So, if you know someone is trying to date ur gf, what would you do?

[dabuddha]

do the right thing
dump her
she's leading him on obviously if she hasn't said anything to you about it nor wrote him back telling him to buzz off

EDIT:
and btw, jesus man, you're like some psycho stalker. she should be the one dumping you

 

[jackpot]

Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Screw the idea of talking to him. You need some good concrete proof of any cheating activity. See where this thing goes. Follow them around. Take photos. There is your proof. Confront her first. Do not mention anything about photos. If she lies, show her the photos. Take photo of her facial expression as she is looking at those photos. Make a priceless picuture out of it.

haha!

Whatever you do, don't tell her how you found out.

I think you've been resting on your laurels and not been treating your girl as good as you used to, THUS, the pimp in the cadillac (not you) comes into the picture.

 

[Zombie]

haha, man you suck. Not only did you violate your GF's privacy for no good reason but also shared her private e-mail message here on the web for everyone else to read.

I can already see a "My GF dumped me..." from you in near future.

 

[Pepsei]

now, would you rather be you or the other guy?

 

[gizbug]

I'd make some calls to some friends from New York, fly them out here, and have them take care of the kid while I sat home and watched playoff football....and wait for a call from them on the way back to NYC

 

[imported_Tomato]

So what happened?

Peace,
Dezign

 

[blurredvision]

I've not bothered to read through this thread, only the first couple of replies. But I have something to say to those mad because he went through her cellphone directory. Each and everyone of you damn well know if your girlfriend (especially one you think you love) was acting suspicious, and you found a number on her cellphone (by searching or accident), that you wouldn't inquire about it as well.

I don't think I personally would've called the number rather than straight out asking her about it, but to each his own. If he wants to go through her sh!t, so be it. Don't rag on him because he can't trust his girlfriend. Going through your girlfriend's stuff results in one of two things, either one, he finds out what he is suspecting, and the girl is gone, or two, the girl catches him and gets rid of him, and the girl is gone.

If he doesn't go through her stuff, then she cheats, and breaks his heart.

The way I see it, it's a win win situation. And no, I don't go through my girlfriend's belongings. I trust her completely.

 

[LeStEr]

Tell her to tell the guy she has a BF and to back off.

 

[StageLeft]

Just because you know somebody's email address password, that is not hacking.

And who the hell do you think you are calling a number on your gf's phone just because you don't recognize it? Jesus christ man. wtf is wrong with you? Psycho in the house!

Anyway that's just my impression based on first post. I haven't read any of the thread

 

[dirtboy]

I'd do nothing.

 

[zCypher]

Keep us posted man This is my entertainment on this boring evening ok! :|

 

[anxi80]

Originally posted by: WoodchuckCharlie
I've not bothered to read through this thread, only the first couple of replies. But I have something to say to those mad because he went through her cellphone directory. Each and everyone of you damn well know if your girlfriend (especially one you think you love) was acting suspicious, and you found a number on her cellphone (by searching or accident), that you wouldn't inquire about it as well.

I don't think I personally would've called the number rather than straight out asking her about it, but to each his own. If he wants to go through her sh!t, so be it. Don't rag on him because he can't trust his girlfriend. Going through your girlfriend's stuff results in one of two things, either one, he finds out what he is suspecting, and the girl is gone, or two, the girl catches him and gets rid of him, and the girl is gone.

If he doesn't go through her stuff, then she cheats, and breaks his heart.

The way I see it, it's a win win situation. And no, I don't go through my girlfriend's belongings. I trust her completely.

nicely put. how many guys have accidentally came across something intriguing and it ate you up inside until you brought it out in the open? you dont see a wierd number in her phone and say "oh well, must be her friend jennifer at a different number." nope, from expierence you got paranoid and want to say something but dont know how to.

its not like we see something like this and say, welp, i trust her, ill stay quiet and leave it at that. some people have that ability, but a majority of us know thats b.s. its eats up or mind and a display of different scenario's run through our mind, mostly thinking the worst.

im not condoning calling the guy and asking who's on the other end, probably just confronting her would be best. but there are times in the heat of the moment when we have thought of doing drastic things. its human nature. so even though i dont agree with everything done, im not going to attack this guy and call him a stalker. there's guys who find out their g.f. is talking to someone else and track the guy down and shoot him. we all do things sometimes without fully thinking of the consequences.

 

[stso]

Originally posted by: anxi80

Originally posted by: WoodchuckCharlie
I've not bothered to read through this thread, only the first couple of replies. But I have something to say to those mad because he went through her cellphone directory. Each and everyone of you damn well know if your girlfriend (especially one you think you love) was acting suspicious, and you found a number on her cellphone (by searching or accident), that you wouldn't inquire about it as well.

I don't think I personally would've called the number rather than straight out asking her about it, but to each his own. If he wants to go through her sh!t, so be it. Don't rag on him because he can't trust his girlfriend. Going through your girlfriend's stuff results in one of two things, either one, he finds out what he is suspecting, and the girl is gone, or two, the girl catches him and gets rid of him, and the girl is gone.

If he doesn't go through her stuff, then she cheats, and breaks his heart.

The way I see it, it's a win win situation. And no, I don't go through my girlfriend's belongings. I trust her completely.

nicely put. how many guys have accidentally came across something intriguing and it ate you up inside until you brought it out in the open? you dont see a wierd number in her phone and say "oh well, must be her friend jennifer at a different number." nope, from expierence you got paranoid and want to say something but dont know how to.

its not like we see something like this and say, welp, i trust her, ill stay quiet and leave it at that. some people have that ability, but a majority of us know thats b.s. its eats up or mind and a display of different scenario's run through our mind, mostly thinking the worst.

im not condoning calling the guy and asking who's on the other end, probably just confronting her would be best. but there are times in the heat of the moment when we have thought of doing drastic things. its human nature. so even though i dont agree with everything done, im not going to attack this guy and call him a stalker. there's guys who find out their g.f. is talking to someone else and track the guy down and shoot him. we all do things sometimes without fully thinking of the consequences.

Thanks, anxi80.

Btw, as stated in many posts above that my gf is on her trip in foreign country ... there won't be any update until then ...

 

[zCypher]

Originally posted by: stso

Originally posted by: anxi80

Originally posted by: WoodchuckCharlie
I've not bothered to read through this thread, only the first couple of replies. But I have something to say to those mad because he went through her cellphone directory. Each and everyone of you damn well know if your girlfriend (especially one you think you love) was acting suspicious, and you found a number on her cellphone (by searching or accident), that you wouldn't inquire about it as well.

I don't think I personally would've called the number rather than straight out asking her about it, but to each his own. If he wants to go through her sh!t, so be it. Don't rag on him because he can't trust his girlfriend. Going through your girlfriend's stuff results in one of two things, either one, he finds out what he is suspecting, and the girl is gone, or two, the girl catches him and gets rid of him, and the girl is gone.

If he doesn't go through her stuff, then she cheats, and breaks his heart.

The way I see it, it's a win win situation. And no, I don't go through my girlfriend's belongings. I trust her completely.

nicely put. how many guys have accidentally came across something intriguing and it ate you up inside until you brought it out in the open? you dont see a wierd number in her phone and say "oh well, must be her friend jennifer at a different number." nope, from expierence you got paranoid and want to say something but dont know how to.

its not like we see something like this and say, welp, i trust her, ill stay quiet and leave it at that. some people have that ability, but a majority of us know thats b.s. its eats up or mind and a display of different scenario's run through our mind, mostly thinking the worst.

im not condoning calling the guy and asking who's on the other end, probably just confronting her would be best. but there are times in the heat of the moment when we have thought of doing drastic things. its human nature. so even though i dont agree with everything done, im not going to attack this guy and call him a stalker. there's guys who find out their g.f. is talking to someone else and track the guy down and shoot him. we all do things sometimes without fully thinking of the consequences.

Thanks, anxi80.

Btw, as stated in many posts above that my gf is on her trip in foreign country ... there won't be any update until then ...

Can't you call her?

 

[stso]

I don't think it is good idea to talk about it over the phone

 

[SCSIfreek]

Originally posted by: anxi80

Originally posted by: WoodchuckCharlie
I've not bothered to read through this thread, only the first couple of replies. But I have something to say to those mad because he went through her cellphone directory. Each and everyone of you damn well know if your girlfriend (especially one you think you love) was acting suspicious, and you found a number on her cellphone (by searching or accident), that you wouldn't inquire about it as well.

I don't think I personally would've called the number rather than straight out asking her about it, but to each his own. If he wants to go through her sh!t, so be it. Don't rag on him because he can't trust his girlfriend. Going through your girlfriend's stuff results in one of two things, either one, he finds out what he is suspecting, and the girl is gone, or two, the girl catches him and gets rid of him, and the girl is gone.

If he doesn't go through her stuff, then she cheats, and breaks his heart.

The way I see it, it's a win win situation. And no, I don't go through my girlfriend's belongings. I trust her completely.

nicely put. how many guys have accidentally came across something intriguing and it ate you up inside until you brought it out in the open? you dont see a wierd number in her phone and say "oh well, must be her friend jennifer at a different number." nope, from expierence you got paranoid and want to say something but dont know how to.

its not like we see something like this and say, welp, i trust her, ill stay quiet and leave it at that. some people have that ability, but a majority of us know thats b.s. its eats up or mind and a display of different scenario's run through our mind, mostly thinking the worst.

im not condoning calling the guy and asking who's on the other end, probably just confronting her would be best. but there are times in the heat of the moment when we have thought of doing drastic things. its human nature. so even though i dont agree with everything done, im not going to attack this guy and call him a stalker. there's guys who find out their g.f. is talking to someone else and track the guy down and shoot him. we all do things sometimes without fully thinking of the consequences.

Agreed. Many of you aint putting yourselves in his shoes. Let say you had a strange call/ received a gift box for your GF/Wife from a guy, wouldn't you get suspicious? And you had this nasty gut feelin suddenly. although going through her stuff isn't the way to go but if she's cheatin on your back, better to find out earlier than later.


--Scsi

 

[XPac]

2. Guessing the password cause you know which ones she uses does not count as hacking into her email.

Ha ha ha, no shiznit! LMFAO

 

[RegaPlanet]

As long as your gf isn't like good friends with this other guy then I'd go after him as quietly but as effectively as possible. He obviously knows he's in the wrong so confront him with whatever force you feel comfortable/necessary. Personally I'd tell him that if he tried asking my gf out to anything that he wouldn't be walking around much longer nor have the ability to ask out anyone after but there are some guys out there who could end up doing this to you even when you wish to do it to them. Anyway there are other ways to confront him verbally however I have no idea what to say cause I usually just yell at or strangle people like this. Really I just say if you want him out of the picture then deal with him... dealing with this through your gf could cause trouble(privacy/trust issues). Girls are nuts, guys are just stupid. Deal with your own kind, it's easier.

 

[RegaPlanet]

plus if you end up getting beat up you can make up some story about how he kicked your ass and said he was gonna take your gf

EDIT: BTW, I do not live in a trailer park, I'm just very caveman'ish like.

 

[LaLaLand]

I'm tryin to date someones girl.

 

[SnapIT]

Checking her e-mail, her phone, calling up numbers to see who it is...

I doubt it will matter what you do, if she's got any brains, she will get as far away from you that she can...

You definently need help...

 

[CraigRT]

So, if you know someone is trying to date ur gf, what would you do?

spend more time with her so the other person can't

 

[Krueger81]

a question no-one has asked yet. ( I Hope)

GOT PICS???

 

[ndee]

Originally posted by: GirlFriday

Originally posted by: stso
It's not that I don't trust her in the beginning, but she never said a word about him. You know, we're all in the same classroom, and I also let her know that I knew this guy is trying to date her. I told her about that few month back. Now this is happenning, he's starting to ask her out.

By the way, I didn't steal her phone and look for the number. It was a Free2Go phone, and I was recharging minutes for her.

If she had something to hide, why would she give you her phone to recharge?

because women aren't THAT smart and btw, HE is recharging HER phone so... haha

uncJigga, your post cracked me up

and if you're both 25, I have to say: go back to Kindergarten, or you at least.

 

[ElDonAntonio]

hey what's her first name?