So, if you know someone is trying to date ur gf, what would you do?

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n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: stso
Well, the reason I checked her phone history is that I got suspicious about what's going on between him and her, and I was right about it.

Anyhow, how do I know if they actually go out? I don't wanna follow her :(

You didnt think to talk to her about it? Are you 12 or just a total inbred loser that cant stand to let a woman have a friend or two? Does your daddy touch you in inappropriate places? Give me one good reason you are such a moron so I can stopped being pissed about how Americans in general do not respect the right to privacy.
 

dongky

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why the hell would she even put the guys number into her cellphone if she's not going to cheat in some way.

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew! DICK ALERT! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!
 

step-dawg

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Please tell me this thread is a joke. Dude, you are a freak. she maybe your gf (and prolly won't be for long if she hears about this crap) but you don't have a right to violate her privacy like that. why didn't you just ask her up front when you got suspicious of the other guy (who is also a jerk for hitting on another guy's gf).
 

Deeko

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1) Its rude to check her phone. Its even ruder to hack her email. Don't do that. If you are suspicious, talk to her friend or something.
2) Go confront the guy
3) If your gf actually goes out with him, the relationship obviously isn't going as well for her as it is for you. Maybe you have bigger problems on your hands, such as keeping your relationship from falling apart.
 

Beau

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Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

You didnt think to talk to her about it? Are you 12 or just a total inbred loser that cant stand to let a woman have a friend or two? Does your daddy touch you in inappropriate places? Give me one good reason you are such a moron so I can stopped being pissed about how Americans in general do not respect the right to privacy.

WTF? Now who's the moron?
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: dongky
why the hell would she even put the guys number into her cellphone if she's not going to cheat in some way.

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew! DICK ALERT! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!

bwahahahahahaha! Funniest thing in the thread. Besides the parenting ability of this kid's parents... Wait, no thats just sad.
 

zCypher

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That's just sad man, you can't even trust your own gf. Or is she even your gf? Wtf are you doing with her phone?

Hacking into her email? If I were her I'd be pretty pissed about that. She is not yours. She's a person and can do what she wants, you are invading her privacy. Way too creepy. If you suspected anything to begin with, you should have just brought it up with either your "gf" or this guy. Duh. wtf.
 

stso

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It's not that I don't trust her in the beginning, but she never said a word about him. You know, we're all in the same classroom, and I also let her know that I knew this guy is trying to date her. I told her about that few month back. Now this is happenning, he's starting to ask her out.

By the way, I didn't steal her phone and look for the number. It was a Free2Go phone, and I was recharging minutes for her.
 

Hoober

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Originally posted by: KthxBye
1. Put a GPS under her car seat and retrieve it later to see where shes been!
2. Guessing the password cause you know which ones she uses does not count as hacking into her email.

Heh, true. Still has some serious trust issues, though. Talk to her.
 

Yeeny

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Originally posted by: stso
It's not that I don't trust her in the beginning, but she never said a word about him. You know, we're all in the same classroom, and I also let her know that I knew this guy is trying to date her. I told her about that few month back. Now this is happenning, he's starting to ask her out.

By the way, I didn't steal her phone and look for the number. It was a Free2Go phone, and I was recharging minutes for her.

If she had something to hide, why would she give you her phone to recharge?
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: Beau
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

You didnt think to talk to her about it? Are you 12 or just a total inbred loser that cant stand to let a woman have a friend or two? Does your daddy touch you in inappropriate places? Give me one good reason you are such a moron so I can stopped being pissed about how Americans in general do not respect the right to privacy.

WTF? Now who's the moron?

Excuse me? How many anti-privacy laws were proposed this past year? How many of these stalkers and general asshats do we have around the country? Maybe I phrased it wrong. Current Americans seem to take the right to privacy for granted and push it out of the way when it suits them. Better?
 

BatmanNate

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I don't really want to be an asshole like most the other posters in the thread, but I honestly do think that talking to her about it would be the best thing to do in this situation. I mean, granted snooping isn't justified, but if she is being solicited by another guy and you have problems with that (which is rational I assure you) then talk to her and see how she feels about it, what she thinks she should do, and let her know if you have misgivings instead of going behind her back. If you two don't see eye to eye on the issue, forcing a solution won't help.
 

TommyVercetti

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All right! Another potential cheating story. Cheating stories are just my favorite gossip subject. They are so fun to talk about.
 

GagHalfrunt

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You checked her cell phone and hacked her email? You're a scumbag. Dump her? Hell, don't worry about it, she'll be dumping your ass soon enough. You obviously have thus far fooled her into thinking you're an adult, but you can't hide the truth forever. When she finally learns what a low-life you are it's all over. I just hope she has the good sense to file a restraining order against you because you sound like a future stalker to me.
 

stso

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Btw, she did not put this guys number in her cell phone phonebook. I just happen to hit (up) button and saw it in the dialed history by accident. And since it is the number I don't recognize, I start to be suspicious about it. That's why I called.
 

stso

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Originally posted by: Adul
Just ask her point blank and simple

Are u going out with this guy? if so then we no longer should be together.

Sound like a good advise to me. I'll give it a shot. :)
 

KthxBye

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Yeesh who cares, in 100 years we'll all be dead in the cold cold ground and none of this will matter. However that tends to be my outlook on a lot of things...
 

Beau

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Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: Beau
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

You didnt think to talk to her about it? Are you 12 or just a total inbred loser that cant stand to let a woman have a friend or two? Does your daddy touch you in inappropriate places? Give me one good reason you are such a moron so I can stopped being pissed about how Americans in general do not respect the right to privacy.

WTF? Now who's the moron?

Excuse me? How many anti-privacy laws were proposed this past year? How many of these stalkers and general asshats do we have around the country? Maybe I phrased it wrong. Current Americans seem to take the right to privacy for granted and push it out of the way when it suits them. Better?

So that's strictly an American trait? Seems to me that you're make a very broad generalization.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: stso
Btw, she did not put this guys number in her cell phone phonebook. I just happen to hit (up) button and saw it in the dialed history by accident. And since it is the number I don't recognize, I start to be suspicious about it. That's why I called.

If you cannot trust her, you have some issues you need to deal with. These issues could be anything from: she has done something to make you not trust her in the past to a guilty conscience of your own. Work on that, and work with her.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: Beau
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: Beau
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey

You didnt think to talk to her about it? Are you 12 or just a total inbred loser that cant stand to let a woman have a friend or two? Does your daddy touch you in inappropriate places? Give me one good reason you are such a moron so I can stopped being pissed about how Americans in general do not respect the right to privacy.

WTF? Now who's the moron?

Excuse me? How many anti-privacy laws were proposed this past year? How many of these stalkers and general asshats do we have around the country? Maybe I phrased it wrong. Current Americans seem to take the right to privacy for granted and push it out of the way when it suits them. Better?

So that's strictly an American trait? Seems to me that you're make a very broad generalization.

Nope, but the American view on privacy is the only one I truely care to comment on.

Wired Magazine article.
 

stso

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Com'n you people. If you saw someone is hitting your GF/BF every time you turn your back to them, what would you do? Do you just pretend nothing happened? Give me a break!
 

NikPreviousAcct

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If she's told them off before and they refuse to listen to her, I ... *ahem* ... "aggressively" make my presence and wishes known.