.

 

[stso]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

I sure wouldn't start calling people in her phone book or 'hacking' into her email account.

Then what would you do? Tell her that you knew the guy was hitting on her? I did that couple months back, but now it is happenning.

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: stso

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

I sure wouldn't start calling people in her phone book or 'hacking' into her email account.

Then what would you do? Tell her that you knew the guy was hitting on her? I did that couple months back, but now it is happenning.

You learn to trust her or dump her. A relationship is nothing without trust.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: stso

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

I sure wouldn't start calling people in her phone book or 'hacking' into her email account.

Then what would you do? Tell her that you knew the guy was hitting on her? I did that couple months back, but now it is happenning.

Either talk to her, or talk to him.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: stso

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

I sure wouldn't start calling people in her phone book or 'hacking' into her email account.

Then what would you do? Tell her that you knew the guy was hitting on her? I did that couple months back, but now it is happenning.

You learn to trust her or dump her. A relationship is nothing without trust.

exactly

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: stso

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

If she's entertaining the guy hitting on her, then it's her that you should deal with. Only confront the guy if she has already asked him to stop.

I don't know if she did. Btw, I won't see this guy until school starts

As stated. Talk to her first. If there's a problem with the guy, talk to him.

 

[dongky]

Originally posted by: stso
Btw, she did not put this guys number in her cell phone phonebook. I just happen to hit (up) button and saw it in the dialed history by accident. And since it is the number I don't recognize, I start to be suspicious about it. That's why I called.

Oh! so she's the one who called the guy in the first place.

Maybe she wanted to talk to him about an assignment or a group work of some sort. The guy must be smarter than you.
Or maybe she called the guy to tell him not to ask her out.
Or maybe she wanted to get some advice from him on what kind of gift would be cool for a guy like you.

But if you still insist that she's cheating, then move over c0ck-blocker!

 

[stso]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: stso

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: stso
Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!

If she's entertaining the guy hitting on her, then it's her that you should deal with. Only confront the guy if she has already asked him to stop.

I don't know if she did. Btw, I won't see this guy until school starts

As stated. Talk to her first. If there's a problem with the guy, talk to him.

ok

 

[TommyVercetti]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: stso


Either talk to her, or talk to him.

I don't think talking to him is such a good idea. What is he gonna say, "Why yes I am trying to date your girlfriend. But now that you have approached me, I realize my mistake and am very sorry for what I did."

 

[n0cmonkey]

These jealous/untrusting boyfriends just really bother me. I have a lot of female friends. I hang out with them. I go to movies with them. I go to dinner with them. But for some reason, these asses think that the only thing I am after is stealing my friend from them. Oh well. They learn or leave.

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
These jealous/untrusting boyfriends just really bother me. I have a lot of female friends. I hang out with them. I go to movies with them. I go to dinner with them. But for some reason, these asses think that the only thing I am after is stealing my friend from them. Oh well. They learn or leave.

anything else bothering you? Tell us how you really feel.

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
These jealous/untrusting boyfriends just really bother me. I have a lot of female friends. I hang out with them. I go to movies with them. I go to dinner with them. But for some reason, these asses think that the only thing I am after is stealing my friend from them. Oh well. They learn or leave.

anything else bothering you? Tell us how you really feel.

My knee itches.

 

[stso]

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: zippy
You hacked into her email account? Wow, okay psycho. :Q The phone is easy and probably just something you did randomly (I hope!) with no intentions of snooping (hopefully just messing with whoever it ended up being...but then you heard it was the dude)...but you went out of your way to find out some stuff about your girlfriend. Don't you trust her?

That said, if you have a good relationship with her, just ask her what the deal is. Say something like, "I heard that <insert dude's name> asked you out - is everything alright between us?" Or, if you don't think anyone knows about him asking her out, just be playing with her phone when you two are out or something and be like, "Whose number is this?"

Good luck.

good advice.

Thanks for quoting, I fogot to thank zippy for the good advise. I'll try that

 

[Beau]

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
These jealous/untrusting boyfriends just really bother me. I have a lot of female friends. I hang out with them. I go to movies with them. I go to dinner with them. But for some reason, these asses think that the only thing I am after is stealing my friend from them. Oh well. They learn or leave.

anything else bothering you? Tell us how you really feel.

My knee itches.

hehe so scratch it.

 

[BigJ]

Originally posted by: LordSnailz
post a pic of all those involved, your gf, classmate and yourself. We'll tell you if she's cheating on your or not .. =)

The only way to truly evaluate this situation

 

[n0cmonkey]

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

Originally posted by: Beau

Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
These jealous/untrusting boyfriends just really bother me. I have a lot of female friends. I hang out with them. I go to movies with them. I go to dinner with them. But for some reason, these asses think that the only thing I am after is stealing my friend from them. Oh well. They learn or leave.

anything else bothering you? Tell us how you really feel.

My knee itches.

hehe so scratch it.

And take a valuable hand away from the keyboard or mouse that I can use to annoy people?!

Might as well. Gotta catch the choochoo!

 

[dakata24]

lemme double check, you say it was in her dialed history, meaning she called him? any reason why she would be calling him if that's the case (stuff relating to class, etc?).

 

[slycat]

Here is the real deal and u have to accept this, no ifs or buts or excuses.

IF she is 100% true to u and u ONLY, she will not entertain this guy, or any other guy(..except maybe Legolas ).
entertaining=flirting=trouble

time to evaluate if the relationship is as important to her as it is to you buddy..

good luck

 

[jfall]

What did the e-mails say?